Been There Before
Shaylen Lyrics


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Twenty-three year old me would have slipped my number
To your "Live fast" knuckle tattoos
Tucked my hand next to the dip in your left back pocket
On the way up to your one-bedroom

And I'm not tryna be unfair
The thing is I've just had my share of guys like you (guys like you)
If I let those baby blues kiss me
What comes next is no mystery based on my history

You got a bone dry bottle of Jack by the nightstand
Face down frame of your ex and you're just friends
Lipstick stains on a glass in the sink, yeah, it's all too familiar to me
I bet you take my coat to pretend you're a gentleman
Hang it in your closet next to your skeletons
Dirty laundry all over the floor
You could show me your place, but I been there before
(But I been there before)

You're a heartbreak in leather
Sippin' red flag label, yeah, you look just like deja vu
And the only thing stoppin' me goin' back to your apartment
Is I know what I'll see if do (see if I do)

You got a bone dry bottle of Jack by the nightstand
Face down frame of your ex and you're just friends
Lipstick stains on a glass in the sink, yeah, it's all too familiar to me
I bet you take my coat to pretend you're a gentleman
Hang it in your closet next to your skeletons
Dirty laundry all over the floor
You could show me your place, but I been there before
(But I been there before)
(But I been there before)
And I'm not tryna be unfair
The thing is I've just had my share of guys like you (guys like you)
If I let those baby blues kiss me
What comes next is no mystery based on my history

You got a bone dry bottle of Jack by the nightstand
Face down frame of your ex and you're just friends
Lipstick stains on a glass in the sink, yeah, it's all too familiar to me
I bet you take my coat to pretend you're a gentleman
Hang it in your closet next to your skeletons
Dirty laundry all over the floor
You could show me your place, but I been there before

You could show me your place, but I been there before

Overall Meaning

In Shaylen's song "Been There Before," the lyrics poignantly capture the sentiments of someone who has navigated the complexities of young love and heartbreak. The singer reflects on past experiences filled with familiar patterns and red flags symbolized by their interactions with a certain type of man. The opening lines show a sense of youthful allure and temptation, with the mention of a twenty-three-year-old self who might have succumbed to the charms of a reckless, thrill-seeking individual. However, as the character matures, there is a clear indication of self-awareness and discernment. This juxtaposition between naive attraction and hard-earned wisdom reinforces the notion that age and experience can significantly alter one’s perspective on relationships.


The chorus serves as a critical moment of realization, highlighting the cyclical nature of their romantic encounters. The singer recognizes the signs of a familiar disillusionment, underscored by details like the “bone dry bottle of Jack” and the image of an ex-partner's frame, which suggests emotional baggage and unresolved pasts. The repeated refrain of "I've been there before" acts as both a warning and a declaration of empowerment. It suggests that the singer is no longer willing to repeat past mistakes, as they have learned what comes from getting involved with someone who embodies such warning signs. This acknowledgment of history lays the groundwork for a deeper exploration of the emotional consequences associated with diving into yet another entanglement with a man who typifies past disappointments.


The imagery employed throughout the lyrics further emphasizes the familiarity of the situation. The mention of “lipstick stains on a glass” and “dirty laundry all over the floor” creates a vivid snapshot of messy, transient relationships, while also hinting at the inevitable disillusionment that follows. The line about hanging a coat next to “skeletons” suggests that there are hidden troubles lurking beneath the surface of an attractive facade, reminding the listener of the emotional weight the character carries from previous heartaches. Thus, the home portrayed in the song is not only a physical space but also a metaphor for emotional turbulence and the ghosts of past lovers that haunt these experiences.


As the song progresses, it becomes evident that the singer is not simply rejecting the allure of the man but is choosing to value their self-worth and personal growth instead. The knowledge that they would likely encounter heartbreak if they were to continue down this path represents a certain maturity that comes from having "had [their] share of guys like [him]." Shaylen's lyrics resonate with anyone who has faced similar dilemmas, showcasing the tensions between attraction and self-preservation. Ultimately, the decision to refrain from engaging with this man signifies a ripple of strength—acknowledging past experiences while paving the way for healthier future choices, embodying the message that self-knowledge can break the cycle of unhealthy relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Twenty-three year old me would have slipped my number
In my younger years, I would have eagerly given you my contact information.


