Hurting Me Now
Sia Lyrics


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You, you don't like my hair
You don't like what I wear
I'm trying, trying, you see I'm trying
While you try to change me all the time

You, you say I talk too much
I know it drives you nuts
You tell me you wish I was better, better yeah
You roll your eyes forgetting I'm in the room

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it
You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it
You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice

You, you say I sing too loud
I want you to be proud
I want you screaming out "that girl is mine"
"I love her, love her," but you've already tuned me out

You, you know these words you say are causing us decay
You feel I am withdrawing, I am running away
You're pushing, you're pushing me

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it
You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it
You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice

Don't want you to blow it, you're hurting me
I know you don't know it
Don't want you to blow it, you're hurting me
I know you don't know it

Don't want you to blow it, you're hurting me
I know you don't know it
Don't want you to blow it, you're hurting me
I know you don't know it

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it
You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice

You're hurting me now
You take me down and you don't even know it




You think it's a joke
But baby you don't, you don't even notice

Overall Meaning

In Sia’s song Hurting Me Now, the singer deals with a partner who is constantly nitpicking and criticizing her, leading her to feel small and helpless. The lyrics reveal that the partner seems not to recognize just how much their words and actions are hurting her. The constant criticism causes her to doubt herself, leading her to try to change for their sake. She even wishes that the partner would scream out to the world how great she is, but she is ultimately met with indifference.


Despite the partner’s hurtful actions, they seemingly find it amusing and do not realize that their words are having a significant impact on the singer. She pleads with the partner not to blow what they have because of their careless behavior, begging them to become aware of how their words and actions are affecting her.


The overall message in the song is about the importance of treating one's partner with respect and kindness rather than tearing them down with constant criticism. The singer makes it clear that the partner’s actions are leading to the demise of their relationship, and that change is necessary if they are to make it work.


Line by Line Meaning

You, you don't like my hair
You constantly criticize my appearance and make me feel insecure about myself.


You don't like what I wear
You are always telling me how to dress and belittling my fashion choices.


I'm trying, trying, you see I'm trying
I am making an effort to please you and change my ways to fit your expectations.


While you try to change me all the time
Despite my efforts, you refuse to accept me for who I am and constantly try to mold me into a version of yourself.


You, you say I talk too much
You are annoyed by my words and thoughts, and you make me feel like my opinions don't matter.


I know it drives you nuts
I can sense that my personality and behavior irritate you and cause tension in our relationship.


You tell me you wish I was better, better yeah
You make me feel like I am not good enough for you and that I need to change myself to meet your standards.


You roll your eyes forgetting I'm in the room
You disrespect me by ignoring my presence and showing me that my feelings and presence are not valued by you.


You're hurting me now
Your actions and words are causing me emotional pain and discomfort.


You take me down and you don't even know it
Your behavior is causing me to feel insecure and hurt, but you are not aware of the impact of your words and actions.


You think it's a joke
You don't take my concerns or emotions seriously and treat them as a source of amusement or entertainment for yourself.


But baby you don't, you don't even notice
You are oblivious to the harm you are causing me and do not recognize the gravity of your behavior.


You know these words you say are causing us decay
Your negative remarks and actions are slowly eroding the foundation of our relationship and driving us apart.


You feel I am withdrawing, I am running away
Your behavior is causing me to distance myself from you and reconsider our relationship altogether.


You're pushing, you're pushing me
You are pressuring me to change myself and conform to your desires, even though it is causing me distress and discomfort.


Don't want you to blow it, you're hurting me
I don't want our relationship to fail, but your behavior is causing me pain and making me consider ending things.


I know you don't know it
You are unaware of the negative impact you are having on me and our relationship.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: GREG KURSTIN, SIA FURLER

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on Unstoppable

All smiles, I know what it takes to fool this town
I'll do it 'til the sun goes down and all through the nighttime
Oh yeah, oh yeah, I'll tell you what you wanna hear
Keep my sunglasses on while I shed a tear
It's never the right time, yeah, yeah

I put my armor on, show you how strong I am
I put my armor on, I'll show you that I am

I'm unstoppable
I'm a Porsche with no brakes
I'm invincible
And, I win every single game
I'm so powerful
I don't need batteries to play
I'm so confident, yeah, I'm unstoppable today
Unstoppable today, unstoppable today
Unstoppable today, yeah, I'm unstoppable today

Break down, only alone I will cry out loud
You'll never see what's hiding out
Hiding out deep down, yeah, yeah
I know, I've heard that to let your feelings show
Is the only way to make friendships grow
But I'm too afraid now, yeah, yeah

I put my armor on, show you how strong I am
I put my armor on, I'll show you that I am

I'm unstoppable
I'm a Porsche with no brakes
I'm invincible
And, I win every single game
I'm so powerful
I don't need batteries to play
I'm so confident, yeah, I'm unstoppable today
Unstoppable today, unstoppable today
Unstoppable today, yeah, I'm unstoppable today
Unstoppable today, unstoppable today
Unstoppable today, yeah, I'm unstoppable today

I put my armor on, show you how strong I am
I put my armor on, I'll show you that I am

I'm unstoppable
I'm a Porsche with no brakes
I'm invincible
Yeah, I win every single game
I'm so powerful
I don't need batteries to play
I'm so confident, yeah, I'm unstoppable today
Unstoppable today, unstoppable today
Unstoppable today, yeah, I'm unstoppable today

Unstoppable today, unstoppable today
Unstoppable today, yeah, I'm unstoppable today

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