Me & You
She & Him Lyrics


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Well, I'm back in your good graces again
Remember when you told me that I was your only friend?
Well, you've made the best of this life
Where you never knew one day from the next
Dig your heels in, little girl, put them to the test

You've got to be kind to yourself
You've got to be kind to yourself

Well, I heard you had the blues again
It seems like all those little things add up in the end
Well, I know that you worry a lot about things you can't control
There are so many things we'd like to have
But we just cannot hold





You've got to be kind to yourself
You've got to be kind to yourself

Overall Meaning

The song "Me and You" by She & Him captures the complex nature of a relationship between two people who have a history of falling out but inevitably finding their way back to each other. The singer starts off by acknowledging that they are back in their partner's good graces and reminisces about a time when their partner had told them that they were their only friend. However, despite the reconciliation, the singer recognizes that their partner has had a tough time navigating life and is often plagued by the blues. The singer empathizes with their partner, acknowledging that little things add up in the end.


The chorus is where the crux of the song lays. The repeated phrase, "You've got to be kind to yourself" is an essential lesson that the singer tries to impart on their partner. They recognize their partner's tendency to worry about things that are out of their control and encourages them to take a step back and be kind to themselves. This phrase conveys such a beautiful message because sometimes everyone needs to be reminded that it is essential to take care of one's self and find inner peace.


In conclusion, "Me and You" is a beautiful yet straightforward song about the complexities of relationships and the importance of being kind to oneself. It reminds us that sometimes the solution to life's struggles is as simple as taking a breath and being kind to ourselves.


Line by Line Meaning

Well, I'm back in your good graces again
I've regained your trust after a disagreement or mistake we had.


Remember when you told me that I was your only friend?
In the past, you confided in me and considered me a close friend.


Well, you've made the best of this life
You've tried to make the most of your life.


Where you never knew one day from the next
You lived without any sense of predictability or routine.


Dig your heels in, little girl, put them to the test
Stand your ground, have confidence in yourself, and push yourself to succeed.


You've got to be kind to yourself
You should treat yourself with care, respect, and compassion.


Well, I heard you had the blues again
I heard that you've been feeling sad or depressed lately.


It seems like all those little things add up in the end
Small problems or worries can accumulate and have a big impact on our mood and well-being.


Well, I know that you worry a lot about things you can't control
I understand that you have anxiety about situations that are out of your hands.


There are so many things we'd like to have
We have many desires and aspirations.


But we just cannot hold
Sometimes, we are unable to achieve or attain everything we want.


You've got to be kind to yourself
It's important to prioritize self-care and self-compassion.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: ZOOEY DESCHANEL

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