Perfect Man
Rufus Wainwright Lyrics


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After another production of “The Flying Dutchman”
I landed in Berlin
Thinking over it over it how can I get over it
And wonder what state I’m in
Sissi was the anarchist empress of Austria
And I was in the same state that she was in
Thinking over it over it how can I get over it
And where the hell’s that fan

After another induction to the hall of famine
I closed the magazine
Thinking over and over it how can I get over it
And be German and mean
Jenny was a pirate and Jane was beheaded and Nina was a sweet nymphomaniac
And with them in my corner I’m sure that it’s a tall order
To find that perfect man

I’m doing all that I can
Trying to make all the roses bloom in unison
Say I’m gonna blow you away
Making all of the roses bloom so step away
Making all of the roses bloom

After another unveiling of the bright red herring
I walked down Rufus Street
Thinking over it over it how can I get over it
And where in the world will I meet
That literary, lean, stripe suited lover
I’ve read about all of my life
Which I fear is a ruse and explains
All the walks through all the parks of Europe
And why I never will tell you “I love you”
And why there is just but
A vision of perfect man

I’m doing all that I can
Making all of the roses bloom in unison
Say I’m gonna blow you away
Making all of the roses bloom so step away




And be dazzled
Making all of the roses bloom

Overall Meaning

The song "Perfect Man" by Rufus Wainwright seems to be a reflection on the difficulties of finding the perfect partner. Wainwright begins by mentioning a production of "The Flying Dutchman," which likely refers to the Wagnerian opera about a cursed sailor doomed to sail forever until he finds a woman who will love him unconditionally. This idea of eternal searching for love is reflected in Wainwright's own feelings of being in a perpetual state of wondering how to get over his current state and find the ideal partner.


Wainwright also mentions several historical figures, including Empress Sissi of Austria, Jenny the pirate, Jane who was beheaded, and Nina the nymphomaniac. These figures may represent different aspects of the ideal partner, but ultimately Wainwright acknowledges that finding that perfect man is a tall order, especially when considering the many parks he has walked through in Europe without finding the one for him. He ends with the hopeful chorus of "Making all of the roses bloom in unison," which could represent his efforts to cultivate love and create a perfect relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

After another production of “The Flying Dutchman”
After another show, I arrived in Berlin


Thinking over it over it how can I get over it
Worrying about how to move on


And wonder what state I’m in
Questioning my emotional state


Sissi was the anarchist empress of Austria
Referencing a historical figure


And I was in the same state that she was in
Feeling the same way as Sissi did


And where the hell’s that fan
Wondering where a lost item is


After another induction to the hall of famine
Having experienced disappointment again


I closed the magazine
Reacting to the negativity


And be German and mean
Wanting to be tough and strong


Jenny was a pirate and Jane was beheaded and Nina was a sweet nymphomaniac
Mentioning fictional characters


And with them in my corner I’m sure that it’s a tall order
Recognizing the challenge of finding a partner


To find that perfect man
Wanting to find an ideal partner


Trying to make all the roses bloom in unison
Striving for perfection


Say I’m gonna blow you away
Expressing confidence


Making all of the roses bloom so step away
Demanding attention


After another unveiling of the bright red herring
Experiencing disappointment again


I walked down Rufus Street
Reflecting while walking


And where in the world will I meet
Wondering where to find a partner


That literary, lean, stripe suited lover
Describing an ideal partner


I’ve read about all of my life
Having high expectations


Which I fear is a ruse and explains
Feeling suspicious


All the walks through all the parks of Europe
Reflecting on past experiences


And why I never will tell you “I love you”
Finding it difficult to express emotions


And why there is just but
Acknowledging a lack of perfection


A vision of perfect man
Only having an idea of an ideal partner


And be dazzled
Wanting to impress


Making all of the roses bloom
Striving for perfection




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: RUFUS WAINWRIGHT

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