Woman In Love
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I knew the time had to come
When I'd be held under your thumb
I'm like a pawn in your hand
Moved and compelled, at your command
Whether it's for bad or for good
I would never change it if I could

Maybe I'm right, maybe I'm wrong
Maybe I'm weak, maybe I'm strong
But nevertheless I'm in love with you
Maybe I'll win, maybe I'll lose
And maybe I'm in for crying the blues
But nevertheless I'm in love with you

Somehow, I know at a glance, the terrible chances I'm taking
Fine at the start, then left with a heart that is breaking

Maybe I'll live a life of regret
And maybe I'll give much more than I get
But nevertheless, I'm in love with you

Somehow, I know at a glance, the terrible chances I'm taking
Fine at the start, then left with a heart that is breaking

Maybe I'll live a life of regret




And maybe I'll give much more than I get
But nevertheless, I'm in love with you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ruth's song "Woman In Love" depict the singer's surrender to love, even when it may bring about pain or heartbreak. The first verse portrays a sense of vulnerability and powerlessness that comes with being in love. The woman acknowledges that she is under her lover's control, just like a pawn in a game of chess. Despite this recognition, she doesn't want to change anything about it.


In the chorus, the singer reflects on the uncertainty that comes with love. She acknowledges that there could be both triumph and failure, joy and sorrow. However, in both cases, she knows that she is in love with her partner. The second verse continues this theme, inferring that the woman is aware of the risks involved in being in love. She knows that the relationship may not last, and it could potentially leave her heartbroken. Regardless of the challenges, she is still in love.


The lyrics suggest that the woman has a clear understanding of the power dynamics in her relationship. Although she may be sacrificing more than what she is receiving, she has accepted this reality to be in love. The song communicates a compelling message that conveys the depth and power of love, even in the face of vulnerability.


Line by Line Meaning

I knew the time had to come
I was aware that there would come a time


When I'd be held under your thumb
When I would be completely under your control


I'm like a pawn in your hand
I am as powerless as a chess piece in your hand


Moved and compelled, at your command
Forced to act or do things at your bidding


Whether it's for bad or for good
Regardless of whether the outcome is positive or negative


I would never change it if I could
I wouldn't want to alter the situation, even if I could


Maybe I'm right, maybe I'm wrong
Perhaps I'm correct, or perhaps I'm mistaken


Maybe I'm weak, maybe I'm strong
Maybe I'm feeble, or maybe I'm tough


But nevertheless I'm in love with you
Nonetheless, my love for you persists


Maybe I'll win, maybe I'll lose
It's possible that I'll emerge victorious, or that I'll be defeated


And maybe I'm in for crying the blues
Perhaps I'm in for experiencing sadness or regret


Somehow, I know at a glance, the terrible chances I'm taking
Somehow, I am aware of the grave risks I am assuming


Fine at the start, then left with a heart that is breaking
The experience begins pleasantly but ends in heartache


Maybe I'll live a life of regret
It's possible that I'll spend my life consumed by remorse


And maybe I'll give much more than I get
Perhaps I'll end up sacrificing much more than I receive in return


But nevertheless, I'm in love with you
However, no matter what transpires, my love for you persists




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Royalty Network, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Bert Kalmar, Herman Ruby

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@eM_eM77x

@@naowright9308 Goodness, that sounds awful and stressful. It also sounds like a narcissistic dynamic in that family and it's abusive of him to allow that to happen to you -- he should be protecting you. Was it the father in law who "damned" you??

Is there anyone at church, a female friend/family member at all you can talk to without judgment?

I would hope you and your husband can get some counseling to turn things around. I dealt with a little bit of that in that my ex husband idealized his sister who lived out of state and he barely saw. She could do no wrong. He talked about her like he was in love with her but he didn't talk about me like that. Me, on the other hand, was subject to constant criticism and nitpicking, amongst other horrible things.

I think it could be helpful to talk to a counselor who specializes in abusive and narcissistic people before deciding what to do and how to handle it. I know of some very good Christian channels on here that give excellent advice on narcissists and abuse: Dr David Clarke, Shaneen Megji and Kris Reece.

Good books: The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernick, When Loving Him Is Hurting You by Dr. David Hawkins and another one I've heard of but haven't read is Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft.

I am so sorry you are dealing with this. I'm sure you feel totally alone but please know you are not alone! Jesus is with you and the next thing would be to talk to some trusted people and knowledgeable counselors because you deserve to be loved and treated right in your marriage.❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽



@OMG-FineChina

This was directed to me on time! I’m lying awake asking God which way do I go to be seen by him? I’m going through crisis after crisis and needing my husband…. But falling in pot holes of ppl that do not have a relationship with God.

Today I called the church I set up a new member class with last month…my mother passed and funeral was the weekend of my new member class. So today I finally rescheduled the class so I can be with my kingdom ppl

I want to be apart of several ministries

I think this is God’s answers to all my struggles

Thank you
✝️🙏🏽💜



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@parkerlewallen5878

As a Christian guy, I can confirm that these are most definitely character traits I would look for in a wife. Any chance we’ll see one of these for the men too? I’ve been led recently to focus my efforts on becoming “the one” for the type of woman I’d like to marry instead of just looking for her.

@dawnstonerock4253

Stay strong Parker. I’m praying for my nieces for a guy like you. She’s out there! I’ll pray for God to help you meet. Don’t settle!!

@danielchambers783

I'd love one of these too

@nataliatorres9482

Hi Parker. Yes, I've been working on this too, and God's still shaping me :)

@toliseadkisson7124

This was a fabulous video, very interesting. I think that is great that you are focusing on becoming the best you, you can be, so that when God brings you and the One He has for you, you will be prepared! Amen! I have been preparing to be the best me I can be so that when God’s perfect timing happens, the One He has for me and I will be prepared for each other!
More men should have the mindset you have! ❤

@helloabbylyons

You’re doing great!! That’s what I’ve been focusing on too! ☺️

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@Lisa-nt7wt

I have not dated in 12 years and now I am 34, I have remained pure, loyal to God, and live a modest lifestyle. I am still waiting for my Christian husband to find me. The most important things Iook for in a soulmate are rare these days. I refuse to give up. God Bless All

@cuprunnethover2509

Don't give up Sis! He will eventually come!

@Lisa-nt7wt

@Cuprunnethover Thank You !

@Tsoprano27

Curious why you’ve been waiting for 12 years. Work? Personal stuff? Bad relationships?

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