The Epidemic
Size Of Sadness Lyrics

@peacewithanr95

A narcissist is incapable of joy. Demons cannot experience joy.

@Xenlacasa45

They feel so thrown off when they see me with joy like they just can’t grasp the fast I choose happiness

@PaulHans-th1ue

Exactly 💯

@Chris-un4ns

Exactly

@jordinometry1589

So people who have been traumatised or abused just are demons? Because the more I’m understanding this disorder is that most people don’t know a lot about it or even take a step back, rather than generalising a whole group of people

@Idkwhats_goingontbh

People are forgetting it's still actually a mental disorder. They're not demons, just people born with a mental illness.

@kauffrau6764

Narcissists are energy vampires 🧛

@moniquemosley2122

That part☝️🎯💣💯

@kezsy.w835

Thisss 💯💯💯

@inkwyvern5171

So true
They don't want the destination, they want the journey. Which is why arguing with them is giving them what they thrive on. Nobody tires of a good thing

@ΑΓΓΕΛΙΚΗΜΑΓΚΟΥΤΑ

So true . That emptiness in their eyes is so sad to see, they can't smile a real smile

@Jec_2815

Or laugh a real laugh

@johedges5946

There is NO warmth in them whatsoever 😢

@carolynforge8586

​@@Jec_2815Fake laugh.

@gertiketsch6731

I just asked him that I have never seen your teeth or a smile or real heartfelt laughter
So sad

@PaulHans-th1ue

Dead pan eyes. The eyes are the window to your soul !.It's really sad that they can't laugh or really have a good time. Because the ER are to busy trying to control others. So fake ! I can spot em a mile away now. I've done a lot of research on the subject. I do believe there is a demon in them. Controlling them ! All they want to do is lie lie lie put down others hurting others makes them happy. So sad

@MortenChristensen-tt8up

It is sad when people screw up life for themselves. The more you love them the more they need to break you. When you then leave them because of the abuse they are devastated🤷🏼‍♂️

@irenewatson

With the NPD up is down and down is up.Back to front thinking.

@sunita8248

They should be out in jail 🤬

@chowell1451

It’s their nervous system hard wiring, it’s just human nature, life is very adaptable, the human brain has lots of plasticity in childhood, it’s very hard to re wire it after u have developed it a certain way for so long

@wayne9287

@@sunita8248 I'll put you in jail because i want to. I'm a little baby.

@Lyrielonwind

I think they get devastated if the victim is their only supply. The worst narcissistic person in my life is my mother and I doubt she's devastated. She has my other siblings. I'm only her scapegoat and surely she misses hurting me on a daily basis but I doubt she has the horrible nightmares I have due to the cptsd I have after decades of abuse.

@AdamKraft-hq8pn

The biggest weakness is when they're discarded. It shatters their false grandiosity and reminds them of their infant trauma

@CarolineStrawsonHealing

They will do everything within their power to make sure this never happens!

@AdamKraft-hq8pn

@@CarolineStrawsonHealing true. Evenything including falsifying reality and rewriting history if they need to.

@CarolineStrawsonHealing

Exactly @@AdamKraft-hq8pn

@jeffreyquinonez8964

​@CarolineStrawsonHealing I also avoid abandonment like the plague. Struggling with it but I allways learn to let go at times and surrender. I walk the line where you almost step into narcicissm. I get the derangement and discarding tendencies from time to time then I feel like guilt that I had that thought and impulse and ask God for forgiveness and strength to fight this. Bpd with narc tendencies maybe? What are your thoughts

@BornAndErrorOccur

Your comment, just hit me on another level. Stay Away, Stay Strong!

@patriciatavella1496

I feel lonely when I'm with him 😢

@nikstar1313

Same here, with my whole family I always felt that way. Please do your ya favour and leave him too, he won’t change. Ever. Get out while you can. My mother is one and I only broke away 4 years ago from her codependency conditioning. They are sick people.

@Swatioo10

Beautiful soul I have heard when we will leave these kinda people they will begin the journey of self love at some of point of time ❤️ this is his story 🙏🕉️♾️ he wants everyone to love their own soul.

@CarolineStrawsonHealing

They will only ever focus on their needs sadly xx

@cjsjedi73

Get out. Never once is it a good choice to stay. The longer you're abused the harder to recover. I'm sorry you feel this way.

@hazelrivers7642

I no this feeling all so well

@jillcrato1680

Narcissists are ‘bottomless pits of need.’ No matter how much narcissistic supply they have,it’s never,ever enough for them! I don’t think they’re ever truly happy either!

