Shallow
Ryan Adams Lyrics


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Girl, don't tell me how you want me
Tell me how to get through
Girl, don't tell me how you want me
Tell me how to get through

'Cause I gotta know
I gotta know
I gotta know

I gotta know
I gotta know
I gotta know you inside out
Know what I'm talking about
You're taking me higher than I've been before
You're taking me higher than I've been before
And leaving me shallow

Girl, don't tell me how you need me
Tell me how to get through

'Cause I gotta know
I gotta know
I gotta know

I gotta know
I gotta know
I gotta know you inside out
Know what I'm talking about
You're taking me higher than I've been before
You're taking me higher than I've been before
You're taking me higher
You're taking me higher

You gotta do what you do
Gotta say what you say
Gotta lie to yourself
Forever

You gotta do what you do
Gotta say what you say




You've lied to yourself
Forever

Overall Meaning

In Ryan Adams's song, "Shallow," the singer is urging his love interest to reveal how he can get through to her. He requests her to guide him in understanding her better, rather than simply telling him what she wants. The singer acknowledges how high the love interest has been lifting him and asks her to continue, even though it might lead him to feeling shallow. In the second verse, he repeats the same request, asking her not to inform him how much she requires him, but to demonstrate to him the way through their circumstances.


The chorus is a repetition of how the singer wants to get to know the love interest at a deeper level. He wants to comprehend her inside and out, which refers to learning about her personality, intentions, and desires. The phrase "you're taking me higher than I've been before" reveals how much the singer appreciates his love interest's impact on his life. However, the last line, "And leaving me shallow," displays a tinge of cynicism, and perhaps bitterness, exposing how the love interest has affected his life in ways he may not have wanted. The final lines of the song imply that the singer must be dishonest with himself forever if he wants to keep their love alive.


Line by Line Meaning

Girl, don't tell me how you want me Tell me how to get through
Don't just tell me what you want, tell me how I can make it happen


'Cause I gotta know I gotta know I gotta know I gotta know I gotta know I gotta know you inside out Know what I'm talking about You're taking me higher than I've been before You're taking me higher than I've been before And leaving me shallow
I need to understand you on a deep level, we're going to a new height in our relationship and it's leaving me feeling empty and lacking substance


Girl, don't tell me how you need me Tell me how to get through
If you need me, don't just say it, show me how I can support you


'Cause I gotta know I gotta know I gotta know I gotta know I gotta know I gotta know you inside out Know what I'm talking about You're taking me higher than I've been before You're taking me higher than I've been before You're taking me higher You're taking me higher
Once again, I need to understand you completely and deeply, our relationship is reaching a new peak and I want to keep rising


You gotta do what you do Gotta say what you say Gotta lie to yourself Forever
You need to be true to yourself and always be honest, even if it's difficult


You gotta do what you do Gotta say what you say You've lied to yourself Forever
Repeat of above - you need to be honest with yourself and never compromise your true self




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: RYAN ADAMS

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