The Girl
Sia Lyrics


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Big girl, little girl, you're a rip curl,
Tearing your way through this huge swirl,
I know you're mad, you're on a war path,
You know you don't want to be bury more

Friends
Then we could be friends,
I wish that we were friends,
But you can't stop, stop seeing us as the enemy

Yeah
Oh oh oh oh

Big girl, it's hell being unwell,
You know you're stuck where you fell,
Your words give birth like a rosemary,
You know you don't want to bury more

Friends,
Then we could be friends,
I wish that we were friends,
But you can't stop, stop seeing us as the enemy

Friends,
Then we could be friends,
I wish that we were friends,
But you can't stop, stop seeing us as the enemy

Can't bury more friends,
Then we could be friends,
I wish that we were friends,
But you can't stop, stop seeing us as the enemy

Friends,
Yeah we could be friends,
I wish that we were friends,
But you can't stop, stop seeing us as the enemy

You know with every cruel word that you utter,
That you bury yourself even deeper every day,
Oh little girl, there's enough love in this circle,
You can shackle yourself or be free from this pain

You know with every cruel word that you utter,
That you bury yourself even deeper every day,
Oh little, girl there's enough love in this circle,
You can shackle yourself or be free from this pain

You know with every cruel word that you utter,
That you bury yourself even deeper every day,




Oh little girl, there's enough love in this circle,
You can shackle yourself or be free from this pain

Overall Meaning

In Sia's "Big Girl Little Girl," she addresses the internal battle of a person who is struggling with their emotions and relationships. The song is addressed to a "little girl" who is overwhelmed by her feelings and is pushing people away who could be her friends. Sia compares her to a "rip curl" in the swirling ocean, tearing through everything in her path. She understands that the little girl is mad and on a warpath, but also reminds her that there's enough love within the group of people around her.


Sia pleads with the little girl to stop seeing everyone as an enemy and to instead see them as potential friends. The little girl is stuck where she fell, and her words are giving birth like a rosemary, meaning that they can cause both growth and harm. Sia lets her know that with every cruel word, she buries herself deeper into her own pain. She encourages her to be free from this pain and to accept the love within the circle of people who care for her.


Overall, the song is a message of hope and acceptance, and a reminder that we all have the ability to overcome our struggles and build meaningful connections with others.


Line by Line Meaning

Big girl, little girl, you're a rip curl, Tearing your way through this huge swirl, I know you're mad, you're on a war path, You know you don't want to be bury more
The singer addresses a person who is struggling with their emotions and shares that she knows they are fighting a difficult battle. She urges this person to not isolate themselves any further.


Friends Then we could be friends, I wish that we were friends, But you can't stop, stop seeing us as the enemy
The singer expresses her desire to be friends with the person she addresses. However, she acknowledges that this person cannot seem to view her as anything other than an enemy.


Big girl, it's hell being unwell, You know you're stuck where you fell, Your words give birth like a rosemary, You know you don't want to bury more
The person being addressed is further described as someone who is struggling with their mental health. The lyrics suggest that the person feels stuck and their words have influential power but they don't want to lose any more people in their life.


You know with every cruel word that you utter, That you bury yourself even deeper every day, Oh little girl, there's enough love in this circle, You can shackle yourself or be free from this pain
The singer emphasizes that every hurtful word that the person speaks digs them deeper into their own emotional pain. The lyrics encourage that there is love around them and it's their choice to free themselves from their pain or continue to suffer.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: HENRY BINNS, SIA FURLER

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@ufos22

"The Girl You Lost To Cocaine"

I've stuck around, through thick and through thin
You cannot deny, I've always been in
But I've watched you stand, still as a snowman
But I don't see you change, you're always at meltdown

Yeah I've been your crutch, your smell sight and touch
Yeah I took you home when you've drunk too much
But I can't survive, with you by my side
See I'll never get laid, while I'm running your life

No I just don't wanna, so I'm walking away
There is nothing that you can do I will not stay
No I don't need drama, so I'm walking away
Yeah I am a girl with a lot on her plate

So just cut me loose, learn to tie your shoes
There's somebody here, I'd like to introduce
So look in the mirror, look for the glass
'Cause you're not my problem, you are my last

No I just don't wanna, so I'm walking away
There is nothing that you can do I will not stay
No I don't need drama, so I'm walking away
Yeah I am a girl with a lot on her plate

No I just don't wanna, so I'm walking away
There is nothing that you can do I will not stay
No I don't need drama, so I'm walking away
Yeah I am a girl with a lot on her plate

No I just don't wanna, so I'm walking away
There is nothing that you can do I will not stay
No I'm not your mama, so I'm walking away
I'm just a girl that you lost to cocaine



@jeremymanalang1992

I've stuck around, through thick and through thin
You cannot deny, I've always been in
But I've watched you stand, still as a snowman
But I don't see you change, you're always at meltdown

