Discography:
1995 - Sleater-Kinney (Chainsaw)
1996 - Call the Doctor (Chainsaw)
1997 - Dig Me Out (Kill Rock Stars)
1999 - The Hot Rock (Kill Rock Stars)
2000 - All Hands on the Bad One (Kill Rock Stars)
2002 - One Beat (Kill Rock Stars)
2005 - The Woods (Sub Pop)
2015 - No Cities to Love (Sub Pop)
2019 - The Center Won't Hold (Mom+Pop)
2021 - Path of Wellness (Mom+Pop)
Be Yr Mama
Sleater-Kinney Lyrics
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Hold onto it
Make you better
I made you better
You're inside me
I'm yr mommy
I know what is going on here
Can't you see that I need to?
Can't you see that I need to, yeah?
Hold onto it
You hold onto me
Fix it for you
I fixed it for you
But I don't wanna
Be yr mama
I know what is going on here
I always make you so stronger
Can't you see that I need to?
Can't you see that I need to, yeah?
Just a little more
Is what I wait for
Just a little more
Is what I wait for
Hold onto it
You hold onto me
But I'm not gonna
Be yr mama
The lyrics of Sleater-Kinney's Be Yr Mama are open to interpretation, but the song appears to be about the ambivalence of being in a position of authority or control. The singer is telling someone, perhaps a younger or less experienced person, to hold onto something, but at the same time, declaring that she doesn't want to be their "mama." The phrase "You're inside me, I'm yr mommy" seems to suggest some kind of intense, intimate relationship, but it's unclear exactly what that relationship entails. There is a sense of responsibility and care-taking throughout the song, but also a reluctance to take on that role permanently.
The repetition of the phrase "I know what is going on here" could be interpreted as a warning to the other person not to manipulate the singer's emotions or use their power for their own gain. The lines "Just a little more/Is what I wait for" hint at a desire for something that's just out of reach, whether it's connection or control. The repeated phrases "Hold onto it" and "You hold onto me" could represent a power struggle, a plea for connection, or both.
One possible interpretation of Be Yr Mama is that it's about the complexities of being a mentor, a boss, or a caregiver. The singer is trying to help someone else, but also resisting the role of "mama" or parent figure. The song could also be seen as exploring issues of consent and boundaries in relationships, as the singer seems to be trying to assert her own agency while still trying to maintain a connection with the other person.
Line by Line Meaning
Hold onto it
Keep whatever this thing is, whatever we are talking about
Hold onto it
Keep holding onto it
Make you better
I always make you stronger and better
I made you better
I am the one who made you the person you are today
You're inside me
You are a part of me, I am everything to you
I'm yr mommy
I have taken care of you, nurtured you, and raised you as my own
I know what is going on here
I am well aware of what is happening in this situation
I always make you so stronger
I am the one who always helps you become stronger
Can't you see that I need to?
Don't you understand that I am the only one who can do this for you?
Can't you see that I need to, yeah?
Please, I need to be the one who makes you stronger
Fix it for you
I fixed everything for you
But I don't wanna
I don't want to be the one who fixes everything for you anymore
Just a little more
I am waiting for just a little bit more
Is what I wait for
This is what I am waiting for
But I'm not gonna
I am not going to be the one to take care of you anymore
Contributed by Christian T. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
lorne baird
one of the all time best bands ever!
aichannnn
I totally agree!!!!!
lorne baird
i've been lucky to see them live this year
aichannnn
Same here! It was one of the best experiences of my life seeing them live.
Laurentz Duba
Bought the CD back in 1995 and was quite surprised that it sounds like an audiophile recording for an indie band.
yuri 6907
I love this song;)
Ali Kazım Doğuş Koç
We are loser. And we love sub pop.
Genny Zee
❤
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