Welcome To My Party
Rusted Root Lyrics
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You were looking for
You stood upon it
And then you walked away
From the door
And I thought that bell would ring twice
but now I know for sure
you were looking for
Welcome to my party for ya
Welcome to my party for ya
Welcome
x2
To my party for you
Cause you hooked by heart
until it tore
I had to burn the house down
just to get through the door
'Cause I thought that bell would ring twice
but now I know for sure
that it ain't me
you were looking for
Welcome to my party for ya
Welcome to my party for ya
Welcome...
x2
To my party for you
You gotta bleed your own blood
to get on through that fire
You gotta ways to go
Welcome x2
'Cause it ain't me, yea
Well it ain't me, yea
did you bait the love?
Welcome...Welcome
'Cause it ain't me, yea
The lyrics to Rusted Root's "Welcome to My Party" express a sense of rejection and betrayal, as the singer addresses someone who has come to their party but has previously spurned them. The opening lines suggest that the person seeking entrance had earlier been looking for the singer but subsequently abandoned them: "It ain't me / You were looking for / You stood upon it / And then you walked away / From the door." The singer had expected the person to come back, but has now come to accept that they were not the person's destination, as the bell did not ring twice.
Despite this hurt, the singer welcomes the person to their party, but not without expressing the pain they have experienced. Here, the theme of sacrifice emerges, as the singer notes that the person had hooked them by the heart until it tore, requiring the singer to burn the house down just to get through the door. This may suggest that the singer has had to jettison aspects of their own identity or relationships in order to move forward. The repetition of the chorus, "Welcome to my party for you," comes across as a double-edged sword, both welcoming and somewhat sarcastic.
The final lines about "bleeding your own blood" and "getting through that fire" suggest that the only way forward is by experiencing one's own pain and overcoming it. Overall, the song presents a complex mix of emotions, ranging from rejection and betrayal to hopefulness and sacrifice.
Line by Line Meaning
It ain't me
I am not who you are seeking
You were looking for
You had a preconceived notion of who I was
You stood upon it
You had expectations that were not met
And then you walked away
You left after realizing I was not what you wanted
From the door
You did not come inside to explore further
And I thought that bell would ring twice
I believed there was a chance for another opportunity
but now I know for sure
I have come to the realization that it won't happen
that it ain't me
I am not the person you are seeking
Welcome to my party for ya
I am extending an invitation to you
Cause you hooked by heart
You were emotionally invested
until it tore
Until it fell apart
I had to burn the house down
I had to start over completely
just to get through the door
In order to welcome someone new
You gotta bleed your own blood
You have to put in the effort on your own
to get on through that fire
To make it through struggles and hardships
You gotta ways to go
You still have a lot to learn and experience
did you bait the love?
Did you falsely lure me in with your love?
'Cause it ain't me, yea
I am not responsible for the outcome
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Michael Glabicki, Jenn Wertz, Jim Donovan, Patrick Norman, John Buynak, Liz Berlin
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