Kevin's
Sharon Van Etten Lyrics


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True, tell everyone you know.
It's all we ask.
If it were all up to me, I would say
Come up with these truths instead.

You dig your own grave.
You dig your own grave.
Buried in masculine pain all the time.
Envy all less, we know.
Crazy, basic.
In your own breath, you cough.

Ooh, in your own breath.
Ooh, in your own breath.

Take on yourself.
It's the only way I will breathe.
Temples, temples,
In your own breath.





Ooh, in your own breath.
Ooh, in your own breath for me.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Sharon Van Etten's song "Kevin's" are enigmatic and open to interpretation, but they are laden with themes of identity, self-destruction, and vulnerability. The opening lines, "True, tell everyone you know. It's all we ask. If it were all up to me, I would say Come up with these truths instead," suggest the desire for honesty and authenticity in relationships. Perhaps the singer is asking Kevin to reveal something substantial about himself, instead of keeping it hidden.


The repetition of "You dig your own grave" highlights a sense of agency in causing one's own downfall or suffering. The phrase "Buried in masculine pain all the time" can be read as a commentary on toxic masculinity and the pressure men face to suppress their emotions, leading to self-destruction. The lines "Envy all less, we know. Crazy, basic. In your own breath, you cough" intertwine envy, self-deprecation, and fear, creating a complex and intricate portrait of an emotionally troubled individual.


The refrain "Ooh, in your own breath" serves as a haunting reminder of the ever-present, inescapable self. "Take on yourself. It's the only way I will breathe. Temples, temples, In your own breath" could be interpreted as the singer's advice to Kevin to embrace himself fully to find inner peace. Overall, Kevin's lyrics create a sense of unease, yet the song's haunting melody and Sharon Van Etten's powerful vocals make it an enchantingly beautiful track.


Line by Line Meaning

True, tell everyone you know.
Be honest and share your true feelings with those around you.


It's all we ask.
All that is desired is for you to be truthful.


If it were all up to me, I would say
If I had complete control, I would encourage honesty and openness.


Come up with these truths instead.
Focus on sharing genuine and authentic truths rather than hiding behind falsehoods.


You dig your own grave.
Your own actions and choices lead to your downfall.


Buried in masculine pain all the time.
Constantly trapped in societal expectations of masculinity which cause emotional pain.


Envy all less, we know.
We understand that envy and comparison are futile and unhelpful.


Crazy, basic.
Foolish and unremarkable.


In your own breath, you cough.
Your own emotions and struggles are causing you pain and discomfort.


Ooh, in your own breath.
Reinforcement of the idea that you must address your own internal issues.


Take on yourself.
Look within yourself and take responsibility for your own actions and feelings.


It's the only way I will breathe.
Addressing your own issues is necessary for the artist to feel at peace.


Temples, temples,
A likely reference to the physical sensation of stress and anxiety.


In your own breath.
The source of the struggle is within oneself.


Ooh, in your own breath for me.
Further emphasis on the importance of addressing personal struggles for both the individual and the singer.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC, WORDS & MUSIC A DIV OF BIG DEAL MUSIC LLC
Written by: AARON BROOKING DESSNER, SHARON KATHARINE VAN ETTEN

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