You Don't Own Me
Sex Pistols and Joan Jett Lyrics


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You don't own me
I'm not just one of your many toys
You don't own me
Don't say I can't go with other boys

Don't tell me what to do
Don't tell me what to say
An' please, when I go out with you
Don't put me on display

You don't own me
Don't try to change me in anyway
You don't own me
Don't tie me down cause I'll never stay

I don't tell you what to say
I don't tell you what to do
So just let me be myself
That's all I ask of you

I'm young and I love to be young
I'm free and I love to be free




To live my life the way I want
To say and do whatever I please

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Sex Pistols and Joan Jett's song "You Don't Own Me" are a strong declaration of independence and freedom from ownership or control. The lyrics tell the story of a woman who is tired of being treated like a toy and controlled by a man. She asserts her autonomy and refuses to be placed on display or told what to do or say. She pleads with her partner to let her be herself and live her life the way she wants.


The lyrics speak to the struggles of being a woman in a male-dominated society where women are often objectified and owned by their partners. It highlights the need for women to be free to make their own choices, express themselves and live their lives without being held back or restricted by societal expectations.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't own me
I am not your property


I'm not just one of your many toys
I am not an object of your amusement


Don't say I can't go with other boys
Do not restrict me from being with other guys


Don't tell me what to do
Do not exert control over my actions


Don't tell me what to say
Do not dictate what I speak


An' please, when I go out with you Don't put me on display
Please do not exhibit me when we go out together


Don't try to change me in anyway
Do not attempt to alter my character


Don't tie me down cause I'll never stay
Do not restrict me as I will not consent to it


I don't tell you what to say
I do not impose my commands on you


I don't tell you what to do
I let you make your own choices


So just let me be myself
Let me express my true self


That's all I ask of you
I request you to grant me this one thing


I'm young and I love to be young
I am in my youth and I cherish that fact


I'm free and I love to be free
I value my liberty highly


To live my life the way I want
I desire to lead my life according to my own will


To say and do whatever I please
I want to speak and act according to my own accord




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: David White, John Madara

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

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I saw him dancin' there by the record machine
I knew he must a been about seventeen
The beat was goin' strong
Playin' my favorite song
An' I could tell it wouldn't be long
Till he was with me, yeah me
And I could tell it wouldn't be long
Till he was with me, yeah me, singin'
I love rock n' roll
So put another dime in the jukebox, baby
I love rock n' roll
So come and take your time and dance with me
Ow!
He smiled so I got up and asked for his name
That don't matter, he said
'Cause it's all the same
Said can I take you home where we can be alone
An' next we were movin' on
He was with me, yeah me
Next we were movin' on
He was with me, yeah me, singin'
I love rock n' roll
So put another dime in the jukebox, baby
I love rock n' roll
So come an' take your time an' dance with me
Ow!
Said can I take you home where we can be alone
Next we were movin' on
He was with me, yeah me
An we'll be movin' on
An' singin' that same old song
Yeah with me, singin'
I love rock n' roll
So put another dime in the jukebox, baby
I love rock n' roll
So come an' take your time an' dance with me
I love rock n' roll
So put another dime in the jukebox, baby
I love rock n' roll
So come an' take your time an' dance with
I love rock n' roll
So put another dime in the jukebox, baby
I love rock n' roll
So come an' take your time an' dance with
I love rock n' roll
So put another dime in the jukebox, baby
I love rock n' roll
So come an' take your time an' dance with
I love rock n' roll
So put another dime in the jukebox, baby
I love rock n' roll
So come an' take your time an' dance with me



All comments from YouTube:

@samjones6030

This raw in-your-face version is awesome. I get that the mix was a bit too rough for commercial airplay but the famous version would not have happened without this one first.

@gandalfshakur8235

One of the catchiest songs of all time and one of the wimpiest (too short) guitar solos of all time. I could hear some stretched re-imagination of this with like 3 extra minutes.

@thenancyspungen8113

I love Steve Jones

@antonioberti1860

GREAT VIDEO WITH GREAT PHOTOS...THANKS !!!

@shannonellen8643

I love the pics

@alexisjuarez146

Lo más épico que haya visto en este año <3

@dreamon1816

ohhh woow it's the first time i listen this version.. i cant believe it wasn't succesfull

@kenlieck7756

I had this 45 when it came out. It was a B-side on a smaller label - a Dutch release iirc - it was not heavily promoted, a less polished, less radio-friendly version. It wasn't even made to be hugely successful. It does kick some ass though!

@AJ-in5gu

Just heard this at the end of a radio show hosted by Dee Snyder earlier tonight. I am not a fan of the “overplayed for decades” version of this song but immediately liked this version.

@ludovica8221

It's better than her hit single version, but still not a patch on the Arrows original

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