Theme
Rites of Spring Lyrics


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Cruelty is the better part of your honesty
And when you're so direct its just for yourself to protect
And if I started crying, would you start crying?
Now I started crying - why are you not crying?

Sometimes--when I--see a world inside
Sometimes--when I--I try--I really try
And hope's just another rope to hang myself with
To tie me down till something real comes around




And if I started crying would you start crying?
And if I started crying why are you not crying?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Rites of Spring's "Theme" reveal a deep sense of desperation and loneliness. The opening line, "Cruelty is the better part of your honesty," suggests that the person being addressed is harsh and unforgiving in their honesty. This cruelty is used to protect themselves from the vulnerability that comes with being truly honest, but it also leaves the singer feeling isolated and alone.


The second stanza of the song expresses the singer's attempt to find meaning and solace in the world around them. They see a "world inside" that they try to connect with, but ultimately feel disconnected from. The line "And hope's just another rope to hang myself with" suggests that even hope, often seen as a positive force, can be a source of pain and despair.


The final stanza repeats the question from earlier in the song, "And if I started crying, would you start crying? And if I started crying, why are you not crying?" This repetition reinforces the disconnect between the singer and the person they are addressing. It's unclear if the tears are from sadness, frustration, or anger, but the lack of emotional response from the other person only serves to heighten the singer's feelings of isolation.


Overall, "Theme" is a powerful exploration of loneliness and the difficulty of finding connection in a world that can feel harsh and unforgiving. The repeated questions about crying underscore the singer's deep sense of longing for a genuine emotional connection.


Line by Line Meaning

Cruelty is the better part of your honesty
You believe that being harsh and unkind is a necessary part of being truthful


And when you're so direct its just for yourself to protect
You speak bluntly and honestly to protect yourself, not necessarily to benefit the person you are talking to


And if I started crying, would you start crying?
If I showed emotion, would you be affected by it or remain disconnected?


Now I started crying - why are you not crying?
I am showing emotion, but you are not responding with empathy


Sometimes--when I--see a world inside
Occasionally, when I introspect, I envision an internal world


Sometimes--when I--I try--I really try
During these times of introspection, I attempt to make sense of the world inside


And hope's just another rope to hang myself with
Feeling hopeful can lead me to disappointment and despair if reality does not live up to my expectations


To tie me down till something real comes around
Hope can hold me back from pursuing real, tangible solutions to problems until something hopeful appears


And if I started crying would you start crying?
I wonder if seeing me cry would make you emotional as well


And if I started crying why are you not crying?
I am surprised and hurt that you are not showing any emotional response when I need it




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