Reminder Song
Shaina Taub Lyrics


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Now preachers and teachers and scholarly brains
Have tried to provide a truth that explains
Why shit can go so badly
Well I've had a helping or two of the blues
But I go back for seconds and thirds cause I choose
To stomach sorrow gladly
For I have a theory that might sound crass
And to that hypothesis I raise a glass

Here's to the chaos
The heartache and strain
Three cheers for agony
A toast to the pain
Hats off to everything that leaves a scar
For reminding me who my friends are

Though I'm not religious, I've always believed
There must be a weirdo up there who conceived
This magic, tragic planet
And so I'll forgive ‘em for adding the parts
That savage and ravage our bones and our hearts
And hardens souls to granite
For when at the end of a harrowing day
You'll see who shows up at your doorstep to say

Here's to the chaos
The heartache and strain
Three cheers for agony
A toast to the pain
Hats off to everything that leaves a scar
For reminding me who my friends are

No it's never gonna, never gonna end, no, no, no
It's never gonna, never gonna end, no, no, no
Not the misery nor the company, my friend
So fill each other's cup
And never give it up

Cause here's to the hoping
When odds are a joke
Three cheers for foolish dreams
When everything's broke
Hats off to every ‘close, but no cigar'

Here's to the chaos
The heartache and strain
Three cheers for agony
A toast to my pain
Hats off to everything that leaves a scar




For reminding me
Who my friends are

Overall Meaning

The Reminder Song by Shaina Taub is a song that celebrates and embraces the chaos and pain that come with life. The song starts off by acknowledging that many people have tried to explain why bad things happen and why life can be difficult, but the singer has a different perspective on things. She believes that these difficult experiences are choices that she has made, and she has a theory that even though it may sound crass, she raises a glass to it. That theory is that the chaos and pain in life are essential because they remind her of who her true friends are.


The second verse establishes her belief in a "weirdo up there" who created this "magic, tragic planet." She forgives this creator for adding the parts that hurt and harden, for without it, she wouldn't have such a clear understanding of who her friends are. The chorus repeats the idea of toasting to the chaos, heartache, and strain in life, as well as acknowledging the importance of the pain and scars it leaves behind. The final verse speaks to the importance of holding on to hope, even when things seem bleak, and continuing to dream, even when everything is broken.


The song's message is a refreshing take on life's hardships. It encourages embracing the difficult parts of life and seeing them as reminders of what is important. The Reminder Song is an uplifting reminder that, even in the midst of pain, there are reasons to celebrate and be grateful.


Line by Line Meaning

Now preachers and teachers and scholarly brains
People who are considered wise and knowledgeable have tried to explain why bad things happen


Have tried to provide a truth that explains
They have attempted to find an explanation for what goes wrong


Why shit can go so badly
Why things can go horribly wrong


Well I've had a helping or two of the blues
I’ve experienced sadness and depression myself


But I go back for seconds and thirds cause I choose
But despite this, I remain willing to put myself through difficult moments


To stomach sorrow gladly
And I am willing to face the sadness willingly and accept it with joy


For I have a theory that might sound crass
I have an explanation that may not be popular or widely accepted


And to that hypothesis I raise a glass
But I still raise a glass in support of it


Here's to the chaos
Let’s toast to the disorder and disorderliness of life


The heartache and strain
And to the emotional and physical pain that come with it


Three cheers for agony
Let’s give three cheers for pain


A toast to the pain
And let’s raise a glass to pain


Hats off to everything that leaves a scar
Let’s show our respect for everything that leaves a mark on us


For reminding me who my friends are
Because this is what reminds us who our true friends are


Though I'm not religious, I've always believed
Even though I am not religious, I still have beliefs


There must be a weirdo up there who conceived
And I believe there must be something out there that created our existence


This magic, tragic planet
And this existence is both magical and tragic


And so I'll forgive ‘em for adding the parts
And I’ll forgive whatever force created this for adding aspects that hurt us


That savage and ravage our bones and our hearts
That can be savage and ruin both our physical and emotional selves


And hardens souls to granite
And that can make our souls hard like granite


For when at the end of a harrowing day
Because at the end of a difficult day


You'll see who shows up at your doorstep to say
We will see who our true friends are


No it's never gonna, never gonna end, no, no, no
It will never cease to happen, no matter how much we want it to


It's never gonna, never gonna end, no, no, no
The pain and the company of it will always be there


Not the misery nor the company, my friend
We can’t escape the misery nor can we escape others’ company in tough times, my friend


So fill each other's cup
We should fill each other’s glasses


And never give it up
And never run away from each other


Cause here's to the hoping
Because we can always hope


When odds are a joke
Even when the odds are against us


Three cheers for foolish dreams
Let’s give three cheers to unrealistic aspirations


When everything's broke
Even when everything is falling apart


Hats off to every ‘close, but no cigar'
Let’s respect our efforts, even when we fall slightly short of our goals


Hats off to everything that leaves a scar
And let’s show respect to everything that leaves a mark on us


For reminding me
Because it is through these things that we are reminded


Who my friends are
Of who our true friends are




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