@CountYourAssets

When you're always at their feet doing things for them, they are "decent" with you. As soon as you start to slow down with some things or are unable to serve them, they literally switch like that. A complete different person. Their true hidden feelings about you are revealed, then you realise actually this person has never loved me or ever will. They only love that you can serve them for their needs. It's quite ironic actually... They expect you to give them 100% and will cause havoc if you are not, but when you ACTUALLY need them... They are never to be found and do NOT support you.

@beaglerescue5281

I’m a parent of a covert narcissistic daughter. I’ve been discarded. I no longer have any value. It’s so disgusting and disturbing.

@CountYourAssets

@@beaglerescue5281 I'm really sorry to hear that. I can imagine it is 100 times worse when it is your own child, someone who you naturally love. May God give you peace. Xxx

@elizabethf9096

So so true I’m seeing the mask off right now and the gaslighting and twisting the words to make her the victim is unbelievable and so confusing but I’m on to it now

@beaglerescue5281

@@elizabethf9096 Isn’t it great to finally understand what the heck is going on with them. I’m finally at peace. I was with my daughter tonight and she made a few devaluing comments and it didn’t effect me whatsoever. That’s strength and growth. I don’t see her but once a month and now I feel that’s all I want. I’ve come along way from six months ago where I felt devastated.

@ifnotnowthenwhen9063

Perfectly put .Everything 100% agree because it is e at how you said

@Jireh_woolridge777

I was married to a narc exactly like this. Being in that relationship literally almost killed me. Now, she's 1,000 miles away, and the kids are with me thriving and flourishing. She's in her own personal hell, working multiple jobs, no husband, no kids, no family, and is unstable as ever.
" most deeply wounded, most unhappy people in this world" 🎯🔥💯

@Clevelandsteamer324

She has multiple sources of supply. She will use sex to get

@ifnotnowthenwhen9063

She give you kids so a bit respect will not hurt you.If you can’t do it for her then at least do it to her kids.

@banditboy8834

Well done....that's great news and it gives me hope. I'm recently separated from a covert narcissist. We are still living in the same house as I won't leave my boys in her care. I'm prepared to go to battle in court for the sake of my sons emotional wellbeing and future.

@mrone8717

@@ifnotnowthenwhen9063 you are the epitome of self righteousness

@wayne9287

@@mrone8717 what do you think this fcking post is? A bunch of people getting brainwashed by the absolute of knowledge.

@M3LINDAH

This is so true. I feel empty . I left him. I called him out on all his crap. He hated me

@incognito595

I never knew about how very serious Narcissism is, until recently. It's really shocking when you see and experience it. It's surreal, really, it's that bad. Just Never let your guard down. Ever. Be very vigilant to everything.

@bluestripes6037

This. Surreal is the weird, but definitely in a bad way

@adrena93

Even when u see them with someone else, it don’t matter because your healing and don’t look back ever. That the new person’s problem now

@SxyGrl44

They ain’t happy no way so no need to get jealous or worry.. they just need somebody to stroke their ego, somebody to be there, some kind of attention

@nunyabidness6989

Sounds like you guys don't want to see your ex's happy moving on and need to make excuses to make yourselves feel better 😂

@Stanleyubadigha-tu2pl

@@nunyabidness6989u are sick

@jermanelawrence7400

Empty vessel's occupied by dark energy

@cam7771

Great description!

@TanyaWestphal

Nailed that description

@renatajach2539

It's true. It's always about their cruelty but there is also their very broken and very unhappy side which actually provoke this cruelty. Unhappy broken monsters that need to abuse other people to go on.

@funnygirlever

This is so true! This is my peace when I walk away. They may pretend and show everyone that their so happy 😂. But people don't know them like I do. I seen and gone through the hardest and darkest with them. I just laugh about people's comments. I also remind myself when I miss them, feel sorry for them, and want to contact them, forgive, and reach out. The best thing is stay away forever!

@Lisa-t1n7l

They're never truly sane, either. 🤮

@itsallberrygood

Exactly.

@LaMesaC

That's the truth

@maralfniqle5092

Run don't walk away. Run, they are demons not just unhappy.

@ease_flow

Leaving them permanently is THE BEST AND HEALTHIEST OPTION for anyone stuck in a relationship with these cursed beings, irregardless whether it's a parent, sibling, partner, lover etc. Period.

