he ain't heavy he's my brother
Rufus Wainwright Lyrics


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The road is long
With many a winding turn
That leads us to who knows where
Who knows when
But I'm strong
Strong enough to carry him
He ain't heavy, he's my brother.
So on we go
His welfare is my concern
No burden is he to bear
We'll get there
For I know
He would not encumber me
He ain't heavy he's my brother

If I'm laden at all
I'm laden with sadness
That everyone's heart
Isn't filled with the gladness
Of love for one another.

It's a long, long road
From which there is no return
While we're on the way to there
Why not share
And the load
Doesn't weigh me down at all
He ain't heavy
He ain't heavy
He ain't heavy
He's my brother




He's my brother
He's my brother

Overall Meaning

Rufus Wainwright's song "My Brother" is a powerful message that communicates the importance of helping one another. The first stanza of the lyrics highlights the uncertainty and unpredictability of the road of life, how it can be winding and leads us to unknown places at unknown times. However, the singer is strong enough to help his brother, take care of him and carry him along the way, and he does not consider it a burden. The next stanza emphasizes the fact that the welfare of his brother is his priority, and he does not feel weighed down by the responsibility of looking out for him. The singer asserts that his brother is not a hindrance to him and that they will reach their destination together.


The chorus line, "He ain't heavy, he's my brother," is a powerful message that underscores the theme of the song that love and compassion for one another should make the journey of life lighter. It communicates the idea that no matter the location, circumstance, or burden, one should look out for their fellow man and carry their weight alongside them. The third stanza of the lyrics reveals the singer's sadness that not everyone's hearts are filled with the gladness of love for one another, which makes life's journey a bit tougher for some. The last stanza enforces the idea that life's journey is long and arduous, but it would be more bearable if we helped one another and shared the load.


Line by Line Meaning

The road is long
Life is full of challenges and unknowns.


With many a winding turn
There are many twists and turns in life that can lead us astray.


That leads us to who knows where
We never really know where life will take us.


Who knows when
We never really know when things will happen.


But I'm strong
Despite these uncertainties, I have inner strength.


Strong enough to carry him
I have the strength to help my brother when he needs it.


He ain't heavy, he's my brother.
My brother is not a burden, but someone I love and care for.


So on we go
We keep moving forward in life.


His welfare is my concern
I care for my brother's well-being.


No burden is he to bear
I do not see my brother as a burden to carry.


We'll get there
Together, we will make it through difficult times.


For I know
I believe in my brother and his ability to overcome challenges.


He would not encumber me
My brother's struggles do not weigh me down.


If I'm laden at all
If I am carrying any weight at all,


I'm laden with sadness
It is the sadness of others that weighs on me.


That everyone's heart
The emotional state of all people.


Isn't filled with the gladness
Is not full of joy and love.


Of love for one another.
The love and care we feel for one another can lighten the burden of life.


It's a long, long road
Life can be a difficult journey.


From which there is no return
Once we have lived and passed on, there is no going back.


While we're on the way to there
While we are still alive and moving through life,


Why not share
Why not share the journey and help each other along the way.


And the load
The burden of life and its challenges.


Doesn't weigh me down at all
The love and support of my brother helps me carry the load.


He ain't heavy
My brother is not a burden to me.


He's my brother
He is someone I care for deeply and will always be there for.




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Written by: Bob Russell, Bobby Scott

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@jk8226

The road is long
With many a winding turn
That leads us to who knows where
Who knows where
But I'm strong
Strong enough to carry him
He ain't heavy, he's my brother
So on we go
His welfare is of my concern
No burden is he to bear
We'll get there
For I know
He would not encumber me
He ain't heavy, he's my brother
If I'm laden at all
I'm laden with sadness
That everyone's heart
Isn't filled with the gladness
Of love for one another
It's a long, long road
From which there is no return
While we're on the way to there
Why not share
And the load
Doesn't weigh me down at all
He ain't heavy he's my brother
He's my brother
He ain't heavy, he's my brother, he ain't heavy



All comments from YouTube:

@AaronHarkonnen

got a pic of me in 1981, brothers on my lap and thats what was written on the bottom of the Polaroid

@casperbass68

Strings. Vocals. The whole thing. ❤️

@dleew1774

I love Rufus..this version is so good.  Shout out for the arrangement and the background vocalists...Just beautiful...

@frannynobrain

That voice! If your having a bad moment, just listen to Rufus...Beautiful.

@Gabreya

I heard this song on "Zoolander". Such a very beautiful and moving song.

@hughmiller9839

Rufus should just cover every song ever made. He has one of the greatest voices of all time. He the very definition of underrated.

@wrathofme03

yup. agreed

@3riversgirl777

I agree! Great voice & arraignment

@catalinabusla1151

Incredible talent! Amazing voice! Gorgeous Rufus

@claumouz

Rufus' voice is so special because it touches people's hearts. It's not only technique, but sensitivity

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