My 16th Apology
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(The things I said about you
Maybe we could work it out someday)

Things were going pretty well 'till I died
On that sunny afternoon
When you broke down before my eyes
Well I got a streak of meanness
A clumsy way of speaking
And I don't know where I get it from
It must run in my family

Do I have to go down on my knees?
This is my 16th apology to you
With friends like me, who needs enemies

I got a river inside the size of my rage
Which is really something else
When you think of my tender age
Well I got a way about me
But it's hard for me to see it
And I don't know when I'm in the wrong
Why am I so hard to please?

This is my 16th apology to you
Do I have to go down on my knees for you
With friends like me who needs enemies

The things I said about you
Were all said yesterday
I didn't mean to hurt you
Maybe we could work it out someday

Well I got a streak of meanness
A clumsy way of speaking
And I don't know when I'm in the wrong
Why am I so hard to please?

Do I have to go down on my knees?
This is my 16th apology to you
With friends like me who needs enemies

(Didn't your mother ever tell you




To err is human, to forgive is divine
Oh well, I'll see you in the next life)

Overall Meaning

In the song My 16th Apology, the singer reflects on their shortcomings in a relationship and their remorse for hurting their partner. They acknowledge a "streak of meanness" and a "clumsy way of speaking" that seems to be inherited from their family. The lyrics suggest that the singer often struggles to identify when they are in the wrong and can be difficult to please, which has caused problems in the relationship. However, they express a desire to work things out with their partner, and the repeated apologies throughout the song demonstrate their commitment to repairing the relationship. The song ends on a somewhat fatalistic note, with the singer acknowledging that they may not be able to fully change their behaviour in this lifetime ("I'll see you in the next life").


Overall, the lyrics of My 16th Apology offer a poignant exploration of the challenges of communication and growth in a romantic relationship. The singer admits to their flaws and shortcomings, while also expressing a willingness to learn and improve. The repetition of the apology throughout the song underscores the importance of accountability and humility in any relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Things were going pretty well 'till I died
I messed up our relationship and it feels like it's over


On that sunny afternoon
The event that caused the issue happened unexpectedly


When you broke down before my eyes
Seeing you cry broke my heart even more


Well I got a streak of meanness
I can be cruel and it's a part of who I am


A clumsy way of speaking
I don't communicate in the best way and often say hurtful things


And I don't know where I get it from
I don't know how to change because I don't understand the root cause of my behavior


It must run in my family
My behavior may be inherited or influenced by my family


Do I have to go down on my knees?
I am willing to do whatever it takes to make things right


This is my 16th apology to you
I've apologized so many times, but it never seems to be enough


With friends like me, who needs enemies
I'm causing more harm than good with my actions


I got a river inside the size of my rage
I have a lot of anger inside of me that I struggle to control


Which is really something else
My anger can be overwhelming


When you think of my tender age
Considering my age, it's surprising that I have so much anger


Well I got a way about me
I have a particular personality that can be difficult to deal with


But it's hard for me to see it
I struggle to recognize my own flaws


And I don't know when I'm in the wrong
I have trouble admitting my mistakes


Why am I so hard to please?
I have unrealistic expectations and it causes issues in my relationships


The things I said about you
The hurtful things I said were directed at you


Were all said yesterday
I regret the things I said and wish I could take them back


I didn't mean to hurt you
My intention was not to cause you pain


Maybe we could work it out someday
I still have hope that we can fix things in the future


Didn't your mother ever tell you
The idea of forgiveness is a common lesson taught in childhood


To err is human, to forgive is divine
We all make mistakes, but forgiveness is a higher virtue


Oh well, I'll see you in the next life
Even if we can't fix things in this life, I hope we can be at peace in the future




Lyrics Β© MUSIC SALES CORPORATION, BMG Rights Management, Peermusic Publishing, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Richard Feldman, Siobhan Fahey, Marcy Levy

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