Not for Me
Sammy Davis Jr. Lyrics


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Ballads are being sung
But not for me
Church bells are being rung
But not for me
I am without love
But I don't doubt love can be
Warm and tender for some
But not for me
Poems are being read
But not for me
Prayers are being said
But not for me
I've never known love
Or been shown love, you see
And maybe there is such a thing
But not for me
So let all of your singers sing
But not for me
And let all of your church bells ring
But not for me
And if tomorrow
All your sorrows should be
Just like mine then you cry
But not for me




No, not me
Never for me

Overall Meaning

The song "Not For Me" by Sammy Davis Jr. is a melancholic ballad that laments the singer's lack of love in his life. The lyrics describe how the world seems to be filled with love and romantic connections, with ballads being sung, church bells ringing, poems being read and prayers being said, but all of it seems to be happening without him.


The first verse sets the tone for the song, with the singer acknowledging that while ballads are being sung and church bells are ringing, it's not for him, as he is without love. The second verse reinforces this sentiment, with the singer never having known or been shown love. The chorus then highlights the disconnect between the singer and the rest of the world, as he says that maybe there is such a thing as warm and tender love, but not for him.


The final verse ends the song with a poignant message, as the singer acknowledges that if tomorrow all of the world's sorrows were like his own, others would cry, but not for him. This final line encapsulates the sense of loneliness and isolation that the singer feels, with nobody to share in his pain.


Line by Line Meaning

Ballads are being sung
Romantic love songs are being performed


But not for me
However, they don't apply to my current situation


Church bells are being rung
Wedding bells are ringing


But not for me
But I am not getting married anytime soon


I am without love
I am currently single and do not have a romantic companion


But I don't doubt love can be
Despite not experiencing love, I know it is possible


Warm and tender for some
Romantic love can be passionate and embracing for certain individuals


But not for me
However, I am not among those who experience it


Poems are being read
Literature and art expressing love are being consumed


But not for me
But I cannot relate to them personally


Prayers are being said
Plea for divine assistance in finding love or happiness


But not for me
However, I don't seem to receive any a divine or good fortune in finding love


I've never known love
I have never experienced or been in love before


Or been shown love, you see
And nobody has ever demonstrated to me affection or fondness


And maybe there is such a thing
Although love could exist,


But not for me
I am still not a recipient of it


So let all of your singers sing
I don't mind if others celebrate or praise love through music


But not for me
But again, it's not applicable to me


And let all of your church bells ring
Weddings and union can proceed without my involvement


But not for me
Since I am still not involved


And if tomorrow
In case that one day


All your sorrows should be
You encounter problems or issues


Just like mine then you cry
You may become as miserable as I am and feel distraught


But not for me
Though, my personal sadness will persist


No, not me
You may experience sorrow like me, but you will discover something meaningful that's not applicable to me.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BOBBY DARIN

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Comments from YouTube:

Matthew Meaney

I remember this from 1964. Last time I heard it on the radio is when I played in in 1976. I don't know why it was not a bigger record.

Veg4Ev

Sammy the multi-talented entertainer of all time as well as an actor.

Susan Graham

It's true Bobby Darin wrote it and record it first but Sammy Davis Jr KILLED IT with a voice that can't be beat or compare to young singers today.

lesbos1

Well, to be honest, it's a bit of a rip off of Gershwin's "But Not For Me", a kind of 1960's take on it.

Rupert Street

What a great all round production. I bought this when it was originally released and fully expected it to be a worldwide hit, instead it sank like a stone. How come? Thanks.

Brookfield

Magnificent.

Daved Forkel

Sammy 1 of Kind Performer!

realfunny7

I had this album but lost it & many others when the basement flooded - this was the coolest song on that album - I 'm  66 & remember it well - Admiral King HS Lorain,Ohio '67

Veg4Ev

Standing at 5'6" and weighing 120lbs. stood ABOVE the Giants of entertainment!

Laurena La Croix

perfect!

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