@Stanleyubadigha-tu2pl

It is the healthiest
But what of in a situation of your own sister😢😢
I love that girl so much but she never cared

@Clevelandsteamer324

They DONT SEE YOU AS A HUMAN BEING. You are just a container to get supply. You are a coffee cup that once is empty will be discarded the same way. That is how they see you. It’s sad but true. Stop taking things personal from someone that doesn’t see you as a person.

@CarolineStrawsonHealing

The tricky thing is to not feel our self worthiness wounds being triggered so it's very hard to stop taking things personally. However it can be done when people take the steps to work on their healing x

@Mystic_Paths

When they don't receive validation, they can become anxious, depressed, or angry, revealing the emptiness beneath their grandiose exterior.

@travelwithsouthernchick5112

It’s just mind games to keep you stuck!!!Its all in their mind

@SAb-tt4kz

I knew it, not being able to sympathize with others means being disconnected from all there is, thus they’re never happy, they chose themselves they agreed to go down and not elevate, they can only feel shame with a false ego and false self and five sense pleasures and addictions to stay numb

@nv_chino

That’s the word , narcissist supply.

@amcdade1787

Is it normal to be accused and even start believing your the actual narcissist, my mind is fried 😣😢

@CarolineStrawsonHealing

If you are even asking yourself the question then you are most definitely not a narcissist. A narcissist will never believe there is anything wrong with them x

@NormHotty-zv2iw

It's normal, get sum self time every day so subconsance can recognize truth. And if someone repeats something enough, one maybe accidently believing it,brainwashing!

@cryptonize2105

@@CarolineStrawsonHealingthank you I needed that I was questioning myself maybe I am the problem

@slickperspective

My wife, who I recently realized exhibits narcissistic behavior, has isolated herself and our 4-year-old son from me for almost three weeks now. She hasn't answered my calls or messages, and the pain I'm experiencing is immense. Just a few days ago, after piecing things together, I recognized her narcissism. She once asked me, "Is there a way to be happy? Because I never had happiness." At the time, I struggled with her actions, such as never listening to me and often being unkind. Now, it makes sense; she never apologized because of her narcissistic tendencies. She lives about five hours away from me because of work; we used to be together for 3 years. I pray for strength and patience to get through this tough time.

@tanpoliak8204

Silence and walk away....silence...walk away...no words..no contact...nothing

@Catastrophickakistrocracy

I believe this to be correct. They may appear happy during the love-bombing stage of a new relationship but the massive amount of energy required for them to suppress their true selves is unsustainable.

@Janabrook

When dealing with narcissism, you should know that it's not personal. "It isn't personal" is one of those cliches used to cushion all kinds of bad actions taken by people who need an out for being immoral, but in this case it actually gets near the truth.
Narcissists don't know how to love or be a friend; they can't afford to spare the energy to learn, because they're always in a state of high emergency, cataloging potential threats and redoubling their defenses. When they claim to love you, it means nothing. They may even think they mean it, but they don't understand the concept - they can't feel it. They never attach to you or anyone else. Other people are paper cut-outs to the narcissist, like those cardboard figures of celebrities you pose next to for a selfie. Narcissist value their own children only as mirrors of themselves. When they destabilize you or attack you, it means nothing.
They are stuck in an endless conversation with themselves, in which you are an inanimate object, to be assigned their own faults and used as a surrogate punching bag for their hatred of themselves. When they toss you out, it's no more meaningful than a junkie tossing away a needle; when they try to reel you back in, it only means that they tired of the new drug and need a hit of the old.
None of this is personal. They're too terrified to have personal relationships, opting instead for extraction of admiration from a subservient partner whose range of action they strictly constrain. This is not personal. None of it. The narcissist does not know who you are - it doesn't know how to know other people. Like the vampire or the chainsaw-wielding creature in the horror film, it's from another world, bereft of the concept of human connection.Moreover, People wonder why they end up hurt, seriously hurt, and even killed for their own actions.Cheating is a choice and there's simply a lot of ignorance in the process..Thank you so much for helping me out cyberalbert4@gmail. com.Your advice and services helped me so much. You are a lifesaver !!! The information you gave me about my cheating partner when you gave me access to his phone was everything I needed to get,..thank you very much..

@matzacomn

Besides the ending, this was a good reading

@Tololo86

Wow Jana well said you have respect and I know you’re doing better just like I’m. Good luck on your journey

@beaglerescue5281

But how did the narcissist chose this horrific path in life? Who would chose this knowingly?

