Hey Brother
Robben Ford Lyrics


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Hey, brother
It's been too long
So I put out my hand
I was wrong
But tell me
Where to from here
You won't say a word
And you won't come near

We've got history
You deny it
And this silence that you keep
Speaks loud and clear

So we've found someone to blame
And nothing is going to change

Hey, friend
Don't turn your back

Hey, brother
We're wasting time
I hurt you, now you hurt me
It's a life of crime
The problem I think is pride
No one's willing to lose , we defend
Or run and hide

It's our destiny
To take the open road
We don't have to walk
That road alone

It's the things we have at stake
Here behind the noise we make

Oh, friend
Don't turn your back
While I watched you slip away
I know love lies sleeping

My friend
Forgive the past
Let the good things last
And brother together we can move on

Hey, brother
So far away
If our paths should cross
What would you say

I tell you
Say it now




Or we'll lose the grace,
That time has allowed

Overall Meaning

The song Hey Brother by Robben Ford is a powerful and emotional piece about a relationship that has been strained due to pride and past hurt. The song opens with the lyrics “Hey, brother, it's been too long, so I put out my hand, I was wrong. But tell me, where to from here, you won't say a word, and you won't come near.” Here, the singer acknowledges that he has made a mistake and is reaching out to his brother for forgiveness, but his brother is unwilling to communicate or even be near him.


Throughout the song, the singer reflects on their shared history and accuses his brother of denying their relationship. The theme of pride is prominent throughout the song, with the singer suggesting that it is the root cause of their conflict. He acknowledges that both of them have hurt each other, but neither is willing to back down and let go of their pride. The chorus repeats the phrase “Hey, friend, don't turn your back,” emphasizing the importance of not giving up on their relationship.


As the song progresses, the singer appeals to his brother’s emotions and begs for forgiveness. He acknowledges that their relationship is worth fighting for and that they shouldn’t let pride get in the way of repairing it. He sings, “My friend, forgive the past, let the good things last, and brother together, we can move on.” The song ends on a poignant note, with the singer asking his brother to speak up and save their relationship before it’s too late.


Overall, Hey Brother is a beautiful and moving song that explores the complex dynamics of family relationships and the power of forgiveness.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey, brother
Addressing the listener with a sense of familiarity and closeness


It's been too long
We haven't talked in a while


So I put out my hand
Reaching out and trying to make amends


I was wrong
Acknowledging past mistakes and shortcomings


But tell me
Asking for clarity or direction


Where to from here
What can we do to move forward?


You won't say a word
The listener is not communicating or responding


And you won't come near
The listener is avoiding any contact or interaction


We've got history
We have a shared past, good or bad


You deny it
The listener is rejecting or ignoring the past


And this silence that you keep
The lack of communication is telling


Speaks loud and clear
The message is clear even without words


So we've found someone to blame
We are looking for someone to hold responsible


And nothing is going to change
We are not making any progress


Hey, friend
Addressing the listener with a sense of camaraderie and warmth


Don't turn your back
Don't ignore me or walk away


We're wasting time
Our lack of progress is frustrating and unproductive


I hurt you, now you hurt me
We are both hurting each other


It's a life of crime
Our behavior is hurtful and destructive


The problem I think is pride
Our unwillingness to admit fault or vulnerability is problematic


No one's willing to lose , we defend
We are both defensive and unwilling to compromise


Or run and hide
We are avoiding confrontation or resolution


It's our destiny
It is our fate or path to follow


To take the open road
To embrace new opportunities or directions


We don't have to walk
We can support each other and not go it alone


That road alone
We don't have to face the challenges ahead by ourselves


It's the things we have at stake
There are important things we could lose or risk by not moving forward


Here behind the noise we make
Behind our angry words and actions, there may be something worth saving


Oh, friend
Addressing the listener with affection and warmth


While I watched you slip away
I saw you move further away from me over time


I know love lies sleeping
I believe our love or connection is still there, even if dormant or hidden


My friend
Addressing the listener with affection and warmth


Forgive the past
Let go of past grievances or conflicts


Let the good things last
Focus on the positive aspects of our relationship


And brother together we can move on
We can support each other and make progress


Hey, brother
Addressing the listener with a sense of familiarity and closeness


So far away
Distance or time has kept us apart


If our paths should cross
If we happen to see each other again


What would you say
What is your response or reaction?


I tell you
Making a request or stating something important


Say it now
Don't wait, speak honestly


Or we'll lose the grace
We could lose the opportunity for forgiveness or reconciliation


That time has allowed
The chance we were given to make things right




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: DAVID HURST BATTEAU, ROBBEN FORD

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