Can't Help Myself
Sly & The Family Stone|Slave|James Brown|Dazz Band|Teddy Pendergrass|Marvin Gaye Lyrics


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Why here
Why now
Why so early
Why you getting down on me
You know you're a
Beautiful person
But just now
You bother me
It's so coincidental
You reaching out for me
Just when I got
All this money
And you
Footloose and fancy free
I love you like a broth
I'll help you find you feet
But don't take advantage honey
Your feet ain't under me
Why so tall
So young
So handsome
You get the best of me
In your eyes
I see a reflection
You the beauty I'm the beast
You got yourself a lover
Can't take for a ride
But you know I love you honey
I cannot lie
You want some money
Kiss and cuddle too
Take it all now baby




It's always been for you
I can't lie to myself

Overall Meaning

The lyrics in "Can't Help Myself" seem to be describing a complicated relationship between two people. The singer seems conflicted about their feelings for the other person. They acknowledge that the other person is beautiful and they love them, but at the same time, they feel bothered by them. The singer has achieved wealth and success, while the other person is still carefree and independent, which seems to put a strain on their relationship. Despite this, the singer still loves the other person and is willing to help them, but wants to make sure they are not taken advantage of.


The lyrics also touch on themes of jealousy and insecurity, as the singer describes the other person as being tall, young, and handsome, which brings out the singer's own feelings of inadequacy. The line "You got yourself a lover, can't take it for a ride" suggests that the other person may have other romantic interests, which adds to the singer's insecurity.


Line by Line Meaning

Why here
Why are you here in my life?


Why now
Why have you come to me at this moment?


Why so early
Why did you arrive so soon?


Why you getting down on me
Why are you criticizing me?


You know you're a
You are aware that you are


Beautiful person
An attractive personality


But just now
But currently


You bother me
You are irritating me


It's so coincidental
It's a surprising coincidence


You reaching out for me
You are trying to connect with me


Just when I got
Right after I obtained


All this money
A significant amount of money


And you
But you


Footloose and fancy free
Carefree and without commitments


I love you like a broth
I care about you deeply


I'll help you find you feet
I will assist you in finding success


But don't take advantage honey
But don't exploit my kindness


Your feet ain't under me
You don't control me


Why so tall
Why are you so tall?


So young
So youthful


So handsome
So good-looking


You get the best of me
You bring out the best in me


In your eyes
As per your perspective


I see a reflection
I see a portrayal of myself


You the beauty I'm the beast
You are the attractive one and I am not


You got yourself a lover
You have a romantic partner


Can't take for a ride
Can't be fooled or tricked


But you know I love you honey
But you are aware that I care for you


I cannot lie
I can't deceive myself


You want some money
You desire some funds


Kiss and cuddle too
Physical affection such as kissing and cuddling


Take it all now baby
Take everything that I have to offer now


It's always been for you
All of this has always been for you




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: JOAN ARMATRADING

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Comments from YouTube:

@gilval808

Unbelievable this song is 50 years old. 1973-2023. Thank you Sly for letting every music artist be themselves.

@muschikatze

👍👍👏👏🖖🇩🇪🖖

@funkrocker8011

Eric Benet did a cover of this song

@pjsretrogamesmusicandwrass5795

Timeless

@jenniferrootham4425

I truly appreciate & have much gratitude for the musicians who chose to release cover versions of this truly iconic song 🎶!! However, my forever favorite version will always be the original one 💃❤️

@jhoninocentes378

Hallelujah

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@buicklincoln

One of THE best bass lines ever recorded in music history.

@wymellwilliams1543

Larry Graham the best baby

@ChrisBasdeo

@@wymellwilliams1543 Larry Graham had already left the band, believe it or not that's actually Sly playing the bass

@reainealgraham7139

That was Rusty Allen on the bass guitar on this track. Larry Graham was gone from the group .

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