@cryptonize2105

@@beaglerescue5281because they aren’t living in reality.

@VivoVivo-un5zj

​@@cryptonize2105 stuck in past

@tien7742

Whenever anyone got hooked up with a new partner as soon as the former partner left, this is a SURE SIGNED OF INSECURITIES FROM WITHIN..PERIOD..

@sonyacorrick1496

So very true!!
I needed this video today
Thank u!!

@leeleejm2749

Left my ex narc husband 4 months ago and now he's engaged. I feel sorry for the new supply. She loves him so much and think she got the man of her dreams! Poor girl.......she have no clue who that deceiver is. 😢

@CarolineStrawsonHealing

How are you feeling now? x

@leeleejm2749

@@CarolineStrawsonHealing relieved 😌

@CarolineStrawsonHealing

What are you doing to help yourself to heal? @@leeleejm2749 xx

@leeleejm2749

@@CarolineStrawsonHealing the word of God has helped me and loving myself

@ysabelcastillo1880

Do you think they will change for someone else ? Will he eventually start doing the same thing with a different person?

@Karen-e1f

I'm staying home. Alone is seriously better.

@CarolineStrawsonHealing

Do you have some support my love? x

@dapper-o4l

It is absolutely true… I had a mother & father who were both Narcissists. Mentally and physically abused me. Until I went into therapy, then I walked away and had nothing to do with them! Doing that was the best decision I ever made. It literally changed my life. And my brother too, I went silent on him for over 20 years. My parents are dead, but they were dead to me for over 30 years.

@teralynda

He’s never happy. He eventually yells at everyone if they don’t do what he commands. And he accuses me of not being happy. All signs he is miserable. He’s Gods now.

@LoneIcon

I’ll tell you my mother is a narcs, that time I didn’t knew that terminology. Through the years the way to deal with it is “less/small talk = less narcissistic trigger to no trigger at all”

@reigns77.

So there is no hope for a narcissist
Great advice

@kaitlinlyons1006

You are truly an inspiration

@debanjanchatterjee3757

You are 100000 percent correct. Those people always want someone who will be like a slave to them . My father , elder sister and aunty are having this type of narcissistic personality. It damages other persons well being and happiness. They always try to make you to agree with all their opinions. If you don't follow them or suggest other way , they will badly behave with you as you are scapegoats and good for nothing . We every individual all having self respect and personality and anyone cannot dominate you.

@ToFightTheGoodFight

😂😂my ex is a mesirable bastard, and she married my narcissist friend. 😂😂the ultimate self-inflicted injury 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 misery loves company. God's wrath Nahum 1: 2-8

@IndigoAngel1448

I just want to say to anyone who thinks they are a narcissist: you can heal. You took the first step and that's acknowledgement. I can see that you're capable of healing. Please don't stop believing in a better future.

@lita8835

My narc ex signed for an engagement ring then found his next wife behind my back. I moved alone to go back to study and work on myself. 3 years later I found someone to love and respect me. The narc thought he could pick up his bookmark after posting very profound social media photos of every milestone with his wife leading up to him visiting back to our home state and trying to hook up with me behind her back after making HER feel special to fly home with him to meet his family. See how that cycles? Never trust a narc. Love yourself so much more.

@JohnMartin-gg8uj

Many times the mood swing "out of nowhere" is due to a fight or issue with another supply. They take it out on you. Usually occurs after "bathroom phone time" or other odd device behaviors.

@MaryD-cn3jc

I used to tell my mom I wanted to look like people I t thought were excellent when I was a little girl. She always said, "okay."

@Martin-bw1ww

Had a narc female (friend)
Looked into her eyes one day
I could feel her emotions she was in torment.. and I just filled with compassion for her
I was astonished at her emotional state
Months later I mentioned it to her and asked if she believed me
She wouldn't answer but did say she knew I was a compassionate person
About 6 months later I ended what was a one sided friendship

@sunita8248

I have a 2 narcs in my family
They are sucking the family dry …I call them vampire 🧛
This is my bros wife and mother-in-law they both have been so damaging to the entire family …. I’ve walked away …. Others are still under her trap 💩🤬😡

@safeeffective385

Hey ladies, before you throw that ex under the bus here (which seems to be the trend)... keep in mind:

Narcissists always deny any responsibility for their dysfunctional behavior. To achieve this they use inherently use denial, delusion, gaslighting, minimization, deflection, blaming the victim, and playing the victim.

