Dearest Helpless
Silverchair Lyrics


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Dearest helpless intent's not as bad as the action
Take a breath to distort the fear in your eyes
I don't mean it to hurt
But every time I hate you I think of you first

He's made you blind
You're better on your own
I'm just the kind
To bring you down

Equalize the pressure
It's all too much
Sex drugs and image is just enough to get you by in the
Real world

He's made you blind
You're better on your own
I'm just the kind
To bring you down

He's made you blind
I'm just the kind
To bring you, to bring you
He's made you blind
You're better own your own




I'm just the kind
To bring you down

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Silverchair's "Dearest Helpless" are complex and introspective, revealing the inner turmoil of the singer. The song speaks to the cyclical nature of relationships and the ways in which they can both uplift and destroy us. The singer sings, "Dearest helpless intent's not as bad as the action / Take a breath to distort the fear in your eyes / I don't mean it to hurt / But every time I hate you I think of you first." Here, the singer is acknowledging that, despite their best intentions, they have hurt the person they are addressing. They recognize that their intent does not excuse their actions and that they may have caused fear and pain in the other person.


The second verse is somewhat cryptic, with lines like, "Equalize the pressure / It's all too much / Sex, drugs, and image is just enough to get you by in the real world." The singer seems to be observing the other person's struggles and possibly criticizing their methods of coping with the pressures of life. They may be trying to reach out and help the other person, but they are also cognizant of their own tendency to bring others down. The repeating chorus emphasizes this, with the singer acknowledging that they are not always the best influence, but the other person's partner is even worse: "He's made you blind / You're better on your own / I'm just the kind / To bring you down."


Overall, "Dearest Helpless" is a deeply personal song that explores the complexities of relationships and the darkness that can reside in our own hearts.


Line by Line Meaning

Dearest helpless intent's not as bad as the action
Even though I have bad intentions towards you, I'm not as harmful as my negative thoughts about you.


Take a breath to distort the fear in your eyes
Take a deep breath to calm yourself down and hide the fear you're feeling from me.


I don't mean it to hurt
I say hurtful things to you, but I don't intend to cause you pain or harm.


But every time I hate you I think of you first
Whenever I feel hatred towards you, you come to the forefront of my mind as the focus of that emotion.


He's made you blind
Someone has caused you to lose sight of yourself and what's best for you.


You're better on your own
You would be better off alone rather than with the person who has made you lose sight of yourself.


I'm just the kind
I am the type of person who is not good for you, and may even bring you harm.


To bring you down
My presence or influence in your life will cause you to feel worse or have a negative impact on you.


Equalize the pressure
Find balance in your life and reduce stress by not putting too much pressure on yourself.


It's all too much
Life can be overwhelming and stressful, and sometimes it feels like too much to handle.


Sex drugs and image is just enough to get you by in the Real world
In the real world, people may use sex, drugs, and their image to get by or cope with life's challenges.


To bring you, to bring you
I am determined to bring you down or cause harm to you in some way.


You're better own your own
You would be better off alone than with someone who is detrimental to your well-being.


I'm just the kind
I am the type of person who is not good for you and has a negative influence on you.


To bring you down
Being around me will cause you to feel worse or have a negative impact on you.




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