Welcome To My Party
Rusted Root Lyrics


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It ain't me
You were looking for
You stood upon it
And then you walked away
From the door

And I thought that bell would ring twice
but now I know for sure
that it ain't me
you were looking for

Welcome to my party for ya
Welcome to my party for ya
Welcome
x2
To my party for you

Cause you hooked by heart
until it tore
I had to burn the house down
just to get through the door

'Cause I thought that bell would ring twice
but now I know for sure
that it ain't me
you were looking for

Welcome to my party for ya
Welcome to my party for ya
Welcome...
x2
To my party for you

You gotta bleed your own blood
to get on through that fire
You gotta ways to go

Welcome x2
'Cause it ain't me, yea
Well it ain't me, yea
did you bait the love?




Welcome...Welcome
'Cause it ain't me, yea

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Rusted Root's "Welcome to My Party" express a sense of rejection and betrayal, as the singer addresses someone who has come to their party but has previously spurned them. The opening lines suggest that the person seeking entrance had earlier been looking for the singer but subsequently abandoned them: "It ain't me / You were looking for / You stood upon it / And then you walked away / From the door." The singer had expected the person to come back, but has now come to accept that they were not the person's destination, as the bell did not ring twice.


Despite this hurt, the singer welcomes the person to their party, but not without expressing the pain they have experienced. Here, the theme of sacrifice emerges, as the singer notes that the person had hooked them by the heart until it tore, requiring the singer to burn the house down just to get through the door. This may suggest that the singer has had to jettison aspects of their own identity or relationships in order to move forward. The repetition of the chorus, "Welcome to my party for you," comes across as a double-edged sword, both welcoming and somewhat sarcastic.


The final lines about "bleeding your own blood" and "getting through that fire" suggest that the only way forward is by experiencing one's own pain and overcoming it. Overall, the song presents a complex mix of emotions, ranging from rejection and betrayal to hopefulness and sacrifice.


Line by Line Meaning

It ain't me
I am not who you are seeking


You were looking for
You had a preconceived notion of who I was


You stood upon it
You had expectations that were not met


And then you walked away
You left after realizing I was not what you wanted


From the door
You did not come inside to explore further


And I thought that bell would ring twice
I believed there was a chance for another opportunity


but now I know for sure
I have come to the realization that it won't happen


that it ain't me
I am not the person you are seeking


Welcome to my party for ya
I am extending an invitation to you


Cause you hooked by heart
You were emotionally invested


until it tore
Until it fell apart


I had to burn the house down
I had to start over completely


just to get through the door
In order to welcome someone new


You gotta bleed your own blood
You have to put in the effort on your own


to get on through that fire
To make it through struggles and hardships


You gotta ways to go
You still have a lot to learn and experience


did you bait the love?
Did you falsely lure me in with your love?


'Cause it ain't me, yea
I am not responsible for the outcome




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Michael Glabicki, Jenn Wertz, Jim Donovan, Patrick Norman, John Buynak, Liz Berlin

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