Exaggerated victimhood is a textbook feature of narcissistic grandiosity. Narcissists play the victim to garner sympathy and avoid responsibility for their abusive behavior.

Recent studies show that many female narcissists dress in sexually provocative ways–revealing clothing and/or wearing a lot of makeup. Many use sexual seduction to manipulate or financially exploit others.

@Freethnkr

Now what about the narc men? How do they behave

@Clevelandsteamer324

@@Freethnkrsuper charming, love bombing, feigning a connection, mirroring your likes and hobbies, values

@Freethnkr

@Clevelandsteamer324 
Bingo! Cuz there's no gender specifics..Which is why commenting on what female narcs do (only) without including men is ridiculous, and this person's point is pointless. Male narcs also dress in certain ways to get or attract a person's attention, tight clotging, show their physic, a lot these so called weight training videos, work out video were men are on display they get a lot of attention, and if they are not physically attractive, they will dangle things like nice expensive cars, money, trips, etc, to manipulate women. So if you gonna throw the woman under the bus, then make sure the male narcs are included in the mix

@Freethnkr

@cloudbreak23 
To say they dress provocatively is a truth and has nothing to do with their level of intelligence. And some of them are not that intelligent, they act a little slow and touched in the head, if you ask me. Because somewhere in their brain, they think that what they do to people is the best way to handle relationships to get what they want, it has been proven that they are operating on the same emotional level of a 5 yr old child, which why they have temper tantrums, they lie profusely, and repeat the same toxic behavior with wvery victim, and yeah it may work for a minute, but eventually people get tired of their crap and walk away, and the narc will go and repeat the exact same behavior and tactics on the next person, expecting different results....And that's called INSANITY NOT A HIGH LEVEL OF INTELLIGENCE. Both narc women and narc men alike use their looks to attract victims, I've dated one...Some not all are your gym rats, that's their play ground where they go to attract more supply and or become bait for potential supply. But none of this is new, it's just never talked about...

@Mystic_Paths

Narcissists often use manipulation tactics to maintain control and power in relationships. Knowing their weaknesses can help you identify these tactics and protect yourself from being exploited.

@lupitoochoa5343

Yeaa I’m a victim 😞 idk what to do

@endoraismygma

Support groups especially ones that your Narc doesn't know about, have helped me. Love peace and strength sent your way, it's a difficult road but I bieve you can do it. 💚✨️

I need to milk to same thing happened to me

@tonysmith7632

Thank you.

@bjg4002

29 years and never once been on the bank account as joint . Housewife ( maid) i barley even go outside anymore he has me so screwed up. 😢 complains about everything cooked . A big huge drawer of new underwear. Im touch starved and punished for asking questions. So many secrets ( swear up and down) that they don't have any lol . Ask a simple question and it blows there lid . Im tired

@pamelagibson470

Please leave him

@ramonlara8514

THANK YOU SO MUCH for this ENLIGHTMENT !! ☺️😊💥👍💛

@maani9353

This is so true

@CrazyyinRed

So true!! My ex is a narcissist and I’m a empath so you know this was not a good ending. But he cheated and left and I can see he’s not happy now like he thought he was in the beginning, and he still comes around our home we shared/ use the dogs as a excuse (yet doesn’t put the true care into) and last night he got into it, he tried to tell me I’m not allowed to let any males here smh I was having a male friend come to help with my senior sick dog and even that wasn’t allowed in his mind. But I’m not listening to that mess. And I know it’s because he’s been seeing me doing so much better and happier and that I finally was able to talk to another guy and not feel like I was cheating and I felt so free!! And I am able to start truly moving on. And I feel it makes him so mad. He did the damage yet he tries to control me and is only happy when I’m here alone and away from the world and moving on. Nope I refuse to let anyone who can’t treat me right and with respect treat me in such a negative way. He slammed the back door and left the back gate wide open not worrying if my husky would of got out and hit by a car smh even didn’t show up to help with my other dog just bc he’s mad not to suck up his feelings and do what he needs for our sick senior dog. So I don’t want to hear that he cares and all the lies he spews. Hope him and his nut ball controlling gf last lol but yea she’s controlling and will go thru his phone every night ect and alot has to do with they started dating with him cheating and lying to me and she knows that and also he is til this day spying on me and hacking into my stuff so idk why his gf comes at me?? I don’t want a cheater back. This weekend I finally got to a point where I was able to talk to another guy and not feel bad or I was cheating and I felt so free and I think he read my messages and seen it and got mad. But I did still cry to my friend after he flipped last night and I think it’s bc Im just angry, and all my focus is on my sick dog and both dogs well being first. They are my kids. And he uses them for a in I think, and I am still waiting for a call back from mental health which I called in July!! So luckily my friends have helped me thru this

@merie8265

He could be poisoning the dogs to come near you

Narcissists are HOPELESS LOST SOULS.

