When I Was Your Man
Sam Alves Lyrics


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Same bed but it feels just a little bit bigger now
Our song on the radio but it don't sound the same
When our friends talk about you, all it does is just tear me down
'Cause my heart breaks a little when I hear your name

It all just sounds like ooh, ooh ooh hoo hoo
Mm, too young, too dumb to realize
That I should have bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should have gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party 'cause all you wanted to do was dance

Now my baby's dancing
But she's dancing with another man

My pride, my ego, my needs, and my selfish ways
Caused a good strong woman like you to walk out my life
Now I never, never get to clean up the mess I made, oh
And it haunts me every time I close my eyes

It all just sounds like ooh, ooh ooh ooh ooh
Mm, too young, too dumb to realize
That I should have bought you flowers
And held your hand
Should have gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
Take you to every party 'cause all you wanted to do was dance

Now my baby's dancing
But she's dancing with another man

Although it hurts
I'll be the first to say that I was wrong
Oh, I know I'm probably much too late
To try and apologize for my mistakes
But I just want you to know

I hope he buys you flowers
I hope he holds your hand
Give you all his hours
When he has the chance
Take you to every party
'Cause I remember how much you loved to dance
Do all the things I should have done
When I was your man




Do all the things I should have done
When I was your man

Overall Meaning

The song "When I Was Your Man" by Sam Alves is a heart-wrenching ballad that speaks to the pain of lost love and regret. The singer admits to not appreciating his partner when he had the chance and acknowledging his mistakes. He regrets his past actions and expresses that he should have treated her better by showing her love and affection.


The opening verse paints a picture of a relationship that has ended. The couple used to share a bed, but it now feels bigger without her there. The song they used to enjoy listening to together no longer sounds the same. The singer's friends talking about his ex-girlfriend upsets him because he still has feelings for her, which causes him pain. The chorus repeats, "Too young, too dumb to realize that I should have bought you flowers and held your hand. Should have given you all my hours when I had the chance. Taking you to every party because all you wanted to do was dance." His sorrow is intensified by the knowledge that his former love is dancing with another man.


In the second verse, the singer takes responsibility for his mistakes. His pride, ego, needs, and selfish ways led to the breakdown of his relationship. He recognizes that he lost a good woman because of his behavior. The regret he feels haunts him every time he closes his eyes. The bridge is a plea for forgiveness, even if it's too late. He admits his wrongs and desires to make things right. He hopes that she finds happiness with someone who treats her better, and he wishes he had done all the things he should have done when he was her man.


Line by Line Meaning

Same bed but it feels just a little bit bigger now
Even though we share the same bed, it feels like there's something missing since you left.


Our song on the radio but it don't sound the same
Our special song is still being played on the radio, but now it doesn't have the same meaning to me.


When our friends talk about you, all it does is just tear me down
Whenever I hear our friends talking about you, it just reminds me of what I've lost and makes me sad.


'Cause my heart breaks a little when I hear your name
Just hearing your name makes me feel emotional and causes my heart to ache.


It all just sounds like ooh, ooh ooh hoo hoo
All the sounds around me just blend together into a meaningless noise.


Mm, too young, too dumb to realize
I was too naive and inexperienced at the time to understand how much I loved and needed you.


That I should have bought you flowers
I should have done small gestures like buying you flowers to show you how much I cared.


And held your hand
I should have shown you physical affection and held your hand more often.


Should have gave you all my hours
I should have spent more time with you and prioritized our relationship.


When I had the chance
I had the opportunity to do all these things, but I didn't take them.


Take you to every party 'cause all you wanted to do was dance
I should have taken you to more parties and danced with you, because I know how much you loved it.


Now my baby's dancing
I picture you, my former lover, out there dancing.


But she's dancing with another man
But now you're dancing with someone else, and it hurts me to think about it.


My pride, my ego, my needs, and my selfish ways
My arrogance, self-centeredness, and inability to put your needs first drove you away.


Caused a good strong woman like you to walk out my life
My behavior caused a woman as strong and amazing as you to leave me for good.


Now I never, never get to clean up the mess I made, oh
I regret not being able to fix the problems I caused in our relationship before it was too late.


And it haunts me every time I close my eyes
I can't escape the memory of how badly I hurt you, and it's always on my mind.


I hope he buys you flowers
I hope the man you're with now treats you better than I did and does small things to show you how much he loves you.


I hope he holds your hand
I hope he shows you physical affection and makes you feel loved and appreciated.


Give you all his hours
I hope he gives you his undivided attention and spends all his time with you.


When he has the chance
I hope he takes every opportunity to make you happy and show you how much you mean to him.


Take you to every party
I hope he takes you out and enjoys spending time with you, just like I should have when I had the chance.


'Cause I remember how much you loved to dance
I still remember the little things about you, like how much you loved to dance, and I hope he remembers them too.


Do all the things I should have done
I hope the man you're with now does all the things I neglected to do when we were together.


When I was your man
I wish I could go back in time and do things differently, but now it's too late and I have to live with my mistakes.




Lyrics © HIPGNOSIS SONGS GROUP, Universal Music Publishing Group, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Andrew Wyatt, Ari Levine, Peter Gene Hernandez, Philip Martin II Lawrence

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Fernanda Souza

Plena pandemia, fim do ano de 2020 e a gente aqui apreciando o melhor cantor q o the voice Brasil já teve

Rafael Freitas

2023

Celia Rabelo

Verdade

Ísis Camargo

Simmmm ! Icônico!

Nilza Cichitosi

♥️♥️♥️♥️

FM teste a teste.

Que bom, apesar vivermos no meio do caos, ainda existem motivos para sonharmos com dias melhores.

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Silvia sisil

Esse cara é um fenômeno. Merecia muito sucesso. Alguém em 2021 ouvindo este cantor maravilhoso?

Renne Oficial

@Suely Mancini 2023

Suely Mancini

2022

Marisa Mendes Neves Gonzaga

Sinto saudades de quando assistia ao The Voice e ouvia este anjo (como dizia Claudia Leite) cantando. Dá gosto, isso sim é um excelente cantor! Deus abençoe sua vida e a sua voz!

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