I'm Not Listening
Smack Dab Lyrics


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Once I was dazzled by the sparkle in your eyes until I was blind
Fell right in, threw caution to the wind and ignored the signs
Now the dust has settled and I can see but can't believe me eyes
You're back at my door, begging for more but I'm not hypnotized

Say that you love me
Say that you need me
Say that you want me
But I'm not listening

Once I believed that forever was the time that I could spend with you
And if there was a life beyond"well, I could do that too
But now the spell has broken, reality has spoken and I'm so amazed
Forever came today. I'm finding my way through the smoke and haze (CH)

Will someone shine a light on the fool who believes this was paradise
Kisses fade and what remains is only lies




If you need an explanation and someone to blame, well there's the wall
Say what you want on my behalf, I won't be there at all (CH)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Smack Dab's song "I'm Not Listening" speak about a person who was once in love with someone, but that love did not last. The song starts with the singer saying how he was once entranced by the sparkle in the eyes of his lover, so much so that he ignored the warning signs and fell in love blindly. However, he soon realized that the relationship was not working out, and the break-up made him see things clearly for the first time. Now, his former lover has come back, begging for another chance, but the singer refuses to listen to their words anymore, and he is not willing to be hypnotized by the promises they have made.


The chorus of the song is a repeated refrain of the phrase, "Say that you love me, say that you need me, say that you want me, but I'm not listening." This phrase is a testament to the singer's resolve to move past the relationship and not be swayed by his former lover's pleas. The second verse of the song speaks of the singer's realization that the promises of forever made by his lover had turned out to be empty words. The spell of love had been broken, and he had to come to terms with the reality of the situation. The song ends with the singer telling his former lover that he won't be there to hear their words anymore, and he won't be a part of the game of blame and justifications.


Line by Line Meaning

Once I was dazzled by the sparkle in your eyes until I was blind
I fell for you hard and fast when I first met you, and I couldn't see any of your flaws due to this infatuation.


Fell right in, threw caution to the wind and ignored the signs
I jumped into the relationship headfirst and didn't pay attention to any red flags that might indicate things weren't going to work out.


Now the dust has settled and I can see but can't believe me eyes
After the initial excitement wore off, I can finally see you and our relationship for what they truly are, but it's hard to accept.


You're back at my door, begging for more but I'm not hypnotized
You're trying to win me back, but I'm not falling for it this time like I did before.


Say that you love me
You want to express your love for me.


Say that you need me
You want to express your dependency on me.


Say that you want me
You want to express your desire for me.


But I'm not listening
I won't be fooled again by empty words or false promises.


Once I believed that forever was the time that I could spend with you
I thought our love was endless and we'd be together forever.


And if there was a life beyond "well, I could do that too
I was willing to commit to you and our relationship even if it meant giving up other opportunities or changing my life plans.


But now the spell has broken, reality has spoken and I'm so amazed
I finally see the truth about our relationship and I'm both surprised and disappointed by it.


Forever came today. I'm finding my way through the smoke and haze
Our relationship has ended for good and I'm trying to come to terms with it amidst all the sadness and confusion.


Will someone shine a light on the fool who believes this was paradise
I feel stupid for thinking our relationship was perfect or could last forever.


Kisses fade and what remains is only lies
All the physical aspects of our relationship have faded away and what's left is just a bunch of untruths.


If you need an explanation and someone to blame, well there's the wall
If you're looking for someone to blame for our failed relationship and want an explanation, there's nothing left for me to say or do.


Say what you want on my behalf, I won't be there at all
You're free to say whatever you want about me or our relationship behind my back because I won't be a part of it anymore.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@yourbaemarra

When you're hot, you're hot
When you're not, you're not
You've got to give a little
To gain a lot
Boy I'm gonna give you all I've got
When you pick and choose
Sometimes you lose
But I choose you boy anyhow
Nothing's gonna stop me now
But I can go over it
(So wide)
But I'm gonna get around it
(Too deep)
Hey I can get under it
(Too high)
So high
Smack dab in the middle of loving you
Baby, baby, baby, baby
Run and hide when love is on my side
I give an inch boy to gain a mile
Loving you is so worth while
Playing hide and seek
Till your heart gets weak
One, two, three, tag on you
No matter where you hide
I'm gonna get you
But I can go over it
(So wide)
But I'm gonna get around it
(Too deep)
Hey I can get under it
(Too high)
So high now boy
Smack dab in the middle of loving you
It's what I wanna do, it's what I wanna do
Hey well I can't get over it
But I'm gonna get around it
Hey I can get under it
So high
Smack dab in the middle of loving you
Can't get away, can't get away boy
You can't get away, you can't get away boy
You can run, you can hide
I've got love on my side
You can pick, you can choose
Sometimes you're about to lose
Give it up, give it up, give it on up
Is what I wanna do
Hey when you're hot, you're hot
Hey baby when you're not, you're not
You've got to pick and choose
But you're bout to lose
No matter what I'm coming thru the middle
I'm coming thru the middle
Give it up, give it up, give it on up
Smack dab in the middle, in the middle



All comments from YouTube:

@fairnorth2733

THIS JANICE MCCLAIN SUPER CLASSIC RECEIVED LOADS OF RADIO AIR PLAY HERE IN NEW YORK CITY ON WBLS-FM AND WKTU-FM BACK IN 1979 !!!! IT ALMOST SEEMS CRIMINAL THAT A MASTERPIECE AS THIS IS ALMOST FORGOTTEN BY THE CURRENT MASS MEDIA !!!! BUT THIS SONG BRINGS BACK GREAT MEMORIES !!!! THANK YOU sundayleffe FOR POSTING THIS SUPER GEM !!!! THANK YOU YOU/TUBE !!!!

@YuukiTakemoto1996

The good KTU! Janice McClain, Firefly, Double Exposure, Musique, et. al!!

@jacknjill3000

Iโ€™m from the west coast and never heard this song or never noticed it in the clubs. I did find a mint copy of this 12โ€ last week and in the first listen, I knew i had to have it.

You guys in the east. Past and NYC were very lucky to had all this great music that never made it out this way to the left coast,

@ariel423

see my comment at the top@@YuukiTakemoto1996

@jacknjill3000

Never heard this before, but from my first listen at this used record store, this record was coming home with me. It captured the vibe and energy from the golden years of disco and dance music. Glad I finally came across the masterpiece.

@nyceyes

Well said! My YouTube sreeen-name tells you where I'm from: NYC ๐Ÿ˜Š This was all over 107.5 WBLS, Disco 92.3 WKTU, and 98.7 Kiss WRKS FM. What a great song. Thank you uploader!

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@nickynap6238

Listen to her vocals so clean so damn sick YOU go Janice music from the 70's and 80's was just off the hook we grew up in the BEST OF TIMES!!! Wouldn't trade it for anything in the world clubs the Disco seen guys looked great woman looked even better let alone the music yes bring it all back!!

@jacknjill3000

I know everything great comes back, especially if it was once so great. The kids donโ€™t even go out to dance and just go to bars to get drunk with their friends.. yeah, I hope dance music and dance culture comes back again. It did with the house music scene that I was heavily involved with in the early 90โ€™s to about 2006.

@nickynap6238

@@jacknjill3000 This music never died and never will!! I hope Disco come back again soon!!

@jacknjill3000

@Nickynap2368, everything great will comeback and glad I lived it the first time around.

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