@franciscocardenas5758

Wow!!! Well put!

@AhmadIzzatShahmierRosdi-gi1ug

In conclusion,all negative people only in this temporary world actually are fool themselves actually 💯

@Artlove8900

I use to talk with a guy . I started like him and decided to tell him that i think he is cute and that i really want to know him . I meant to say cute in a way that i like and hope that he feel the same about me but he said that he is not cute at all . And he is narcissistic and arrogant and i said its not very nice thing to say about yourself and he said he is actually proud of it . I was totally caught offgaurd and afcourse i blocked him .
I always thought there is some gap about him and something i m not getting. He would only message me when he needed me now that i think about it and i m a sensitive person so i started to care about him . I always felt exhausted after i talked to him too and that was all through text . Imagine having such person in real life . I m glad . I said out my feelings and actually came to my senses . I have further long story before this and how i got there but its a long story

@TigistZereabruk

Absolutely right

@ramonlara8514

THIS IS SO TRUE....! I've never looked at it from this perspective??

@WilliamLovell-oh1rb

Ironically not being a narcissist can occasionally cause you a level of pain narcissists don't feel, the pain of guilt and remorse. Our bad emotions are more intense than those in a narcissist, but so are our good ones.

@vickibazter3446

THEY ARE EMPTY AND ANGRY

@nykowow

Is it helpful to tell a narcissist 'I don't trust you' when they ask why I'm going no-contact?

@Clevelandsteamer324

They need “supply “ let’s use clinical words. Without supply they will implode. It’s like kinking the oxygen line on a scuba diver

@ashleyjackson8538

It’s 💯 % true !

They love pushing that misery onto other people .

@Minneolaos

The poor people function as narcissistic sources to to the rich people. That's why it's necessary for some to play the role of a havenot. The haves can enjoy themselves and feel superior when they see the poor person struggling to get by.

@MattyNelson-rs3ik

Yes ,my ex narc friend, enjoyed speaking about all the stuff she would buy,her vakays,cars, education,degrees,she would send photos of her house,clothes,tell me how much she spent on stuff,looking back i realized she was tryna a rise out of me,make me jealous of her,,look at what i can have or buy,,and you can't.I never asked her or any friends their salary,she was dying to tell me,I said good for u.,that's some goood money..nothing I said to her was ever impressive to her,stopped speaking about any thing good that happened to me,It would be an automatic put down,,never noticed,when I stopped..she would speak 100% about herself,her friends,co workers,family,how well they were all doing,if i was doing fantastic she would not know😮,,then it's I have to go now,,.I would say good night,good bye,speak to u later,, so self absorbed, then one day she said I was jealous of her,,its like she had been dying to say it to me for a very long time,,,,like it was rehersed,,,,that was it for me...She never realized that me with half the stuff she had,,she was the one jealous and envious of me..I went cold turkey,,36 years "fiend" ship came to an abrupt end.i ask myself where do you start again with someone,after that statement?.no energy for that anymore.

@beaglerescue5281

And why we (the masses) should stop supporting the rich and famous.

@ifnotnowthenwhen9063

Lol my mother in law and her crew

@MaryD-cn3jc

Don't be hatin'. My Mom really loved me.

