It's All in Your Mind
Ruth Brown Lyrics


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Well it's all in your mind
Well it's all in your mind
It's all in your mind
Well it's all in your mind

And I wanted to be
And I wanted to be
Your good friend

Well I cannot believe
You got a devil up your sleeve
And he's talking to me
And I cannot believe

And I wanted to be
And I wanted to be
Your good friend

Well you're all scared and stiff
A sick stolen gift
And the people you're with
They're all scared and stiff
And I wanted to be




And I wanted to be
Your good friend

Overall Meaning

The song "It's All in Your Mind" by Ruth Brown is a melancholic track that explores the concept of perception and the power of the mind. The repeated phrase of "it's all in your mind" emphasizes that the reality we experience is largely a product of our own thoughts and beliefs. Ruth Brown sings about wanting to be someone's "good friend" while confronting the fact that this person has a dark side ("a devil up your sleeve") that is influencing how she sees them. The person's behavior is causing fear and discomfort, both for Ruth and those around them.


The song touches on themes of insecurity and manipulation, highlighting the idea that our thoughts and emotions can be easily swayed by the people we spend time with. The line "a sick stolen gift" suggests that the person's behavior is a product of something they have acquired improperly, adding another layer of complexity to their character. The use of repetition throughout the song creates a sense of unease, mirroring the discomfort that Ruth feels in the presence of this person.


Line by Line Meaning

Well it's all in your mind
The situation or problem that you think exists is not real, but only exists in your thoughts and imagination.


Well it's all in your mind
The thoughts and beliefs you have about a situation are what create your experience of it, rather than the external circumstances themselves.


It's all in your mind
You have the power to change your mindset and perceptions, which can change your outlook on the situation you are facing.


Well it's all in your mind
The worries and anxieties you have about a situation are not based in reality, but are instead projections of your own fears and doubts.


And I wanted to be
I desired to have a positive and supportive relationship with you.


And I wanted to be
It was important to me to have a connection with you that was meaningful and fulfilling.


Your good friend
Someone who cares about you, supports you and is there for you through good and bad times.


Well I cannot believe
I find it hard to accept that what you are telling me is true.


You got a devil up your sleeve
You have a hidden or evil intention or motive that is not immediately apparent.


And he's talking to me
I am hearing things that make me distrustful or suspicious of you.


And I cannot believe
I find it difficult to trust or believe in what you are saying.


Well you're all scared and stiff
You seem to be paralyzed by fear and anxiety, unable to move or act with confidence.


A sick stolen gift
Something that you have taken or received that is harmful or damaging, even if it seemed like a good thing initially.


And the people you're with
The people you are associating with do not seem to be positive influences, and may be contributing to your negative behavior or mindset.


They're all scared and stiff
The people you are associating with are also gripped by fear and anxiety, and are unable to offer you the support and encouragement you need.


And I wanted to be
I had hoped to offer you a more positive and encouraging perspective that could help you overcome your fears and limitations.


And I wanted to be
I desired to be the kind of friend who lifts you up and helps you become the best version of yourself.


Your good friend
Someone who is always there for you, no matter what, and who genuinely wants the best for you.




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Comments from YouTube:

Mister P

this lady was something special. Though she was known for her more gritty numbers; I always felt her voice really glowed on ballads. #awesomevocalist

Charles Billante

Me too! Too bad they didn't sell as well as the gritty ones. This one has always been one of my personal favorite ballads!

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