Preoccupied
Save Face Lyrics
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Why can't I ever find myself on the better half of your mind?
Were you bored, or just preoccupied?
Can you spell it out for me?
So I don't get confused by what you mean.
Cause what you say is a completely different thing.
Well each time you ask, it's like swallowing glass.
Do you enjoy watching me pull the words through my teeth?
When you ask me if things would be better if you'd just leave?
Were you bored, or just preoccupied with the important things in your life.
Please remind me where the line is between unhappy and unhealthy.
Can't you do anything for me? Can't you help me?
In Preoccupied, Save Face questions the state of their relationship as their partner seems to be "preoccupied with the important things in [their] life" but fails to confront their own feelings of boredom or disinterest. The singer feels neglected as their partner seems to prioritize other things over them, causing them to wonder where the line between unhappy and unhealthy lies.
The lyrics suggest a pattern of neglect and emotional distance in the relationship, with the singer feeling unheard and undervalued. The use of the metaphor of "swallowing glass" when asked about their feelings hints at the emotional toll of constantly being confronted with their own dissatisfaction. Despite this, the singer still struggles to communicate their needs clearly and asks their partner to "spell it out for me".
Line by Line Meaning
Were you bored, or just preoccupied with the important things in your life?
Did you lack interest or were you focused on the essential things in your life?
Why can't I ever find myself on the better half of your mind?
Why do I always seem to be less important than other things in your mind?
Can you spell it out for me?
Can you explain it to me more clearly?
So I don't get confused by what you mean.
So that I can understand you correctly.
Cause what you say is a completely different thing.
Because what you say is different from what you mean.
Well each time you ask, it's like swallowing glass.
Whenever you ask, it feels like a painful experience.
Every time you ask, oh god, I hope it's the last.
Whenever you ask, I hope it's the final time.
Do you enjoy watching me pull the words through my teeth?
Do you like seeing me struggle to answer you?
When you ask me if things would be better if you'd just leave?
When you question if everything would be better if you depart.
Please remind me where the line is between unhappy and unhealthy.
Can you clarify the distinction between being unhappy and being unhealthy?
Can't you do anything for me? Can't you help me?
Can't you assist me in any way?
Contributed by Elliot H. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
The Reaper
It feels so good finding a new good band that still makes music. Thanks guys. 🤘🏻
Van Hood
me encanta esta banda, son geniales ♥
Wave News
God I can’t stop listening to you guys. I’m just happy I discovered your music on bandcamp because it’s honestly amazing. Keep up the amazing work!!
max
come back! check this new shit out they've made. absolutely amazing.
ndomotivation
I know I was just on your cover of "House of Gold" but once again, YOU GUYS ARE AWESOOOOME. Keep up the amazing work!
Dwight Aloysius
Where is the cover? I can't find it
ni
@Dwight Aloysius i cant either
Dwight Aloysius
@ni I've been looking tirelessly for three years, I think this guy is a phony
ni
@Dwight Aloysius same,, wish it existed though
Finn King
probably my favorite song rn, i didn't hear it until a few days ago, but it's been stuck in my head ever since