I Am Stretched On Your Grave
Sinéad O'Connor Lyrics


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I am stretched on your grave
And will lie there forever
If your hands were in mine
I'd be sure we'd not sever

My apple tree my brightness
It's time we were together
For I smell of the earth
And am worn by the weather

When my family thinks
That I'm safe in my bed
From night until morning
I am stretched at your head

Calling out to the air
With tears hot and wild
My grief for the girl
That I loved as a child

Do you remember
The night we were lost
In the shade of the blackthorn
And the chill of the frost

Thanks be to Jesus
We did what was right
And your maiden head still
Is your pillar of light

The priest and the friars
Approach me in dread
Because I still love you
My love and you're dead

I still would be your shelter
Through rain and through storm
And with you in your cold grave
I cannot sleep warm

So I'm stretched on your grave
And will lie there forever
If you hands were in mine
I'd be sure we'd not sever

My apple tree my brightness
It's time we were together




For I smell of the earth
And am worn by the weather

Overall Meaning

Sinéad O'Connor's song I Am Stretched On Your Grave is a hauntingly beautiful piece that tells the story of a person who is buried next to the grave of their beloved, unable to let go of their love even in death. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of the singer lying on the grave and calling out to their lover, begging for their hands to be placed in theirs, so they can be together in death. The singer's grief is palpable throughout the song, and the references to the weather and the earth give a sense of their deep connection to nature and the land.


The opening lines, "I am stretched on your grave / And will lie there forever," set the tone for the rest of the song - this is a love that transcends death, and the singer intends to remain by their beloved's side for eternity. The mention of the apple tree conjures up images of the Garden of Eden and the fall from grace, suggesting that the love between the singer and their beloved is both pure and forbidden. The line "your maiden head still / Is your pillar of light" hints at a great innocence on the part of the beloved, who is now dead and thus unattainable, adding to the pathos of the song.


The final lines, "My apple tree my brightness / It's time we were together / For I smell of the earth / And am worn by the weather," bring the song full circle, returning to the theme of the singer's close relationship with the land and the natural world. The repetition of the opening lines underscores the singer's determination to remain with their beloved, whose absence has left them perpetually stretched out on the grave.


Line by Line Meaning

I am stretched on your grave
I am lying stretched out on top of your burial site


And will lie there forever
I will remain here for eternity


If your hands were in mine
If we were physically together holding hands


I'd be sure we'd not sever
I believe our love would never end


My apple tree my brightness
A term of endearment for the deceased


It's time we were together
The singer desires to be reunited with their loved one


For I smell of the earth
The singer has been lying in the dirt and has the scent of decomposition


And am worn by the weather
The artist has been exposed to harsh outdoor elements and is worse for it


When my family thinks
The artist is reminiscing about a time when they were with their loved one


That I'm safe in my bed
Their family believes they are sleeping soundly


From night until morning
Throughout the entire night


I am stretched at your head
The artist is laying atop their loved one's grave


Calling out to the air
The singer is shouting their grief to the empty sky


With tears hot and wild
The singer is crying in a visceral and unrestrained manner


My grief for the girl
The singer is mourning the loss of their beloved


That I loved as a child
The artist fell in love with their loved one when they were young


Do you remember
The artist is addressing their loved one's memory


The night we were lost
An evening when the two were disconnected from the world and fully immersed in each other


In the shade of the blackthorn
The specific location where they found themselves lost


And the chill of the frost
A seasonally appropriate moment in their history


Thanks be to Jesus
Gratefulness towards God


We did what was right
The two acted morally and ethically towards each other


And your maiden head still
The singer is referring to the fact that their loved one never lost their virginity


Is your pillar of light
Something precious that continues to shine brightly in a dark world


The priest and the friars
Religious figures


Approach me in dread
They come to the singer cautiously and fearfully


Because I still love you
The singer's love for the deceased persists, despite their passing


My love and you're dead
A statement of fact about their current state


I still would be your shelter
The artist would continue to provide comfort and protection for their loved one


Through rain and through storm
No matter the difficulty or danger


And with you in your cold grave
Despite being buried and presumably no longer present


I cannot sleep warm
The artist is deeply impacted by their loss and cannot find inner peace




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Brendan Perry, Lisa Gerrard

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@kickinghorse2405

I've saved this here vid to my "Mentors, Leaders, Heros" list.
May she be met by the right ancestors.
May the right gates be opened unto her.
May she be led upon the right path.
May she arrive at the right place.
For the highest good, truth, and beauty of all our relations.
In this generation, and throughout all generations of time.
Slán Abhaile Sinéad.
Beannacht ar an taobh eile leat.



All comments from YouTube:

@BryhenBea

"This world was never meant for one as beautiful as you."
RIP ❤

@raymondwalsh7520

Don Mclean

@celtic_siren

So true!

@markspence3750

When I was stationed in Okinawa, Japan in 1990, I would play this song on my jambox, and the African-American Marines would come to my bunk, and ask, "Who is that?" Then we went to the Persian Gulf War. May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind be always at your back.

@amystabile7789

Thank you for your service. Sinead was a musical goddess ❤

@cordeliamaintenance6418

I hope you told them "Clyde Stubblefield"

@vincentholly39

It's that back beat that pulled them in. It's been used on some hip hop tracks as well. I used to mix this with Def Jeff, Black to the Future and X-Clan, Grand Verbalizer.

@cordeliamaintenance6418

@@vincentholly39 "some" 😆

@vincentholly39

Hahaha "some" indeed​@cordeliamaintenance6418

@jakee618

Thanks for the music and tearing up that picture on SNL!!!

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