It's Not for You
Slowdive Lyrics


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Watching all those things, and he's passing all this times
Looks just like the man, but he fails to walk in line
Grow into the future boy, hoping for a ride
Grow into the future boy, boy just wants to fly

It's not for you that I say such stupid things
It's for the time I went, the times I was alone
It's not for me, that I say such stupid things
It's for the time I went, the times I was alone

Passing on the whisky, boy
Looking for some style
He's taking all the future, and he puts it in a bag
Now I don't believe in you, takes it all away
I hope to God I leave you with your sanity, and style

It's not for you that I say such stupid things
It's for the times I went, the times I was alone
It's not for me, that I say such stupid things
It's for the times I went, the times I was alone

It's not for me, that I say such stupid things
It's for the times I went, the times I was alone




"It's Not for You" that I say such stupid things
It's for the times I went, the times I was alone

Overall Meaning

The song "It's Not for You" by Slowdive is a reflective and melancholic piece that talks about the singer's past experiences and current struggles. The first verse describes a man who looks like everyone else but fails to conform to societal expectations. He wants to grow and soar in the future, but he's uncertain of his place and purpose. In the chorus, the singer clarifies that his spoken words are not for the person in the verse, but rather for himself and his past. He speaks of the times he was alone, which might have been full of self-doubt and second-guessing.


The second verse talks of a boy who is seeking personal style and identity. He's collecting everything he can for the future, but the singer doesn't believe in him. He hopes he can leave him with some "sanity" and "style" but has his doubts. In the chorus, the singer reiterates that his words are not for the boy but for himself and his past. The repetition of the chorus highlights the sense of self-isolation and emptiness.


Overall, the lyrics of Slowdive's "It's Not for You" convey themes of loneliness, self-doubt, and self-reflection. The singer is not judging others, but rather reflecting on his own struggles and the times he was alone. The subtle instrumentation and ethereal vocals enhance the introspective and contemplative mood of the song.


Line by Line Meaning

Watching all those things, and he's passing all this times
Observing everything around him and spending his time doing so


Looks just like the man, but he fails to walk in line
Appears to be a mature adult but does not conform to social norms


Grow into the future boy, hoping for a ride
Aspiring for a positive future and seeking an opportunity to achieve it


Grow into the future boy, boy just wants to fly
Desiring to achieve great things and succeed beyond expectations


It's not for you that I say such stupid things
Not speaking foolishly because of someone else


It's for the time I went, the times I was alone
Speaking out of loneliness and the experiences encountered during those times


Passing on the whisky, boy
Choosing not to consume alcohol


Looking for some style
Seeking a sense of fashion or appearance


He's taking all the future, and he puts it in a bag
Securing his prospects for success and keeping them close


Now I don't believe in you, takes it all away
Losing faith in someone or something and having hopes or plans disrupted


I hope to God I leave you with your sanity, and style
Wishing for the well-being and mental stability of another person




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Dav!d – Зa победу 🇷🇺

Excelente música, excelente banda! Obrigado!

Anita Tapio

I just had to search "Slowdive stupid things" cause I forgot the title aahaha yessss❤❤❤

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