I'm Doing Fine
Sadie & The Hotheads Lyrics


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I'm fine if you
Need to do what they all do
Just don't spit
The misery that I clearly get
From time to time we tend to cross that line
From black and white
To colors you may not be comfortable painting
I'm fine if you
Need to do what they all do
Just don't be mean
Things aren't always quite as they seem
Take the time to cut me open
Watch me bleed down on your knees
And feel the pain that was never your own
I'm fine if you
Need to do what they all do
We can't reconnect
Because it takes no effort
To do the opposite
Love isn't always bigger
It's hard to see




With tired eyes
We fall asleep

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "I'm Doing Fine" by Sadie & The Hotheads express a sense of acceptance and resilience in the face of misunderstanding and emotional pain. The song begins with the singer acknowledging that it's okay if others choose to follow societal norms and expectations, but they ask for one thing: not to project their own misery onto them. They are aware that sometimes people cross the line between rigid black and white thinking to accept the complexities and nuances of life, which might make them uncomfortable.


The singer emphasizes that they are fine with others doing what everyone else does, as long as they are not mean. They recognize that things are not always as they appear and there is more beneath the surface. They use vivid imagery of cutting someone open and watching them bleed, suggesting a desire for others to truly understand their pain and empathize with them.


The lyrics also touch on the difficulty of reconnecting with someone, as it requires effort and a willingness to go against the flow. The singer suggests that sometimes love isn't always grand or obvious, but it can be hard to see when one is tired and worn out. They allude to the weariness that can lead to a metaphorical falling asleep, possibly referencing the challenges of maintaining emotional connections and staying present in relationships.


Overall, "I'm Doing Fine" speaks to the resilience and self-assurance of the singer, acknowledging the complexities of human emotions and relationships in a world that often values conformity.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm fine if you
I am emotionally stable and content if you


Need to do what they all do
Feel the need to conform to societal expectations


Just don't spit
Just refrain from expressing


The misery that I clearly get
The deep sadness and pain that I clearly understand


From time to time we tend to cross that line
Occasionally, we unintentionally exceed the boundaries


From black and white
From a simplistic and dichotomous perspective


To colors you may not be comfortable painting
To complex and unfamiliar emotions that you may find uncomfortable expressing


Just don't be mean
Just please avoid being unkind or hurtful


Things aren't always quite as they seem
Appearances can be deceiving, and situations may not be as they initially appear


Take the time to cut me open
Consciously invest the effort to deeply understand me


Watch me bleed down on your knees
Observe my vulnerability and pain with empathy and humility


And feel the pain that was never your own
Experience the suffering that you have not personally endured


We can't reconnect
We are unable to reestablish a strong emotional bond


Because it takes no effort
Because no significant effort is being made


To do the opposite
To act in a way that goes against our connection


Love isn't always bigger
Love is not always grand or overwhelming


It's hard to see
It is difficult to perceive or understand


With tired eyes
When feeling weary or emotionally drained


We fall asleep
Our emotional connection weakens or fades away




Lyrics © O/B/O DistroKid
Written by: Sadie Brigham

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