Thought It Would Be Easier
Shelby Lynne Lyrics


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I always thought is would be easier
After you were gone
Thought I could pull myself together
And do fine on my my own

Sometimes I do alright then I remember
How I dreamed it, how I needed it
I thought it would be easier
I thought it would be easier

They never told me I'd be lonely,
Torn up and wasted
But when you saw something
Else you liked
You couldn't wait to taste it

How was I to know about the way
You were scheming
I guess I must have been dreaming
I thought it would be easier
I thought it would be easier

I found that old shirt you used to wear
And it really brought me down
Ooh does she like blue like I do
I bet she gets around

All I know today is that I,
I can't stand it
This ain't how I planned it




I thought it would be easier
I thought it would be easier

Overall Meaning

The song "Thought It Would Be Easier" by Shelby Lynne depicts the painful aftermath of a failed relationship. The singer muses about how she believed that she would be better off without her former partner and was convinced that she could easily recover from the separation. However, she now realizes that the process of healing is much more challenging than she anticipated. While sometimes she manages to cope with the loneliness and despair, memories of what she dreamed and needed in the past, break her down. As she finds herself struggling to move forward, the singer reflects on how her ex-partner betrayed her trust and ultimately shattered the dreams she had for their future together.


The lines "They never told me I'd be lonely, Torn up and wasted" convey the sense of disappointment and frustration the singer feels about her present reality. She thought that the relief of being free from a toxic relationship would be enough to make up for the pain of the breakup. Instead, facing the empty space left behind by her lover has left her in shambles. She realizes that moving on is much harder than she ever imagined. As she encounters reminders of her past relationship, such as finding an old shirt her ex used to wear, she is forced to confront the possibility that her former partner may have found someone new that replaces her. All she knows for sure is that this is not at all what she expected life to be like.


Overall, "Thought It Would Be Easier" portrays a vision of a post-breakup life that is far from the surface-level cliches of "good riddance" and "I'm better off without you." Instead, the song communicates the raw vulnerability and pain of untangling from a partnership that was once central to one's existence. The lyrics are a nod that there is no one path to healing, and the journey of moving on is often full of twists and turns that no one anticipates.


Line by Line Meaning

I always thought is would be easier
I believed that dealing with your absence would be an effortless feat


After you were gone
After your departure from my life


Thought I could pull myself together
I believed that I could compose myself


And do fine on my my own
And live without you just fine


Sometimes I do alright then I remember
There are moments where I manage well but then I recall


How I dreamed it, how I needed it
How much I dreamed of being with you, how much I needed you


I thought it would be easier
I believed it would be less difficult


They never told me I'd be lonely,
Nobody mentioned that I'll feel alone


Torn up and wasted
Heartbroken and drained


But when you saw something
The moment you found someone else


Else you liked
That you preferred


You couldn't wait to taste it
You couldn't wait to try it out


How was I to know about the way
How was I supposed to know how


You were scheming
You were planning behind my back


I guess I must have been dreaming
I probably was deluded


I thought it would be easier
I believed it would be less difficult


I found that old shirt you used to wear
I discovered the old shirt you used to put on


And it really brought me down
It made me really depressed


Ooh does she like blue like I do
Perhaps she likes the color blue like I do


I bet she gets around
I bet she's promiscuous


All I know today is that I,
What I know for sure today is that I,


I can't stand it
I can't tolerate it


This ain't how I planned it
This isn't how I envisioned it


I thought it would be easier
I believed it would be less difficult




Lyrics © Downtown Music Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: SHELBY LYNNE, BILL BOTTRELL

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