But Not for Me
Sam Cooke Lyrics


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Old man sunshine listen you
Never tell me dreams come true
Just try it and I'll start a riot
Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
Ever tell me he will care
I'm certain it's the final curtain
I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
Who tell you fate supplies a mate
It's all bananas

They're writing songs of love but not for me
A lucky star's above but not for me
With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
Than any Russian play could guarantee

I was a fool to fall and get that way
Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
I guess he's not for me

I was a fool to fall and get that way




Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of But Not for Me by Sam Cooke speaks of a disillusioned person who does not believe in the idea of love and that it exists for them. The singer is addressing Old Man Sunshine, who according to the lyrics, never tells anyone that dreams come true. The singer is pessimistic and sarcastic, saying that if he were to try to believe in love and its power, he would start a riot. The line "I'm certain it's the final curtain" connotes that the singer is sure that love will not happen for them because fate is not supplying a mate. The line "It's all bananas" concludes their skepticism and disbelief in the possibility of finding true love.


The second verse tells the sad story of a person who has experienced love, but it was not meant to be. They switch gears to say that they do not want to hear Pollyannas who talk about the fate that supplies a mate. The lyrics "They're writing songs of love but not for me, a lucky star's above but not for me. With love to lead the way, I've found more clouds of gray than any Russian play could guarantee" speaks of the singer's belief that others might find love and happiness, but not them. In the final part of the song, he laments his being a fool to fall in love in the first place, as it was not meant to be. He expresses his sadness for having experienced love, but knowing it was not for him, saying he "can't dismiss the memory of his kiss".


Overall, the song conveys a sense of defeatism, skepticism and disappointment about the idea of love, that it exists, or that it is meant for them, and that they should move on with their lives. However, the beautiful melody and Cooke's soulful voice convey a sense of sadness mixed with hopefulness, making this one of the best ballads about lost love.


Line by Line Meaning

Old man sunshine listen you
I don't believe in the optimism of sunshine, don't even try to persuade me.


Never tell me dreams come true
I refuse to hear about the possibility of dreams coming true.


Just try it and I'll start a riot
If you persist in talking about dreams coming true, I will get very angry and make a scene.


Beatrice Fairfax don't you dare
Do not let Beatrice Fairfax, who is known for giving advice on love, tell me anything hopeful.


Ever tell me he will care
I don't want to hear that he will ever care about me.


I'm certain it's the final curtain
I'm sure that it's the end for me, romantically speaking.


I never want to hear from any cheerful Pollyannas
I don't want to hear from anyone who is overly optimistic about love and relationships.


Who tell you fate supplies a mate
I don't believe that fate is responsible for bringing me someone to love.


It's all bananas
It's all nonsense.


They're writing songs of love but not for me
People may be writing songs about love, but none of them are written for me.


A lucky star's above but not for me
There may be a lucky star shining in the sky, but it's not shining on me.


With love to lead the way I've found more clouds of gray
Despite hoping that love would make things better, I've found more disappointment and sadness than ever before.


Than any Russian play could guarantee
I've experienced more heartbreak than any Russian play could promise.


I was a fool to fall and get that way
I admit that I was foolish to fall in love and get my hopes up.


Hi-ho, alas, and also lack-a-day
I'm feeling very sad and regretful.


Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss
Even though I know it's over, I can't help but remember the sweet moments we shared.


I guess he's not for me
I realize now that he's not the right person for me.




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Phil David


on Goin' Home

The lyric is not “Nothing loss of days...”
It is “Nothing’s lost, all is gain...”
You will notice this actually supports the rhyme.

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