Yes My Darling Daughter
Sandie Shaw Lyrics


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I′ve gotta be good or mama will scold me
Yes, yes, yes
I asked her and this is what she told me
Yes, yes, yes

Mother, may I go out dancing? Yes, my darling daughter
Mother, may I try romancing? Yes, my darling daughter
What if there's a moon, mama darling, and it′s shining on the water
Mother, must I keep on dancing? Yes, my darling daughter
What if he'll propose, mama darling, when the night is growing shorter?
Mother, what should be my answer? Yes, my darling daughter

Oh mama, oh mama, oh mama, oh mama

What if he should insist on one embrace, mama,
How can I keep him in his place
If his manner becomes a shade improper?
Tell him that your heart belongs to papa

Mother, will it be exciting? Yes, my darling daughter
Mother, do I look inviting? Yes, my darling daughter
If he holds me tight, mama darling, and my knees just turn to water
Mama must I keep on dancing? Yes, my darling daughter




What if he'll persist, mama darling, doing things he hadn′t oughta
Mama, what should be my answer? Yes, my darling daughter

Overall Meaning

The song "Yes My Darling Daughter" by Sandie Shaw portrays a conversation between a daughter and her mother. The daughter seeks permission from her mother to go out dancing and try romancing. Each time she asks for permission, her mother affectionately responds with "Yes, my darling daughter." The daughter continues to ask more questions, and her mother remains supportive of her every time. However, as the daughter delves deeper into her inquiries, it becomes increasingly apparent that she is uncertain of who she is and how she ought to act.


The song seems to be critical of social expectations imposed on women during the 1960s. The daughter is only able to seek the permission of her mother, who expects her to conform to society's gender roles. The mother's approval only extends to actions that are deemed acceptable for young ladies, such as dancing and (chaperoned) courting. Furthermore, the lyrics hint at the idea that the daughter feels unprepared to navigate the world of romance and is looking for someone to guide her through it. The mother's responses are reassuring, but they also signal that the daughter is expected to follow a specific path, even if it is not always what she desires.


Line by Line Meaning

I’ve gotta be good or mama will scold me
I need to behave well otherwise my mother will reprimand me


Yes, yes, yes, I asked her and this is what she told me
My mother affirmed my question with a resounding ‘yes’


Mother, may I go out dancing? Yes, my darling daughter
I requested permission to go dancing and my mother allowed me to do so


Mother, may I try romancing? Yes, my darling daughter
I asked my mother if I could engage in romantic activities and she said yes


What if there’s a moon, mama darling, and it’s shining on the water
I enquired about a potential situation involving shining moonlight and water


Mother, must I keep on dancing? Yes, my darling daughter
I sought confirmation that I should continue dancing and my mother replied affirmatively


What if he’ll propose, mama darling, when the night is growing shorter?
I asked my mother about a possible proposal from my dance partner as the night progressed


Mother, what should be my answer? Yes, my darling daughter
I asked my mother for advice on how to respond to a proposal and she told me to say ‘yes’


If his manner becomes a shade improper?
I asked my mother what to do if my partner’s behavior was inappropriate


Tell him that your heart belongs to papa
My mother suggested that I should tell my dance partner that I am already in love with someone else


Mother, will it be exciting? Yes, my darling daughter
I asked my mother if the experience will be thrilling and she confirmed it would be


Mother, do I look inviting? Yes, my darling daughter
I questioned my mother about my appearance and she assured me that I looked attractive


If he holds me tight, mama darling, and my knees just turn to water
I described how I might feel if my partner were to hold me closely


Mama must I keep on dancing? Yes, my darling daughter
I asked if I should keep dancing and my mother advised me to continue


What if he’ll persist, mama darling, doing things he hadn’t oughta
I expressed a concern about my partner’s behavior and my mother listened


Mama, what should be my answer? Yes, my darling daughter
I sought guidance on how to respond to inappropriate behavior and my mother instructed me to still say ‘yes’




Writer(s): Jack Lawrence

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