To your 'Live fast' knuckle tattoos
I would have been drawn to your rebellious persona, symbolized by the tattoos on your knuckles.


Tucked my hand next to the dip in your left back pocket
I would have felt comfortable and intimate enough to place my hand close to you.


On the way up to your one-bedroom
As we walked together towards your small apartment, it seemed like a promising adventure.


And I'm not tryna be unfair
I don't want to come across as judgmental or biased in my views.


The thing is I've just had my share of guys like you (guys like you)
I've encountered numerous men with a similar vibe or attitude as you.


If I let those baby blues kiss me
If I allow your captivating blue eyes to enchant me,


What comes next is no mystery based on my history
I know from past experiences that the outcome will likely lead to heartache.


You got a bone dry bottle of Jack by the nightstand
Your intoxication hints at a lifestyle that includes excessive drinking, reflected by the empty whiskey bottle.


Face down frame of your ex and you're just friends
A picture of your former partner lays hidden, suggesting unresolved feelings while you claim to just be friends.


Lipstick stains on a glass in the sink, yeah, it's all too familiar to me
The remnants of past encounters are evident, resonating with my previous experiences of similar situations.


I bet you take my coat to pretend you're a gentleman
I suspect you might attempt to act charming by covering my coat, yet it's a facade.


Hang it in your closet next to your skeletons
Your closet likely contains secrets and past mistakes, directly corresponding to your deceptive charm.


Dirty laundry all over the floor
Your lack of organization reflects not only physical clutter but emotional chaos in your life.


You could show me your place, but I been there before
While you may invite me into your life, I’ve experienced this scenario and know its pitfalls.


You're a heartbreak in leather
Your tough exterior conceals a history of causing emotional pain.


Sippin' red flag label, yeah, you look just like deja vu
Your warning signs are obvious, reminding me of past relationships that didn’t end well.


And the only thing stoppin' me goin' back to your apartment
The sole reason I refrain from returning to your place,


Is I know what I'll see if I do (see if I do)
is the certain familiarity of disappointment and heartbreak that awaits me there.


You got a bone dry bottle of Jack by the nightstand
You still have that same empty whiskey bottle, reinforcing your pattern of behavior.


Face down frame of your ex and you're just friends
The same hidden photo of your ex hints at continued emotional attachments.


Lipstick stains on a glass in the sink, yeah, it's all too familiar to me
That familiar trace of past encounters only solidifies my reluctance to engage.


I bet you take my coat to pretend you're a gentleman
You may still use the same tactics to create a false sense of charm.


Hang it in your closet next to your skeletons
These actions still hide darker truths and unresolved past issues.


Dirty laundry all over the floor
Emotional and physical messiness in your life continues to be a red flag.


You could show me your place, but I been there before
I’m aware of what your life entails and have experienced it all beforehand.


You could show me your place, but I been there before
My familiarity with the past discourages me from getting involved again.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Shaylen, Andrew Marcus Baylis, Michael Whitworth, Nick Bailey

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@PansyPalomino

Love this song sooo much just like you! ❤

@korkuc26

This song comes on once a day on the roof. I can only imagine what people think when they see some roofers listening to this. IDC

@GoldenGodDennisReynolds

Two wishes for 2024: a full length album and some dates in the UK.

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Unbelievable!!!!!

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@Miraclebaby_17

This song is amazing and Shaylen changed my life and this song made me want to move on to someone who won't break my heart and thank you Shaylen for putting this song for me to heal over my heartbreaks and breakups!❤❤

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Well done Shaylen.It's better without movements. Brilliant .

@AnthonyObule

Ur voice is gold and you are the modern shania twain. Wish you good luck in ur music career my dear

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Been dying for this one!!! Love it!!! 💖💖💖

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