Decide You're Gone
SOJA Lyrics


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I used to think that
I would go this all alone
I used to think that
I would do it by myself

But I found another
one like me walking alone
I don't think she stands a
chance with no one else

but anyway
I'll be here and you'll be there
and we'll be by the phone (and you know)
I'll be sitting, watching you
waiting for you
you decide you're ...
you decide you're gone

and when I'm calling
If I'm calling someone else
it don't feel the same as
when I'm calling you
I mean it

And in a world I more
and more can't understand
It would be hard
to lose something that I do

but anyway
I'll be here and you'll be there
and we'll be by the phone (and you know)
I'll be sitting, watching you
waiting for you
you decide you're ...
you decide you're gone

So watch the days
'cuz they all turn
into the night, and watch the sun
'cuz it turns into the moon
and in a world that won't
stop turning us around
at least we know
who we can turn to, to, to now

I'll be here and you'll be there
and we'll be by the phone (and you know)
I'll be sitting, watching you
waiting for you
you decide you're ...

i'll be there and you'll be here
and we'll be by the phone
and i'll be sitting while i watch
i'll be watching while i wait
for you to decide that you're gone
for you to decide that you're gone

is it too much
is it too far
is it too long
and now you're gone
and i'll be here
and you'll be there
and you will decide that you're gone

'cause it's too much
and it's too far
and it's too long
and you are gone




and you decide you're ...
you decide you're gone ...

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "Decide You're Gone" by Soja describe the feelings of someone who is deeply invested in a relationship and struggling with the possibility of losing their partner. At the beginning of the song, the singer admits that they used to believe they could handle everything on their own, but when they found someone else like them, they couldn't imagine going through life without them. However, the singer fears that their love interest isn't fully committed to them, and they are left waiting anxiously for them to make a decision about their relationship. The singer tries to console themselves by saying that they'll always be there, but they're also painfully aware that their partner may still leave in the end.


The second verse adds to the theme of uncertainty and confusion, with the singer acknowledging that the world can be a difficult and mysterious place. The thought of losing the person they love adds to this confusion, making it even harder to make sense of what's going on. The chorus repeats the theme of waiting for the partner to decide whether they want to stay or leave, with the singer struggling to cope with the possibility of being left behind. The final verse emphasizes the inevitability of change and the fact that life keeps moving forward, even when things get tough. Despite this, the singer believes that they'll always have a source of comfort and support in their loved one, even if they do end up leaving.


Line by Line Meaning

I used to think that I would go this all alone
I once believed I could handle this by myself


But I found another one like me walking alone I don't think she stands a chance with no one else
I met someone who shares my feelings of loneliness, but I know it won't work out for her without any support


but anyway I'll be here and you'll be there and we'll be by the phone (and you know) I'll be sitting, watching you waiting for you you decide you're ... you decide you're gone
Regardless, I'll stay available by the phone, watching and waiting for you to make a decision, even if it means you choose to leave


and when I'm calling If I'm calling someone else it don't feel the same as when I'm calling you I mean it
Talking to anyone else just doesn't feel the same as when I talk to you, I truly mean it


And in a world I more and more can't understand It would be hard to lose something that I do
As the world becomes more difficult to comprehend, losing someone I understand would make it even harder


So watch the days 'cuz they all turn into the night, and watch the sun 'cuz it turns into the moon and in a world that won't stop turning us around at least we know who we can turn to, to, to now
Time passes and the world keeps turning, but I know at least I have someone I can rely on


i'll be there and you'll be here and we'll be by the phone and i'll be sitting while i watch i'll be watching while i wait for you to decide that you're gone for you to decide that you're gone
I'll be waiting for your decision, wherever we may be, even if it means you choose to leave


is it too much is it too far is it too long and now you're gone and i'll be here and you'll be there and you will decide that you're gone
Maybe my expectations were too high, or the distance between us too far, or our relationship too long, but now that you're gone, it's up to you to decide


'cause it's too much and it's too far and it's too long and you are gone and you decide you're ... you decide you're gone ...
The pressure was too much, the distance too far, and our relationship was too long for you to handle, so ultimately you chose to leave




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@kylarose3832

I used to think that I would go this all alone
I used to think that I would do it by myself
But I, I found another one like me walking alone
I don't think she stands a chance with no one else
But anyway...

I'll be here and you'll be there
And we'll be by the phone (and you know)
I'll be sitting, watching you waiting for you you decide your
You decide, you're gone

And when I'm calling If I'm calling someone else
It don't feel the same as when I'm calling you, I mean it
And in a world I more and more can't understand
It would be hard to lose something that I do
But anyway...

'Ll be here and you'll be there
And we'll be by the phone (and you know)
I'll be sitting, watching you waiting for you you decide your
You decide, you're gone

So watch the days cause they all turn into the night
And watch the sun cause it turns into the moon
And in a world that won't stop turning us around
At least we know who we can turn to
Now...

I'll be here and you'll be there
And we'll be by the phone (and you know)
I'll be sitting, watching you waiting for you you decide your
You decide you decide
I'll be there and you'll be here
And we'll be by the phone

And I'll be sittin while I watch
I'll be watchin while I wait
For you to decide that you're gone

Is it too much
Is it too far
Is it too long
And now you're gone
And I'll be here and you'll be there
And you can decide that you're gone

Cause it's too much
And it's too far
And it's too long
And you are gone
And you decide your
You decide your gone



@mazinhonuts6624

I used to think that 
Eu costumava pensar isto:
I cold go this all alone 
Eu, indiferente, irei sozinho.
I used to think 
Eu costumava pensar:
I could do it by myself 
Eu posso fazer isso por mim mesmo.

But I,found another 
Mas eu achei outra
one like me walking alone 
pessoa como eu, caminhando sozinha
I don't think she stands a 
Eu não pensei que ela teria a
chance with no one else 
chance, como ninguém mais teve.
but anyway 
Mas, de qualquer forma,

I'll be here,and you'll be 
Eu estarei aqui, e você estará
there and well be by the phone (and you know) 
lá, no telefone (e você sabe)
I'll be sitting,watching you 
Eu estarei sentado, observando você
waiting for you to decide 
esperando você decidir
you're gone 
se vai embora.

when I'm calling 
Quando eu ligar,
If I'm calling someone else 
se eu ligar pra outro alguém,
it don't feel the as 
eu não sentirei, enquanto
when I'm calling you 
quando é pra você que eu ligo,
I meat it 
eu me alimento disso.

And in a world I more 
E nesse mundo que cada vez mais
and more can't understand 
e mais eu não entendo,
It would be hard 
é preciso ser forte,
to lose something that I do 
pra perder algo que eu tinha.

So watch the days 
Portanto observe os dias,
cuz they all turn 
pois todos eles voltam
into the night,and watch the sun 
na noite, e observe o Sol
cuz it turns into the moon 
pois ele volta na Lua.
and in a world that wont 
E num mundo que não
stop turning us around 
para de dar voltas sobre nós,
at least we know who 
pelo menos nós sabemos em quem
we can turn to 
nós podemos dar voltas.

is it too much 
Isto é demais.
is it too far 
Isto é muito distante.
is it too long 
Isto é muito extenso.
and now you're gone 
E agora você se foi,
and I'll be here 
e eu estarei aqui,



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250 dollars? gonna have to say no at this point

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Same here brother

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I owe them my life...

@joeymartinez8607

They really pulled me out of a dark place

@steadystacking9241

Getting me through my wife saying she’s leaving

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