The Man In Me
Scarlet Lyrics


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There's some things I want you to know
I'm not yet quite sure but I'll explain as I go
There was something you said the other day
When you misunderstood what I was trying to say
You think I'm together and sussed
That casual affairs and a laugh is enough
But you only know one side of me
Well it's not real what you see
That's just the man in me

I might be loud and I swear
And the way I wear my hair
And I don't wear skirts
Doesn't mean I don't get hurt
I might not act the girlie way
That doesn't mean to say I'm gay
But there's another side of me that you should know

You think that I'm cool 'cos I'm one of the boys
That's one side of me that gets heard above the noise
There was something you did just the other day
When you let me walk home in the dark all the way
I hate to be merely a meek
In fear that I won't get taken seriously
But you only know one side of me
Well it's not real what you see
That's just the man in me

I might be wild and I drink
and I'm tough and strong I think
and I don't wear heels
Doesn't mean that I don't feel
I might not try to be naive
'Cos doesn't vulnerable mean weak
And doesn't weak mean independence has to go?
I might be hard, I play to win
That doesn't mean I won't give in
But there's another side of me that you should know

I see you're confused I can tell
The look in your eyes says you don't know me so well
But you only know one side of me
That I've let you see




That's just the man in me
That's just the man in me.

Overall Meaning

In "The Man in Me," Scarlet addresses the assumption that people make about her based on her appearance and behavior. She begins by saying that there are some things she wants the listener to know about her. She admits that she is not sure how to explain it but proceeds to talk about an incident where someone misunderstood what she was saying. Scarlet then talks about how people think that she is put together and satisfied with casual affairs and laughter, but there is another side of her that people do not see. She explains that what people see is just the man in her.


Scarlet goes on to explain that her demeanor and appearance do not define her completely. She may dress differently and act tough but that does not mean she does not get hurt or that she is gay. Scarlet emphasizes that there is another side to her that people should know. She does not want to be seen as weak so she tries not to show her vulnerability, but that does not mean she is not scared or susceptible to being hurt. She can be tough and competitive, but that does not mean she cannot give in. Scarlet concludes by saying that the listener only knows one side of her, the man in her, which is not the real her.


Overall, "The Man in Me" is a powerful message about not judging people based on appearances and first impressions. Scarlet cautions against assuming that one knows someone fully until they have taken the time to see all sides of a person.


Line by Line Meaning

There's some things I want you to know
Scarlet has some things she wants to share with her listener


I'm not yet quite sure but I'll explain as I go
She is uncertain of how to express herself, but will try to explain as she goes along


There was something you said the other day
Scarlet is referring to a past conversation she had with her listener


When you misunderstood what I was trying to say
Her listener misunderstood her message


You think I'm together and sussed
The listener believes Scarlet is composed and has everything under control


That casual affairs and a laugh is enough
The listener thinks that casual relationships and having a good time is sufficient for Scarlet


But you only know one side of me
Scarlet is suggesting that her listener only sees one aspect of her personality


Well it's not real what you see
The side the listener sees is not an accurate representation of who Scarlet is


That's just the man in me
Scarlet is conveying that the impression of her that the listener holds is only a part of her nature


I might be loud and I swear
Scarlet can be outspoken and use profanity


And the way I wear my hair
Her hairstyle is not indicative of her femininity or masculinity


And I don't wear skirts
She chooses not to wear conventional feminine clothing


Doesn't mean I don't get hurt
Scarlet still experiences pain despite her tough exterior


I might not act the girlie way
Scarlet does not conform to traditional feminine behavior


That doesn't mean to say I'm gay
Her non-conformity does not indicate a specific sexual orientation


But there's another side of me that you should know
Scarlet is hinting at another facet of her personality


You think that I'm cool 'cos I'm one of the boys
Scarlet is cool in her listener's eyes because she is like one of their male friends


That's one side of me that gets heard above the noise
Scarlet's masculine qualities are more evident than her feminine side


There was something you did just the other day
The listener did something that affected Scarlet recently


When you let me walk home in the dark all the way
The listener allowed Scarlet to walk home on her own at night


I hate to be merely a meek
Scarlet despises being docile and submissive


In fear that I won't get taken seriously
She is scared that if she acts submissive, she won't be respected by others


But you only know one side of me
Scarlet is affirming that her listener has an incomplete view of her


Well it's not real what you see
The image that the listener has of Scarlet is inaccurate


That's just the man in me
The version of her that her listener knows is only one aspect of her identity


I might be wild and I drink
Scarlet describes herself as being carefree and enjoying alcohol


And I'm tough and strong I think
She feels that she is strong, mentally and physically


And I don't wear heels
She eschews traditionally feminine clothing, such as high-heeled shoes


Doesn't mean that I don't feel
Despite appearing tough on the outside, Scarlet still experiences emotions


I might not try to be naive
Scarlet is honest and straightforward


'Cos doesn't vulnerable mean weak
She asks a rhetorical question, challenging the notion that being vulnerable equates to being weak


And doesn't weak mean independence has to go?
Scarlet poses another rhetorical question, suggesting that traditionally, the expectation of submission and meekness is tied to dependence.


I might be hard, I play to win
Scarlet is assertive and strives for success


That doesn't mean I won't give in
Despite her determination, Scarlet is still capable of compromise


But there's another side of me that you should know
Scarlet reiterates the fact that her listener is unaware of another aspect of her personality


I see you're confused I can tell
Scarlet acknowledges that her listener is perplexed about her true identity


The look in your eyes says you don't know me so well
She infers this confusion based on the look in the listener's eyes


That I've let you see
Scarlet implies that what she has revealed of herself thus far may not be wholly accurate


That's just the man in me
She concludes by asserting that the person that her listener is familiar with is only one part of her identity




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Comments from YouTube:

Will Whittaker

Thank you so much! I LOVE this album! And this track especially :-)

Paul White

Nostalgia as hell. This was my childhood haha

Le Roi

a really good song :D, can you upload the rest of the songs?

PedalPowerPanther

I though 'Fantasy' was their best song. Not on though?

Conejo Márquez

I'm looking for "fantasy", please. It is not anywhere

Steve Parker

nice1 xx

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