@no-1223

She wasn’t biased,you have a problem there buster

@LentilSoupGirl

Trauma bonding, buddy. Same with my mom and bro

@cjsjedi73

As one who was abused and recovering. I approve of this message.❤

@Alexander-q6l

My husband had an affair with a co-worker for nearly two years the last nine months of which I was pregnant with our second child. I found out about the other woman the week before my due date, I felt so terrible and moved back to my mother's home for 2 month with the kids after birth, he kept on apologizing to every member of my family and they all begged me to forgive him, I moved back to our home and I still had that feeling something was off, I felt deep down that I have been manipulated, gaslighted, and threatened on a daily basis. Some of the threats were he was going to kill himself if I didn't do what was asked, he would punch pillow or sofa, stand up against me and yell at my face, stand behind the car and not let me leave, sometimes we would be driving and he would threaten to swerve and hit any truck, hold my shake me, push me aside to a wall, and much more, my in-law were also very verbally abusive towards me. Wasn't allowed to visit my family or friends. If I did or wanted to I had to be ready for an argument, everyday I was reminded that I am not nothing and that was not worth fighting for and that don't meet the standard of being married to their son. Recently, I found out he was cheating on me an had a girl friend after seeing the text and pictures, I became numb. I have been a good wife. I listened to every insult and fight. I never gave up what I knew, thanks to this hacker who help me extract enough information from his device. Someone on here share a link to the hacker who helped me clone his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him through a remote link sent to my email,I was able to access all of his text, email, Facebook and Instagram chat real-time call listening and his long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him on What's app:+1(352)255-6426 @Lawrence Hernandez

@karmalovecollectorkarmalov-t5o

Vulnerable and projecting their fears onto others

@TaofikMarhrani

I am not happy, but I am NOT a narcissist....

@alialmatawah5413

Let me tell you my point of view the narcissists’s biggest weakness is the narcissist’s actions if you listen and observe you will notice that the narcissist will always tell you what you want to hear but the actions never match what the narcissist says all your going to see is someone who enjoys the company of codependent flying monkeys and pays no attention to real authentic people chooses the path of the ego driven control freak not the path of the caring friend who has your back rewards codependent flying monkeys for something they didn’t do and blames you and the codependent flying monkeys for his mistakes and repeats it all again it’s basically use abuse repeat and that’s not a relationship its a chaotic mess and that’s why the narcissist is never happy chaos = misery peace = happiness and the narcissist’s life style is extremely chaotic and unstable
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

@shelottabright8155

They have so many weaknesses 🤦🏽‍♀️

@hawaiigirl8089

Yessss I KNOW ALL OF THIS ABOUT NARCS

@gallowaykevin8756

Thanks for sharing this messages ! Surely it is so.😮😢😮😢😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@hartzellheadies8619

How do i change and stop being a narc i would do these things without even realzing it or thinking about it and i just want to fix it now i lnow i cant overnight but i do wish to fix this one of my most toxic worst traits

@MwapeSandra-w2m

As a narcissist i don't know what to say or do when happiness is not for me am alone after seeing how wicked i am but can I be helped

@wideforehead77

I believe a constant praise and admiration can fulfill the narcissist egos, and when they think theyre having you all in their hands, they got weakens. Just dont leave them, bcs it hurts them more, and they wont healed yet got more nacisst bcs of the inner denial from the neglection.

So we're supposed to give them everything. They want while they walk all over us and destroy our lives?

@incognito595

It's all fake. Go from there.

@DEEBARTLETT-lp4sk

My narc doesn't return back to get a high from loving kindness -- he comes back to create confusion and disruption. I reached the conclusion that he must have certain ppl in his life to dump his own vibes. When he is up he is WAY up. When he is stressed he is way stressed. (Go through the emotions) He seeks ppl to dump whatever emotion he is feeling. Does this make sense?

@sylviawhite8412

You are so right ❤

@AllenJones-ur9kj

and this is so very true

@pattymack11

The fact that she went viral on TikTok, is beyond a joke It’s just her absolute unawareness 😂

@ChristmasNewyear-zk2wy

That's so true
Narc r never happy

@lumoreadventures283

Thank you for stating this

@AllenJones-ur9kj

iv been with a narracasist for 26yrs

@ysabelcastillo1880

Please leave I am going to try to leave before the new year. I’ve been with mine for 7 years

WHY

@bjg4002

​@@ysabelcastillo1880 29 years here 😢

@jhaymizugameza9419

i'm also with mine for 12 years with 2 son's.. can we all leave them together?

@mobileradiofitter

3 years of it, thank god I'm out of it all now, over that time I would ask her from time to time who am I to you ? Because at times she would treat me as her partner, her lover, but then her dad or one of her exes, resulting in so much confusion. I watched over the 3 years she would latch herself onto someone new, a complete stranger. So much so she would change her opinions on stuff based on the opinions of the new person. Only to then fall out with the new person, take out her anger on me. I'd be expected to apologise but I wasn't apologising for someone thing I had done, I was apologising on behalf of the new person who she fell out with. It was so weird. I truly believe happiness hurt her, she would thrive in crazy, drama, panic, urgency. But during happy moments of peace she there would always be something to ruin it. Even randomly bring up something from her past, and I'd have to react in a certain way if I didn't she would get angry and storm away. 3 years and I saw and experienced enough to know I needed to get away and distance myself.

