I'm Asking Her To Stay
Sherwood Lyrics


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And I've been spending too much time in California
Where your feelings change but seasons never do
And in my dream last night I felt a storm was coming
But awoke to sunny skies of baby blue

And I call her up to let her go today
For a moment thought it easier then being away
But through the tangled thread the needle finds a way
And I'm asking her to stay

And I've been spending all my time composing letters
To a girl who lives a thousand miles away
But writing never takes the place of living
And I need her arms, I need her smile again

And she called me up to let me go today
For a moment thought it easier than being away
But through the tangled thread the needle finds a way
And I'm asking her to stay





Won't you stay?
Won't you stay?

Overall Meaning

In Sherwood's song I'm Asking Her to Stay, the artist talks about the struggle of a long-distance relationship. The first verse talks about how the artist has been spending too much time in California, where things change rapidly, and change affects one's feelings too. The artist dreams of a storm that's coming, but when he wakes up, the skies are clear. This verse may indicate that the artist is struggling with his emotions which keep fluctuating when he thinks about his relationship.


In the second verse, the artist talks about how he spends most of his time writing and sending letters to his girlfriend. But writing letters doesn't change the fact that he misses her terribly and needs her by his side. The artist's girlfriend calls him and tells him that she wants to break up with him. Initially, the artist feels that letting her go is easier than being away from her for so long. But finally, he finds a way to put aside his fear and asks her to stay with him.


The song conveys the message that it's hard to be away from someone you love, and distance can put relationships on trial. But it's worth fighting for love if it matters to you. The song's lush instrumental backing emphasizes the artist's feelings about his lover and the tough yet crucial decision he's making.


Line by Line Meaning

And I've been spending too much time in California
I've been in California for too long and it's making me feel disconnected and lost.


Where your feelings change but seasons never do
The external environment in California remains constant, while the emotions and relationships keep changing for me.


And in my dream last night I felt a storm was coming
I had a premonition in my dream that something turbulent is heading towards us.


But awoke to sunny skies of baby blue
In reality, things seem fine and normal. I'm confused about the mixed signals.


And I call her up to let her go today
I tried to break up with her over the phone because I thought it would be easier for both of us.


For a moment thought it easier then being away
I justified my action as a way to avoid the pain of distance and longing.


But through the tangled thread the needle finds a way
Despite the difficulties of our relationship, we have a deep connection that somehow survives.


And I'm asking her to stay
Now I realize that breaking up was a mistake and I want her to stay with me.


And I've been spending all my time composing letters
I'm trying to express my feelings through letters because I can't be there in person with her.


To a girl who lives a thousand miles away
She is far away from me physically, but close to me emotionally.


But writing never takes the place of living
I understand that words alone can't substitute for the real experience of being together.


And I need her arms, I need her smile again
I miss her physical presence, her warmth and her affectionate expression that bring me comfort and joy.


And she called me up to let me go today
She tried to break up with me over the phone because she sensed my doubts and confusion.


Won't you stay?
I'm making a heartfelt plea for her to stay with me no matter what happens.


Won't you stay?
I'm repeating my request because it's the most important thing to me right now.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: DAN KOCH

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