Avalanche
Ryan Adams Lyrics


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I found your photograph
In a cardboard box in a magazine
I can't remember you, remember us or anything
I taught you how to feel, but you just feel numb
They taught you how you feel, but you just feel numb
She comes apart in the avalanche
Fades out like a dance
Crawls back into bed when it's over
And it's over

I watch the window and listen for the sound of cars
I can't remember the last time that it was yours
I taught you how to feel, why do you feel numb
They taught us how to feel, but we just feel numb
She falls apart in the avalanche
Fades out like a dance




And crawls back into bed when it's over
And it's over

Overall Meaning

The song "Avalanche" by Ryan Adams is a poignant and introspective piece about the aftermath of a failed relationship. In the opening lines, the singer discovers a photograph of his ex-partner and feels unable to recall anything about their time together, suggesting a sense of disconnection and emotional distance. He reflects on his efforts to help his partner "feel" but ultimately notes her subsequent numbness. This could suggest a failure of communication or empathy, as though their emotional connection was too strained or the relationship too damaged to foster genuine, enduring feelings.


The chorus repeats the phrase "she comes apart in the avalanche/fades out like a dance/crawls back into bed when it's over/and it's over." The metaphor of an avalanche suggests something sudden, disorienting, and potentially life-threatening, a powerful force that can sweep away everything in its path. The image of someone who comes apart in this way could suggest a person who is unable to withstand the pressures of life without succumbing to despair or defeat. The fact that she returns "to bed" once the "avalanche" has subsided could evoke feelings of resignation or defeat, suggesting a sense of hopelessness or resignation that things will never change for the better.


In conclusion, "Avalanche" is a heartrending and raw power ballad that captures the pain and grief of a failed relationship. It deals with themes of distance, disconnection, and emotional numbness, while exploring the relationship between empathy and communication, and the ways in which our efforts to connect with others can sometimes fall short.


Line by Line Meaning

I found your photograph
I came across your photo


In a cardboard box in a magazine
It was kept in a box made of cardboard, amidst pages of magazine


I can't remember you, remember us or anything
I am unable to recall you, our memories or anything related to us


I taught you how to feel, but you just feel numb
I helped you understand your emotions, but you seem emotionless


They taught you how you feel, but you just feel numb
People other than me, taught you how to feel, but you still feel emotionless


She comes apart in the avalanche
She falls apart in a sudden and overwhelming event


Fades out like a dance
The fall apart is like a fading dance performance


Crawls back into bed when it's over
After everything has passed, she gets back to bed


And it's over
Everything has ended


I watch the window and listen for the sound of cars
I look out the window and wait for car sounds


I can't remember the last time that it was yours
I cannot recollect the last time something belonged to you


I taught you how to feel, why do you feel numb
I taught you to recognise your emotions, then why are you still not feeling anything?


They taught us how to feel, but we just feel numb
We learned about emotions, but still don't feel anything


She falls apart in the avalanche
Again, she breaks apart in a sudden and overwhelming event


Fades out like a dance
She seems to fade away, like a dance performance concluding


And crawls back into bed when it's over
Eventually, she moves back to bed, when everything's finished


And it's over
It concludes




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: RYAN ADAMS

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