Lying To Make You Love Me
Shaylen Lyrics


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I got problems
I got symptoms
Like these walls I'm stuck behind
I got trauma
Been the victim guilty conscious taints the mind
You make me feel bad for being real
Tell me why is it so wrong
You got problems
You got symptoms
And it's me their landing on

And I hope you understand what I'm fighting
I hope you understand I've been hiding
If I tell you all my secrets
Just don't hold it above me
What you're thinking of me, oh

'Cause I'm lying to make you love me
I'm lying to make you
I'm lying to make you love me
I'm lying to make you
I'm lying to make you

I start shaking
Can't catch my breath
When I think I caused you pain
So it's taking
All of my strength just to rewire my brain
You and me don't need a conversation
No I don't need any validation
No escaping
You're not changing
It's on me to walk away
And I hope you understand what I'm fighting
I hope you understand
I hope you understand I've been hiding
I've been hiding
If I tell you all my secrets
Just don't hold it above me
What you're thinking of me, oh

'Cause I'm lying to make you love me
I'm lying to make you
I'm lying to make you love me
I'm lying to make you
'Cause I'm lying to make you love me
I'm lying to make you (yeah)
I'm lying to make you love me (I'm lying, I'm lying)
I'm lying to make you, lying to make you (I'm lying)

I'm sick and tired of lying
'Bout who I'm meant to be
I'm tired of trying, oh

I'm sick and tired of lying
'Bout who I'm meant to be
I'm tired of trying, oh (yeah, yeah, yeah)

I hope you understand what I'm fighting
So I hope you understand I've been hiding
I've been hiding
If I tell you all my secrets
Just don't hold it above me
What you're thinking of me, oh
I'm lying to make you love me

Overall Meaning

In Shaylen's song "Lying To Make You Love Me," the lyrics explore the internal struggles and vulnerabilities that arise in a relationship where both individuals are dealing with their own problems and insecurities. The singer acknowledges their own issues, expressing feelings of being trapped and haunted by past trauma. They feel guilty for being genuine and real, as they are made to feel bad for their authenticity. However, they recognize that their partner also has their own problems and burdens, and it seems like both parties are projecting their issues onto each other.


The chorus reveals the singer's motivation behind their deception. They admit to lying in order to make their partner love them. This deceitful behavior stems from a fear of causing their partner pain and a desperate longing for their love and acceptance. The singer feels the need to hide their true self, even though it takes a toll on their mental and emotional well-being. Ultimately, they realize that the responsibility lies with them to walk away from this toxic dynamic.


Line by Line Meaning

I got problems
I have personal challenges or issues


I got symptoms
I have observable signs or indicators of my problems


Like these walls I'm stuck behind
I feel trapped or limited in expressing myself


I got trauma
I have deeply disturbing emotional experiences


Been the victim guilty conscious taints the mind
I have suffered and carry guilt that negatively affects my thoughts


You make me feel bad for being real
You make me feel ashamed for expressing my true self


Tell me why is it so wrong
Explain why it is deemed unacceptable or incorrect


You got problems
You also have personal challenges or issues


You got symptoms
You exhibit observable signs or indicators of your problems


And it's me their landing on
And I am the one being blamed for your problems


And I hope you understand what I'm fighting
I wish for you to comprehend the struggles I'm facing


I hope you understand I've been hiding
I hope you grasp that I have been concealing my true self


If I tell you all my secrets
If I reveal all my undisclosed information


Just don't hold it above me
Please do not use it against me or treat me unfairly because of it


What you're thinking of me, oh
Your opinion or thoughts about me


'Cause I'm lying to make you love me
Because I am dishonest to gain your affection


I start shaking
I begin to tremble or feel unstable


Can't catch my breath
I struggle to breathe properly


When I think I caused you pain
When I believe I have hurt you


So it's taking
So it requires


All of my strength just to rewire my brain
Every ounce of my energy to reprogram my thinking


You and me don't need a conversation
We do not require a discussion


No I don't need any validation
No, I do not need approval or confirmation


No escaping
There is no way to avoid it


You're not changing
You are not altering


It's on me to walk away
It is my responsibility to leave


I'm sick and tired of lying
I am exhausted from constantly being deceptive


'Bout who I'm meant to be
About my true identity or purpose


I'm tired of trying, oh
I am worn out from making efforts


I hope you understand what I'm fighting
I hope you comprehend the struggle I am facing


So I hope you understand I've been hiding
Thus, I hope you realize that I have been concealing myself


If I tell you all my secrets
If I confess all my undisclosed information


Just don't hold it above me
Please do not use it against me or treat me unfairly because of it


What you're thinking of me, oh
Your opinion or thoughts about me




Lyrics ยฉ Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Mark Landon, Mitchell Allan Scherr, Olivia Charlotte Waithe, Shaylen Lee Carroll

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