@Andrew-le4bg

So true 👍

@aljiao

As a narcissist, I would want to say that this is completely and utterly untrue. It is rarer for us to feel happy compared to normal people, but it doesn't mean we don't ever achieve joy. The type of people she is describing are people with extremely narcissism.

@teamalpha7423

Can you now explain what a vulnerable narcissist is for the audience?

@smileandgive

Short and to the point! Thanks

@lindafeaster1275

You can tell that they're not happy by the situations that put you in to demean and embarrass you ..I was made homeless and put in jail on a lie and nobody cared not even the judges...

@KlausBarbi-qe6ix

VERY TRUE

@pattymack11

Also, I’d like to see her hairstyle and debt Golf digging the hole for Superficial

@kieutrinhvu9494

Met one and feel pity for him. How miserable it is to be unable to feel joy from within, by yourself

@incognito595

It's really Mind Blowing.

@Myhandle-2024

Sometimes I wonder if I’m slightly narcissistic but if I am I know for sure my baby momma is the queen bee

@empuwm

I shouldve remembered this when my narcissistic ex told me “i cant be happy”

@AliceScott-j8h

How do you make a narcissist suffer forever ? you need to destroy narcissist ego and pride.you need to bring them back to reality.and there is a way you can do that without harming them directly. that is by working on yourself. And go back to being the person you were before you involved with the narcissist. The person that they where attached to. And then become a better version of yourself. If you do that and let them see it. but you reject their hoover attempts. it will destroy their ego. because they can't deal with rejection. They can't deal with being ignored. especially if it's from something that they believe they should have. Narcissist find pleasure in breaking you down. They find pleasure in your pain. It gives them satisfaction. So the last thing they want to see is you building yourself up. You are happy. Because what really destroys their ego Is when they see that you're not affected by their attempts to destroy you. You're still able to live the life that you want to live. You're still able to do what you need to do. You're still able to laugh and smile. Which means that their efforts have gone to waste. Their plan has failed. They didn't get the result they where intended for. Because now you are even more successful. You look better than you ever did before. You're in better condition than when they first met you.
Which destroy them. Because they remember how good things were Back then. That's why they lovebombed you. And they would love to have that again. But if they can't, it will crush them. So you don't need to revenge on the narcissist. you don't need to do anything to them. Just focus on yourself. Focus on your own life. Focus on building yourself up. Making your life better. And don't let them partake in it. Don't let them partake in it. Don't let them be a part of it. That is how you do it. All thanks to the cyber expert who was able to investigate his phone and get me the information and evidence that I needed to gain my freedom From the abusive relationship. If you are in similar situation you can contact him on Instagram @spy_bruceHow do you make a narcissist suffer forever ? you need to destroy narcissist ego and pride.you need to bring them back to reality.and there is a way you can do that without harming them directly. that is by working on yourself. And go back to being the person you were before you involved with the narcissist. The person that they where attached to. And then become a better version of yourself. If you do that and let them see it. but you reject their hoover attempts. it will destroy their ego. because they can't deal with rejection. They can't deal with being ignored. especially if it's from something that they believe they should have. Narcissist find pleasure in breaking you down. They find pleasure in your pain. It gives them satisfaction. So the last thing they want to see is you building yourself up. You are happy. Because what really destroys their ego Is when they see that you're not affected by their attempts to destroy you. You're still able to live the life that you want to live. You're still able to do what you need to do. You're still able to laugh and smile. Which means that their efforts have gone to waste. Their plan has failed. They didn't get the result they where intended for. Because now you are even more successful. You look better than you ever did before. You're in better condition than when they first met you.
Which destroy them. Because they remember how good things were Back then. That's why they lovebombed you. And they would love to have that again. But if they can't, it will crush them. So you don't need to revenge on the narcissist. you don't need to do anything to them. Just focus on yourself. Focus on your own life. Focus on building yourself up. Making your life better. And don't let them partake in it. Don't let them partake in it. Don't let them be a part of it. That is how you do it. All thanks to the cyber expert who was able to investigate his phone and get me the information and evidence that I needed to gain my freedom From the abusive relationship. If you are in similar situation you can contact him on Instagram @spy_bruce

@tiffytoo

Can cptsd turn into narcasim?

@LentilSoupGirl

I think so? Since it stems from childhood abuse.