Own Way
Shaylen Lyrics
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I'm in therapy, they say "It might help
It's good for your health"
I'm impatient, I'm destructive
I keep focusing on everyone else
Except for myself
I can only go up 'cause I been so downFill up on love, there ain't no middle ground
The older I get, I can't play the victim
In the heat of the moment, I wanna keep moving
But then, I just can't
I gotta get out of my own way
I gotta slip out of my old ways
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
I gotta get out of my own way (yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
I gotta slip out of my old ways (Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
Daddy issues, grab the tissues
Know that we all heard that story before
We heard it before
Some disfunction, kinda love it
I'm incapable of normal at all
It isn't my fault
I can only go up 'cause I been so down
Fill up on love, there ain't no middle ground
The older I get, I can't play the victim
In the heat of the moment, I wanna keep moving
But then, I just can't (woo)
I gotta get out of my own way
I gotta slip out of my old ways
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
I gotta get out of my own way (yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
I gotta slip out of my old ways (yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
If you feel how I feel, then I'm gonna keep it real
I'm a mess and I'm tryna keep up
If you feel how I feel, then I'm gonna keep it real
I'm a mess and I'm tryna keep up
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah, yeah
I gotta get out of my own way (oh no, oh no, oh)
I gotta slip out of my old ways (I said, don't tell me, don't tell me, oh)
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it (ooh)
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
The lyrics of Shaylen's song "Own Way" depict a struggle with self-destructive behavior and a desire to break free from it. The opening lines suggest a reliance on substances, such as drinking and smoking, as coping mechanisms. The mention of therapy reflects a recognition of the need for help but also a hint of skepticism about its effectiveness. The artist acknowledges her impatience and tendency to focus on others instead of herself, implying a lack of self-care and self-awareness.
The chorus highlights the artist's determination to rise above her current state, to find a way out of her own downward spiral. She acknowledges that love is essential in this journey, emphasizing the need for self-acceptance and self-love. The line "The older I get, I can't play the victim" suggests a growing awareness of personal responsibility and a desire to move past the role of victimhood. However, despite this determination, there is a struggle to actually break free, hinting at the possibility of repeated patterns and setbacks.
The second verse introduces the theme of "daddy issues" and dysfunction, implying a troubled upbringing that contributes to her current struggles. The artist acknowledges the familiarity of this narrative but also distances herself from any blame, saying "It isn't my fault." This suggests an understanding of the external factors that have shaped her behavior but also serves as a reminder that she is not defined solely by her past.
Line by Line Meaning
I been sipping, I been smoking
I have been indulging in substances like alcohol and drugs
I'm in therapy, they say 'It might help
It's good for your health'
I am seeking professional help through therapy, which is recommended for my well-being
I'm impatient, I'm destructive
I struggle with being patient and often engage in self-destructive behaviors
I keep focusing on everyone else
Except for myself
I constantly prioritize the needs and concerns of others over my own
I can only go up 'cause I been so down
I can only improve my situation because I have experienced deep lows
Fill up on love, there ain't no middle ground
I seek love and affection to the fullest extent, without settling for anything less
The older I get, I can't play the victim
As I grow older, I realize I cannot constantly portray myself as a victim
In the heat of the moment, I wanna keep moving
But then, I just can't
When faced with intense emotions, I have the desire to move forward, but I struggle to do so
I gotta get out of my own way
I need to overcome my personal obstacles and work on self-improvement
I gotta slip out of my old ways
I must let go of my previous habits and behaviors that are holding me back
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
If someone insists that I should change, it only demotivates me, leading to frustration and potential failure
Daddy issues, grab the tissues
I have unresolved emotional struggles related to my father, causing distress
Know that we all heard that story before
It is a familiar narrative that many people have encountered
Some dysfunction, kinda love it
I find comfort in dysfunction and have some affinity towards it
I'm incapable of normal at all
It isn't my fault
I struggle to conform to societal expectations, and it is not my fault
If you feel how I feel, then I'm gonna keep it real
I'm a mess and I'm tryna keep up
If you can relate to my emotions, I will be honest about the fact that I am a mess while trying to keep up with life
I gotta get out of my own way (yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
I need to overcome my personal obstacles and work on self-improvement
If you feel how I feel, then I'm gonna keep it real
I'm a mess and I'm tryna keep up
If you can relate to my emotions, I will be honest about the fact that I am a mess while trying to keep up with life
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it
If someone insists that I should change, it only demotivates me, leading to frustration and potential failure
I gotta get out of my own way (yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
I need to overcome my personal obstacles and work on self-improvement
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it
If someone insists that I should change, it only demotivates me, leading to frustration and potential failure
If you feel how I feel, then I'm gonna keep it real
I'm a mess and I'm tryna keep up
If you can relate to my emotions, I will be honest about the fact that I am a mess while trying to keep up with life
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
If someone insists that I should change, it only demotivates me, leading to frustration and potential failure
I gotta get out of my own way (oh no, oh no, oh)
I need to overcome my personal obstacles and work on self-improvement
I gotta slip out of my old ways (I said, don't tell me, don't tell me, oh)
I must let go of my previous habits and behaviors that are holding me back
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it (ooh)
If someone insists that I should change, it only demotivates me, leading to potential inaction
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
This can result in me losing control and facing negative consequences
Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Daniel Omelio, Jonas Jeberg, Shaylen, Chelsea Lena
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
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I been sipping, I been smoking
I'm in therapy, they say "It might help
It's good for your health"
I'm impatient, I'm destructive
I keep focusing on everyone else
Except for myself
[Pre-Chorus]
I can only go up 'cause I been so down
Fill up on love, there ain't no middle ground
The older I get, I can't play the victim
In the heat of the moment, I wanna keep moving
But then, I just can't
[Chorus]
I gotta get out of my own way
I gotta slip out of my old ways
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
I gotta get out of my own way (Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
I gotta slip out of my old ways (Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
[Verse 2]
Body issues, grab the tissues
Know that we all heard that story before
We heard it before
Some disfunction, kinda love it
I'm incapable of normal at all
It isn't my fault
[Pre-Chorus]
I can only go up 'cause I been so down
Fill up on love, there ain't no middle ground
The older I get, I can't play the victim
In the heat of the moment, I wanna keep moving
But then, I just can't (Woo)
[Chorus]
I gotta get out of my own way
I gotta slip out of my old ways
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
I gotta get out of my own way (Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
I gotta slip out of my old ways (Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
[Bridge]
If you feel how I feel, then I'm gonna keep it real
I'm a mess and I'm tryna keep up
If you feel how I feel, then I'm gonna keep it real
I'm a mess and I'm tryna keep up
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah, yeah
[Chorus]
I gotta get out of my own way (Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
(Oh no, oh no, oh)
I gotta slip out of my old ways (Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)
(I said, don't tell me, don't tell me, oh)
Don't tell me I should do it 'cause then I'll never do it (Ooh)
And then I'll fuckin' lose it, yeah yeah
@jennythomas2579
The beat fire , love the message too. Look at women taking OVA
@thegreenweirdo210
Shaylen is a lyrical genius
@chotaire
This is actually a hit. Let's see what happens :)
@frommydiary9987
C
@ryanthompson6617
I hope her music gets more recognition!!!
@johnallenenierga1031
mark my word "Shaylen will gonna be HUGE someday"
@miked7212
hopefully
@bySimyna
This song doesn’t show up even when I’m searching for it , it’s always a headache to be able to find it . That says a lot about popular songs that get popular cuz they are recommended to you .
@whiteclouds9424
i freaking love it when the beat drops this is going straight into my favorites
@Calebbby2011
Aye I love this it’s like an anthem