Alleen Is Maar Alleen
Rob De Nijs Lyrics


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Daar sta je dan alleen
Vrienden zeggen me, je komt er wel doorheen
Sinds je wegging weet ik niet meer wat ik doe
Ik leef niet meer, ik ben moe
Maar wat doet het er nog toe
Ik slaap haast niet meer 's nachts
Elke morgen naar kantoor om kwart voor acht
's avonds uit de diepvries, kant en klaar
De hond een brok tartaar
Mijn go, was jij hier maar

Want alleen is maar alleen
Ik kan niet leven met die stilte om mij heen
Waar ik ga of waar ik sta of waar ik ben
Op straat of in de tram
Ik hoor overal je stem
En doof ik 's nachts het licht
Dan droom ik dat je naast me ligt

Okay, je bent nu vrij
Maar ben je echt zoveel vrijer dan bij mij?
Ook met hem wordt het leven op den duur een sleur
En wijst hij je dan de deur
Dan sta jij alleen

Want alleen is maar alleen
Soms vertel ik het de mensen om me heen
Kom terug voordat mijn wereld is vergaan
Ik smeek je, kijk mij aan
Wat heb ik je misdaan




Nee, hou je maar stil
Ik voel nu wel dat jij me nooit meer wil

Overall Meaning

In Rob De Nijs's song Alleen Is Maar Alleen, the singer stands alone, lost and tired, with nothing to live for. Losing his love has thrown him into an abyss of loneliness, unable to get a grip on his life. He struggles to sleep at night and has to go to work every morning at eight, coming home to a frozen dinner and feeding his dog. He wishes more than anything that his love was with him so that he would not be so alone. The chorus repeats the idea that being alone is a terrible feeling, and there is nowhere he can go without hearing his love's voice. When he turns off the lights at night, he dreams of his ex-partner's embrace.


The second verse of the song is a plea from the singer to his partner, who now lives a life on her own. He questions whether her life without him is genuinely better because one day she too will face the monotony of life and possibly end up alone. He warns her that she cannot keep running forever and one day will stop, alone with nowhere else to go. The singer sings that while he still misses her, the idea of her returning is now more unlikely than ever.


Line by Line Meaning

Daar sta je dan alleen
The singer is alone and feeling lost.


Vrienden zeggen me, je komt er wel doorheen
Friends are trying to console the singer and offer hope.


Sinds je wegging weet ik niet meer wat ik doe
The singer is struggling to find meaning and direction without their loved one.


Ik leef niet meer, ik ben moe
The artist feels like they are merely existing and is exhausted by the pain they feel.


Maar wat doet het er nog toe
The artist is questioning the point of anything anymore since they feel so broken.


Ik slaap haast niet meer 's nachts
The singer is experiencing insomnia and struggling to find rest.


Elke morgen naar kantoor om kwart voor acht
The singer has a routine and life continues, but it feels empty and pointless without their loved one.


's avonds uit de diepvries, kant en klaar
The artist is going through the motions of daily life, but in a detached and unfeeling way.


De hond een brok tartaar
Even the artist's pet is a reminder of the person they miss and long for.


Mijn go, was jij hier maar
The artist wishes their loved one was still present with them and imagines how things could be different.


Want alleen is maar alleen
The singer believes that being alone means being incomplete and unsatisfied.


Ik kan niet leven met die stilte om mij heen
The artist is struggling with the emptiness and quiet of being alone.


Waar ik ga of waar ik sta of waar ik ben
The singer is haunted by memories of their loved one no matter where they go or what they do.


Op straat of in de tram
Even in public places, the singer is reminded of their lost relationship.


Ik hoor overal je stem
The singer imagines hearing their loved one's voice and is tormented by its absence.


En doof ik 's nachts het licht
Even in the darkness of night, the artist can't escape their loss.


Dan droom ik dat je naast me ligt
The artist dreams of their loved one being close to them once again and finds comfort in this.


Okay, je bent nu vrij
The singer acknowledges that their loved one is no longer with them and has chosen a different path.


Maar ben je echt zoveel vrijer dan bij mij?
The singer wonders if being without them is really making their loved one happier.


Ook met hem wordt het leven op den duur een sleur
The artist believes that even if their loved one is with someone new, they will eventually experience the same routine and boredom in life.


En wijst hij je dan de deur
The artist imagines their loved one being rejected by someone else, and worries for them.


Dan sta jij alleen
The artist believes that their loved one will be alone again, just like they feel now.


Soms vertel ik het de mensen om me heen
The singer confides in others about their struggles and pain.


Kom terug voordat mijn wereld is vergaan
The artist pleads for their loved one to return, believing that they can't go on without them.


Ik smeek je, kijk mij aan
The singer begs for their loved one's attention, desperate for any connection or acknowledgement.


Wat heb ik je misdaan
The singer is confused and feels undeserving of being left behind.


Nee, hou je maar stil
The singer tries to silence their own pleas and emotions, knowing that they won't change the situation.


Ik voel nu wel dat jij me nooit meer wil
The artist has accepted that their loved one has moved on and doesn't want to be with them anymore.




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Comments from YouTube:

Judas Massie

Mooi! Veel fijne herinneringen verzachten onze smart.

Bert Hogewoning

Ik ben zo blij en gelukkig dat ik al 35 samen ben met mijn eerste grootste liefde,ik zal nooit zonder haar kunnen.

captainkid1

Bedankt voor de upload

Noël Christ

Mijn echtgenote is overleden op 11 juni 2019.
En alleen is maar alleen
De stilte om me heen is soms ondraaglijk
Ik ben moe
Ik slaap haast haast niet meer 's nachts
Soms hoor ik overal je stem
Het leven is niet eerlijk
Maar ik troost me dat je geen pijn meer hebt

petra de graaf

Het is nu 20 21
Hoe gaat het nu met jou

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Hanjo Heesters

Alsof ik naar mezelf kijk haha

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