If Only
Rod Stewart Lyrics


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If only I'd ever listened
to all of my closest friends,
and knew that it was over
and the party had to end.
If only, I'd have noticed
the sadness in your eyes,
she'd still be in my arms tonight
if only.

If only I'd have realized
the unimprotance of being cool,
to give a kiss,
maybe just say,
"Darling I love you."
If only I'd said I'm sorry
I'd have been a much better man,
she'd still be in my arms tonight,

if only.
There's an emptiness
that fills my heart
now that she's not here.
I loved her more than my own life,
something I've always feared,
if only.

If only I'd come home at night
instead of stayin' out for one more drink,
if only I'd been unconcerned
what the other guys may think,
if only I'd held her tight,
but I guess it's too late now.
Oh how blind can one man be,
if only.
Whoa but I will not be sad
after all the fun we've had.
You live some
and you learn some, if only.

If only I could convince her
the importance of one more chance,
if only God would allow me
one more celestial dance,
If only I have the nerve
to call her up and tell her how I feel,
she'd still be in my arms tonight,
if only.

But it's only love
and love ain't real,
it's only a four letter word.
We spend half our lives chasing after it,
how wonderf'ly absurd,
if only.

Oo whoa but I will not be sad
after all the fun we had.
You live some and you learn some,
whoa but I will not be sad
after all the fun we had.
You live some and you learn some,
you learn some. if only.





If only I'd come home at night
instead of stayin' for one more drink

Overall Meaning

The song If Only by Rod Stewart delves into regret, loss, and the importance of recognizing and taking action before it is too late. The lyrics describe a scenario where the singer is reflecting on his past relationship and realizing that there were many things he could have done differently to keep the love of his life in his arms. The lines "If only I'd ever listened / to all of my closest friends" indicate that the singer ignored some wise counsel and delayed in ending a relationship that was already over. Similarly, the singer laments not being able to recognize "the sadness in your eyes" and failing to show appreciation for his partner.


Another theme that emerges is the idea of masculinity and vulnerability. The singer realizes that he was too concerned with being "cool" and detached to show affection or even apologize when he was wrong. The lines "if only I'd held her tight / but I guess it's too late now" convey the regret of not being physically present with his partner when she needed him the most. The song also highlights the fleeting and elusive nature of love, with the line "it's only love / and love ain't real / it's only a four letter word" suggesting that the singer's realization has come too late.


Line by Line Meaning

If only I'd ever listened to all of my closest friends
I regret not heeding my friends' advice about the end of our relationship


And knew that it was over and the party had to end
I failed to acknowledge that our relationship was ending and I should've moved on


If only, I'd have noticed the sadness in your eyes
I should have paid closer attention to my partner and could have prevented the end of our relationship


She'd still be in my arms tonight if only
I regret the end of my relationship and wish we were still together


If only I'd have realized the unimportance of being cool
I should have prioritized my relationship over trying to be cool


To give a kiss, maybe just say, "Darling I love you"
I should have shown my partner more affection and expressed my love for them more often


If only I'd said I'm sorry I'd have been a much better man
I regret my mistakes and know that apologizing would have been the right thing to do


There's an emptiness that fills my heart now that she's not here
I feel a sense of sadness and loneliness since the end of our relationship


I loved her more than my own life, something I've always feared, if only
I regret not expressing my love and fear losing someone so important to me


If only I'd come home at night instead of stayin' out for one more drink
I neglected my relationship by prioritizing other things, such as drinking with friends, over spending time with my partner


If only I'd been unconcerned what the other guys may think
I placed too much importance on the opinions of others, rather than prioritizing my relationship


If only I'd held her tight, but I guess it's too late now
I wish I had been more affectionate and attentive to my partner, but now the opportunity is gone


Oh how blind can one man be, if only
I realize my mistakes and how my lack of attention and affection led to the end of our relationship


If only I could convince her the importance of one more chance
I regret losing my partner and want another chance to show her how much I care


If only God would allow me one more celestial dance
I wish for another opportunity to be with my partner and dance together


If only I have the nerve to call her up and tell her how I feel
I want to express my love and regret to my partner, but I'm unsure if I have the courage to do so


But it's only love and love ain't real, it's only a four letter word
I failed to appreciate the true value and depth of love, and now I realize it was only a word to me


We spend half our lives chasing after it, how wonderf'ly absurd, if only
I see how many people prioritize finding love, but often fail to appreciate it when they have it and only recognize its value after it's gone


You learn some, if only
I've realized my mistakes and wish I had acted differently in my relationship




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Songtrust Ave
Written by: JIM CREGAN, KEVIN SAVIGAR, ROD STEWART

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Comments from YouTube:

vitordragon

One of the best in Rod´s career. My list would include "Strangers again", "My girl", "I was only joking", "Broken arrow" and "Ten days of rain" among the songs known only by true fans.

RodStewartfan1

I AGREE!!!

Mark Williams

Most underrated song of all time.

stan dawson

Fantastic Rod track,does,nt do it enough at his live shows,right up there with the best ever !

Nuno Rua

Grande balada e um voz inesquecível!!!

Dorothy Kuveke

This is my first time hearing the song If only and I love it ❤️ I think most of your fans would agree that when it comes to singit about heartache or losing someone you truly love when you sing your fans as well as me feel your pain💔. Rod that is a special gift to be able to express your emotions through a song. You got everything in there from how you felt about her to what you did wrong to recovering to finally realizing the mistakes you made. I don't know any other artists that can do that💯 put all those emotions in a 2 minute song. Job well done 🎶🌹🎶☘️

M L

Greatest Rod Stewart song by far!

Emerson Rocha

Que solo maravilhoso meu Deus.

Vera Lucia Pinto Rios

Belíssimo ❤

Mark Nicholls

My mum passed away on November the 5th and I reckon she was probably the shortest adult female to adore Rod Stewart lol ..these lyrics say how sad I am every day for the loss ..all you people.out there who still have your mum tell them every day you love them ..everyday cause it could be your last chance

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