Dear John
Ryan Adams Lyrics


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I got a house full of walls
And utility bills, every Monday the company calls
I got a nice bed to sleep on
And a chest of drawers, where I keep those jewels of yours

Cause you're always mine to keep when you're gone
Two silvers rings, one's on my finger and the other one's gone
It went underground with you, oh John

Ten years passed
And I ended up with a house full of cats
But most of them went missing
Through that window you never fixed, the door you never latched

When you were on your way out like the last time...

Cause you are always mine to keep when you're gone
Two silvers rings, one's on my finger and the other one's gone
It went underground with you, oh John

I knew what you were doing
That summer when Candy came around
But I had too much hurt to bother you
When we lost our first child I thought a little payment was overdue
And I want you so bad...

Cause you are always mine to keep when you're gone
Two silvers rings, one's on my finger and the other one's gone
It went underground with you, oh John

I miss you
I miss you
I miss you
I miss you...





Oh John...

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ryan Adams' song Dear John tell the story of a woman who is left alone with a house full of memories, after her partner leaves her without an explanation. The first verse presents the mundane reality of the woman's life, with the bills, the house and the furniture. However, she cherishes the two silver rings her partner gave her, one of them now lost with him. In the second verse, the woman reminisces about the cats she took in after John's departure, most of them disappearing through the window he never fixed or the door he never latched. The chorus repeats the idea that John will always be hers to keep, even though he is gone, and that he took one of the silver rings with him. The third verse reveals the complexity of their relationship, with Candy being a woman John cheated on her with, and the pain they both experienced when they lost their child. Nevertheless, the woman still misses John.


The lyrics of Dear John evoke a sense of melancholy and nostalgia, with the simple, almost conversational phrases describing a life that was once shared by two people. The strong imagery – the house full of walls and the chest of drawers where the jewels are kept – creates a vivid picture of a home where love and heartbreak collided. The repetition of the chorus also adds to the emotional weight of the song, emphasizing the idea that love can endure even after the person who inspired it is gone.


Line by Line Meaning

I got a house full of walls
I have a home, but it feels empty without you


And utility bills, every Monday the company calls
I have bills to pay, but they don't compare to the pain of missing you


I got a nice bed to sleep on
I have a comfortable place to rest, yet it offers no solace


And a chest of drawers, where I keep those jewels of yours
I have precious memories of you that I treasure


'Cause you're always mine to keep when you're gone
Even though you're not here, you'll always be a part of me


Two silver rings, one's on my finger and the other one's gone
I have a ring to symbolize our love, but the other one belonged to you and went with you when you left


It went underground with you, oh John
Your ring is lost with you, buried deep in the ground


Ten years passed
A decade has gone by, but the pain still remains


And I ended up with a house full of cats
I've filled my home with pets to try and fill the void you left


But most of them went missing
My attempts to fill the emptiness failed, and the cats disappeared


Through that window you never fixed, the door you never latched
The things you left undone still haunt me


When you were on your way out like the last time...
You were leaving again, just like before


'Cause you are always mine to keep when you're gone
No matter where you are, you'll always belong to me


Two silver rings, one's on my finger and the other one's gone
My love for you endures, even though your ring is lost


It went underground with you, oh John
Your ring is lost with you, buried deep in the ground


I knew what you were doing
I was aware of your infidelity


That summer when Candy came around
When you cheated on me with Candy


But I had too much hurt to bother you
I was too hurt to confront you about your affair


When we lost our first child I thought a little payment was overdue
When we lost our child, I felt you owed me some emotional support


And I want you so bad...
I still long for you, even though you hurt me deeply


'Cause you are always mine to keep when you're gone
Even though you're not here, you'll always belong to me


Two silver rings, one's on my finger and the other one's gone
My love for you endures, even though your ring is lost


It went underground with you, oh John
Your ring is lost with you, buried deep in the ground


I miss you
I deeply long for you


I miss you
I yearn for your presence


I miss you
I ache for your touch


I miss you...
I miss you more than words can express


Oh John...
My heart breaks for you, dear John




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Written by: NORAH JONES, RYAN ADAMS

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@Floki1624

I've loved these two for so long...this song always melts me.

@LollieVox

Norah is amazing!!!

@stellerstallion253

OMG! the first time I heard this song was on my phone with buds, just sitting and listening and I broke out in a full cry.... simply because my husbands name is Jon. I ran to our bed woke him and kissed him hugged him, and told him how much I loved him.  I wouldn't let go for awhile, we have been married 15 years, together 20 years and I refused to buy the song. I felt like if I did, I was excepting his death and I would have to use it someday... but I love the song I guess it's a love hate type of thing, it makes me cry every time, so when I need to cry I listen to this song. Thanks Norah and Ryan y'all are the best I know someday I will have to use this song, I just don't want to right now.

@russiandawg

Ryan Adams just became my hero. He says some amazing things.

@999riorio

good job both of you now the song is so damn good

@ignoringtonlooloo991

ryan made this greater than it was

@PincheVatoMalo

This song was originally entitled Dear Juan, and it was about me l. True story

@40thCapeRifles

"I see the weather." That says a lot.

@CryptoAgeDigitalBusiness

You are so Perfet Norah

@alefor5423

norah jones tribute

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