The Agony And The Ecstasy
Smokey Robinson Lyrics


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What's it all about, this crazy love
How did our two worlds entwine
How do I fit in to your life
How did you get into mine
I belong to someone else we know

Back when first we met
Oh, we thought for fun
One night together might be nice
Oh... Oh... But fun turned into love for both of us
So now we pay forbidden lover's price

Oh, cause love like ours is never, ever free (Free)
You pay some agony for the ecstasy (For the ecstasy)
Oh, love like ours is never, ever free (Free)
You got to pay some agony for the ecstasy (For the ecstasy) oh, oh

Nights when you're alone, you know that I
Laid with someone else beside me
Oh, but you love me still and I love you
You know I would no matter where I'd be

Hey, but love like ours is never, ever free (Free)
You got to pay some agony for the ecstasy (For the ecstasy)
Oh, love like ours is never, ever free (Free)
We got to pay some agony if we wanna have ecstasy (For the ecstasy), oh...

Hey, got to pay some agony
If we wanna have an ecstasy, yeah
And we need each other desperately, don't we baby
And I'll never from you be free, no, no
So you'll have to do the leavin' me, yeah
And you'll have to do the leavin' me, oh, baby
Cause I'm gonna pay the agony, yeah
Cause, oh, lovin' you is ecstasy, that's what it is
And I'm willin' to pay the price, oh
Cause I'll make it a sacrifice, oh, yes, I will




And I'll never, never, never, never, never, never, never be free
From agony

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Smokey Robinson's "The Agony and the Ecstasy" speak of the tumultuous nature of a forbidden love. The song reflects on the challenges and sacrifices that come with being in a relationship that society deems inappropriate or unacceptably complex. The lyrics ask questions about the very thing that binds two individuals together, despite the obstacles - their love. The song starts by posing the question "What's it all about, this crazy love? How did our two worlds entwine? How do I fit in to your life, how did you get into mine?" These statements represent the confusion that both individuals experience about the relationship's origins and the durability of their bond.


The track then moves towards a retrospective on how the relationship developed. Initially, Robinson describes how they envisioned the relationship as merely "one night together" merely for pleasure. However, things turned out quite differently, as "fun turned into love for both of us," leading to a penalty of being "forbidden lovers." For this issue, the singer states that "Oh cause love like ours is never, ever free you pay some agony for the ecstasy." Robinson describes the relationship's challenge, knowing that he belongs to someone else but still pursuing this love. This forbidden relationship comes with a price that they both know, and they are resolving to pay the agony despite the rewards of the highs and "ecstasy" of love.


Line by Line Meaning

What's it all about, this crazy love
What is this love that makes us act crazy?


How did our two worlds entwine
How did we end up together despite our differences?


How do I fit in to your life
What is my role in your life?


How did you get into mine
How did you enter into my life?


I belong to someone else we know
I am committed to someone else we both know


Back when first we met
When we first met each other


Oh, we thought for fun
We thought our meeting was just for fun


One night together might be nice
Spending one night together seemed like a good idea


Oh... Oh... But fun turned into love for both of us
But we ended up falling in love with each other


So now we pay forbidden lover's price
We are paying the consequences of being involved in a forbidden relationship


Oh, cause love like ours is never, ever free (Free)
Our love comes with a price


You pay some agony for the ecstasy (For the ecstasy)
We must endure pain to experience the joy of our love


Nights when you're alone, you know that I
When you are alone at night, you know that I am with someone else


Laid with someone else beside me
I slept with someone else while beside me you were not there


Oh, but you love me still and I love you
Even though we are with other people, we still love each other


You know I would no matter where I'd be
You know that I would love you no matter where I am


We got to pay some agony if we wanna have ecstasy (For the ecstasy), oh...
To experience joy in our relationship, we must also endure pain


Hey, got to pay some agony
We have to suffer to experience the ecstasy of our love


Cause, oh, lovin' you is ecstasy, that's what it is
Loving you brings me great joy


And I'm willin' to pay the price, oh
I am willing to pay the price for our love


Cause I'll make it a sacrifice, oh, yes, I will
I am willing to make sacrifices for our love


And I'll never, never, never, never, never, never, never be free
I will never be free from the consequences of our forbidden love


From agony
I will always experience pain because of our relationship




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: SMOKEY ROBINSON

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@okevisa

NO ONE COULD MAKE CHEATING SOUND SO SWEET. NO ONE BUT SMOKEY.

@hazelhebert9892

Omg my husband and I used to play this album and the Isley Brothers we were married for 45 years and had 6 children he passed away 2 years ago and this song is bringing back the sweetest memories of my life.

@rebeccawilkes4647

Agreed

@veronica213LA

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@phillipbrown7655

I had the distinct honor of driving Smokey from San Francisco to Napa last year. To think of how much history he’s contributed to the music industry is completely unfathomable , and to have him in the back of MY CAR??!!!! Absolutely CRAZY!!!! And he’s a genuine, nice guy all around. He tipped and let me take a pic with him!! Unforgettable. PB

@mardigras33

🤩 wow that’s awesome

@MsHiflying

Class Baby, class

@LUVCHUNKS71

Omg I would have probably passed out lol...

@traytyler2138

Thanks for sharing your beautiful story.

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