Yeah I've been your crutch, your smell sight and touch
Yeah I took you home when you've drunk too much
But I can't survive, with you by my side
See I'll never get laid, while I'm running your life

No I just don't wanna, so I'm walking away
There is nothing that you can do I will not stay
No I don't need drama, so I'm walking away
Yeah I am a girl with a lot on her plate

So just cut me loose, learn to tie your shoes
There's somebody here, I'd like to introduce
So look in the mirror, look for the glass
'Cause you're not my problem, you are my last

No I just don't wanna, so I'm walking away
There is nothing that you can do I will not stay
No I don't need drama, so I'm walking away
Yeah I am a girl with a lot on her plate

No I just don't wanna, so I'm walking away
There is nothing that you can do I will not stay
No I don't need drama, so I'm walking away
I'm just a girl that you lost to cocaine



@carolinesnyder5201

Lyrics:

[Verse 1]
I've stuck around through thick and through thin
You cannot deny I've always been in
But I've watched you stand still as a snowman
But I don't see you change, you're always at meltdown

Yeah, I've been your crutch, your smell, sight, and touch
Yeah, I took you home when you've drunk too much
But I can't survive with you by my side
See, I'll never get laid while I'm running your life

[Chorus]
No, I just don't wanna, so I'm walking away
There is nothing that you can do, I will not stay
No, I don't need drama, so I'm walking away
Yeah, I am a girl with a lot on her plate

[Verse 2]
So just cut me loose, learn to tie your shoes
There's somebody here, I'd like to introduce
So look in the mirror, look for the glass
Cause you're not my problem, you are my last

[Chorus]
No, I just don't wanna, so I'm walking away
There is nothing that you can do, I will not stay
No, I don't need drama, so I'm walking away
Yeah, I am a girl with a lot on her plate
No, I just don't wanna, so I'm walking away
There is nothing that you can do, I will not stay
No, I don't need drama, so I'm walking away
Yeah, I am a girl with a lot on her plate
No, I just don't wanna, so I'm walking away
There is nothing that you can do, I will not stay
No, I'm not your mama, so I'm walking away
See, I'm just a girl that you lost to cocaine



@givaldopereira9741

Garota Que Você Perdeu Pra Cocaína
Fiquei ao seu lado, nos bons e nos maus tempos
Você não pode negar, eu sempre estive com você
Mas assisti você ficar estático, como um boneco de neve
Mas não te vejo mudar, você sempre está a ponto de explodir
Sim, eu fui sua muleta, seu olfato, visão e tato
É, eu te levava pra casa quando você bebia demais
Mas eu não posso sobreviver com você ao meu lado
Veja que eu nunca transei enquanto tocava a sua vida
Não, eu não quero mais, então estou indo embora
Não há nada que você possa fazer eu não vou ficar
Não, não preciso de drama, então estou indo embora
É, eu sou uma garota com mais o que fazer
Então me deixe ir de uma vez, aprenda a amarrar seus sapatos
Há alguém aqui, que eu gostaria de te apresentar
Então olhe no espelho, olhe pelo vidro
Porque você não é mais problema meu, você já era
Não, eu não quero mais, então estou indo embora
Não há nada que você possa fazer eu não vou ficar
Não, não preciso de drama, então estou indo embora
É, eu sou uma garota com mais o que fazer



All comments from YouTube:

@DamonAndJo

So avant-garde. Love it.

@Jo-chilin

Old sia music was may favorite, but I’m glad that she has the recognition that she deserves and that she’s not struggling anymore

@brandonhvacants2217

She didnt struggle before she didnt want to do tours and be in the lime light so she just sold her music. I dont know what changed her mind.

@SamWell-lh8so

brandon HVAC/ANTS she did struggle with drugs, and suicidal thoughts during her older albums, but not anymore 😊

@stevenmorris2234

Sam Well2244 so glad she's doing so much better now but at the same time I still love her older stuff best like this song.

I'm happy for her that she's doing great. Sia rocks.

@chibichan6421

brandon HVAC/ANTS that she isn’t touring and stuff, she is doing what she love and the way she likes it (I suppose) writing music for other pop singers so she doesn’t need to show her face.

@AnaLoveChakra

i first heard sia when she collaborated with zero 7. if you haven't heard that music, it's DIVINE! and really the only sia music i still listen to. i don't like her overly commercial stuff. this was the last song i liked of hers.

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@LadyNinjaGaming

I always liked Sia's music no matter how silly it is, cause there's always a message

@LadyNinjaGaming

+Savannah Ovrahim there's far more ridiculous music out there, and From what I see this is her kicking the habit or leaving someone who has had the habit

@claramatthews1350

+Savannah Ovrahim Her message is that she's done taking care of someone who has a drug abuse issue since it's getting in the way of her having a life. She used to have an issue with substances as well but doesn't anymore.

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