Tenderness
Sam Cooke Lyrics


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Be nice to her
Whenever you can
And as you cross the street
Always hold her hand

You'll find out
Tenderness goes a long, long way
So smile at her
When she does something wrong
Be there to pick her up
And make her strong

You'll find out
Tenderness goes a long, long way

Mmm, if you'll be kind
Sometimes she'll be blind
To the wrong things you might do
If you treat her good
Oh the way that you should
She'll see the goodness in you

So be sweet to her
And gentle too
And you'll find out
What tenderness can do

You'll find out, you'll find out, you'll find out
Tenderness goes a long, long way

Be sweet to her
And gentle too
You'll find out
What, oh, what that tenderness can do





You'll find out, you'll find out, you'll find out
Tenderness goes a long, long way

Overall Meaning

Sam Cooke’s song “Tenderness” is about the value of kindness and gentleness in a romantic relationship. The lyrics advise men to always be courteous to their significant other, regardless of the circumstance. For instance, the singer advises to hold her hand when crossing the street and always to be kind to her, even when she does something wrong. The song suggests that treating women with tenderness can create a stronger, more loving relationship.


The lyrics are relatable to anyone who has been in a relationship, and the song has a timeless message. The repetition of the phrase “you’ll find out” suggests that the singer speaks from experience, and the listener should heed the advice. The song also suggests that kindness and tenderness are two-way streets. If the man treats his significant other with respect, she will see “the goodness” in him.


One of the reasons the song is so enduring is that it speaks to basic human truths. Cooke’s lyrics are universal, and the song’s positive message has resonated with audiences for decades. It is ultimately a powerful assertion of the value of love and treating others with kindness.


Line by Line Meaning

Be nice to her
Show kindness and empathy towards her


Whenever you can
In every situation possible


And as you cross the street
Even while undertaking mundane activities


Always hold her hand
Show her that you care and support her


You'll find out
You will realize


Tenderness goes a long, long way
Being gentle and caring can have a significant and lasting effect


So smile at her
Show warmth and approval towards her


When she does something wrong
Even when she makes mistakes


Be there to pick her up
Provide emotional support and encouragement


And make her strong
Help her overcome her struggles


Mmm, if you'll be kind
If you are nice


Sometimes she'll be blind
She might overlook your flaws


To the wrong things you might do
To the mistakes you might make


If you treat her good
If you treat her well


Oh the way that you should
In the way that is fair and right


She'll see the goodness in you
She will notice and appreciate your positive qualities


So be sweet to her
Be kind and considerate to her


And gentle too
Be soft-spoken and compassionate


And you'll find out
And you will realize


What tenderness can do
The positive impact of being tender and affectionate


You'll find out, you'll find out, you'll find out
You will come to understand


Tenderness goes a long, long way
Being sensitive and caring can have a far-reaching effect


Be sweet to her
Show her kindness


And gentle too
Be compassionate


You'll find out
You will realize


What, oh, what that tenderness can do
The profound impact of being gentle and kind


You'll find out, you'll find out, you'll find out
You will come to understand


Tenderness goes a long, long way
Being tender and caring can have a significant and enduring effect




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Abkco Music Inc.
Written by: James W Alexander, Sam Cooke

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Phil David


on Goin' Home

The lyric is not “Nothing loss of days...”
It is “Nothing’s lost, all is gain...”
You will notice this actually supports the rhyme.

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