Old Friend / Bookends
Simon & Garfunkel Lyrics


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Old friends
Old friends
Sat on their park bench like bookends
A newspaper blowin' through the grass
Falls on the round toes
Of the high shoes
Of the old friends
Old friends
Winter companions, the old men
Lost in their overcoats, waiting for the sunset
The sounds of the city sifting through trees
Settle like dust
On the shoulders of the old friends

Can you imagine us years from today
Sharing a park bench quietly?
How terribly strange to be seventy

Old friends
Memory brushes the same years
Silently sharing the same fear

A time it was, and what a time it was, it was
A time of innocence
A time of confidences

Long ago it must be
I have a photograph




Preserve your memories
They're all that's left you

Overall Meaning

The song "Old Friends/Bookends" by Simon & Garfunkel is a reflective song about the passage of time and the importance of memories. The opening lyrics show two old friends sitting on a park bench like bookends, with a newspaper blowing through the grass between them. The symbolism of the newspaper blowing between them creates an image of something transitory, signifying the fragility of life and the idea that all things must pass. The lyrics also paint an image of the old men, lost in their overcoats waiting for the sunset, while the sounds of the city and the passage of time echo around them, settling like dust on their shoulders.


The second verse asks the listener to imagine themselves years from today, sharing a park bench quietly with an old friend, highlighting the importance of relationships and friendship over the course of a lifetime. The haunting line "How terribly strange to be seventy" is a reminder that time flies by quickly and that we must cherish the moments we have.


The final verse reflects on the memories of the past, with the lyrics "Memory brushes the same years silently sharing the same fear". The song acknowledges that life can be both beautiful and terrifying, but that the memories we hold dear can bring comfort and solace. The line "Preserve your memories, they're all that's left you" is a poignant reminder that memories are precious and that we should cherish them to the end.


Line by Line Meaning

Old friends
The song begins with a repetition of the phrase 'Old friends,' which establishes the theme of friendship and its evolution over time.


Old friends
Another repetition of 'Old friends' builds on the first, emphasizing the importance of long-term relationships.


Sat on their park bench like bookends
The old friends sit on a park bench, presumably as they have for many years, indicating a sense of familiarity and comfort in routine.


A newspaper blowin' through the grass, Falls on the round toes, Of the high shoes, Of the old friends
The imagery of a newspaper blowing through the grass and landing on the old friends' shoes suggests the passage of time and the inevitability of change, even in the midst of routine.


Old friends, Winter companions, the old men
The old friends are now described as 'Winter companions' and 'old men,' highlighting the passage of time and the inevitability of aging.


Lost in their overcoats, waiting for the sunset
The old men are depicted as waiting for the sunset, perhaps signifying the end of their lives, while also being lost in their overcoats, suggesting a sense of physical and emotional distance from the world.


The sounds of the city sifting through trees, Settle like dust, On the shoulders of the old friends
The sounds of the city all around them serve as a contrast to the stillness of the old friends. The idea that the sound 'settles like dust' implies that these men have been around this environment for a long time -- they've become accustomed to it.


Can you imagine us years from today, Sharing a park bench quietly?, How terribly strange to be seventy
The artist then imagines himself at a future age and comments upon how strange it will be. This heightens the sense of passing time and the inevitability of aging.


Old friends, Memory brushes the same years, Silently sharing the same fear
The 'memory brushing the same years' suggests that these men have a shared past and that their memories are inextricably linked. The idea of 'silently sharing the same fear' implies that they may not openly express their deep affection for one another, yet they intuitively know it exists.


A time it was, and what a time it was, it was, A time of innocence, A time of confidences
The artist reflects on a specific time in the past and how it was an innocent period of their lives. These were the times when they had deep conversations and shared intimate moments.


Long ago it must be, I have a photograph, Preserve your memories, They're all that's left you
The final lines of the song re-emphasize the importance of memory and suggest that we should cherish these moments while we have them because ultimately, they will be all that remain.




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Written by: Paul Simon

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

Da Hawk

The genius that floors me is the pure poetry in the line...

—-
Preserve your memories
They’re all that’s left you
—-

A writer would have scribed:
They’re all that’s left of you

The poetic twist is that these memories are fading, becoming more and more difficult to preserve, so they are all that’s left, and they’ve left.



Sameoldfitup

By Brian Terry

Published: December 2012






I walk on a path deep in a forest and the noise of loneliness fills my head.

I think of all my friends and family that are long since dead.



Oppothumbs M

You have to really like a song to find it sad. Sure this is sad but I guess I prefer"
MY saddest songs:
1 Just Ask the Lonely - The Four Tops https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nLCr1DoL4mI2
Unsatisfied The Replacements https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DU6IndADEWI
3 God Only Knows - the Beach Boys
4 Little wing - Hendrix
5 Little wing - Neil Young https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BHHCq2TH_Rc
6 I Need You - The Beatles
7 On the Way Home
- Buffalo Springfield
8 The Temptations - Don't Look Back https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CO_kFX6xkcM
9 Smokey & the Miracles - Sad Girl
10 I'm the One who loves you / Minstrel &Queen/ Gypsy Woman - Curtis Mayfield and the Impressions.
11 Go To Pieces Peter and Gordon https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HB6l4i-zA_Q
12 Roy Orbison https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNdBLBleO90
13. Thirteen - Big Star https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pte3Jg-2Ax4
14The Sundays - Here's Where The Story Ends
15. I've been waiting for You .. Neil Young



All comments from YouTube:

Lee Schneider

I bought this record when I was 18. Yesterday I turned 70. "How terribly strange."

1kinu T

I know what you mean. I've been listening to this since I was--ah, young--and always kind of thought that 70 was so far and distant. But now, I can feel it it's so close now and it does feel so terribly strange. It just seems to happen when you're just living your life and suddenly, there you are at 70.

David Berry

Was it worth the ride gentlemen ?

Lee Schneider

@David Berry38 years of wedded bliss. She passed away last June. We loved each other for every minute of those 38 years. Three kids and ten grandchildren. We traveled the world together. We experienced many highs and some lows, but, oh yeah, it was worth it.

David Berry

Lee Schneider - I feel for your passing my friend but obviously a life well lived by you & your good lady .Stay strong sir & spoil them grandkids . All the best .

Lee Schneider

@David Berry Thanks so much. Have a great holiday.

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Janice Flint

I bought this record at nineteen. This song always intrigued me and made me feel sad and curious about how life might be, looking ahead. I will be seventy-two tomorrow and just listened to it for the first time in years. I’m a cancer survivor and lost my second husband to brain cancer six years ago; lost a beautiful baby granddaughter to SIDS and have to say that is just the way life is sometimes. I really “get “ the song. I’m not resentful nor do I hate God or anyone else! That’s just how it is. So tomorrow I’m going to take myself out for a nice dinner and hoist one in thanks to what I have, which really is quite a lot!

15cedw

Thanks for sharing

Ann Blacker

Amazing how you can be in your 20s and write a song like this. Genius.

Jan Jones

Paul Simon is a genius, love him.

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