First Time
Smoking Popes Lyrics


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She's got a new boy
I guess that's good for her
I know she'll have more in common with him
Than with me anymore

It's just the thought
Of another arm around her shoulder
Where my arm used to rest
So comfortably

She'll probably never be again
As happy as I made her then
But then I'll never really know for sure
Will I?

[Chorus]
Nothing like the first time
Fall in love so strong
Please this is the last time
I will ever sink so low
My first time

Well I can't sleep tonight
I'm thinking about when you said yes
That was the last time
Either of us needed that much

Got a new boy
I could have picked
Someone better for you
Not that it matters much
But we used to have the same taste

But there's a first time for everything
All the fine religion




I guess I'm lucky for that
But it just makes things harder for me now

Overall Meaning

The Smoking Popes's song "First Time" is about heartbreak and moving on after a relationship has ended. The song's protagonist is struggling to come to terms with the fact that his ex-girlfriend has found someone new to be with. He acknowledges that this new relationship will probably be more successful than their own, as the new man will have more in common with her than the singer does now. However, he can't help but be plagued by the thought of someone else's arm being where his used to be around her shoulder. He knows that she may never be as happy with someone else as she was with him, but he also feels uncertain about whether or not he'll ever truly know for sure.


The chorus of the song emphasizes the power of falling in love for the first time. The singer reflects on the intense feelings he experienced when he fell in love with his ex-girlfriend for the first time, and how he will never experience that same level of intensity again. He wishes that he could go back to that moment and relive it with her, but knows deep down that this is impossible.


The song's bridge reveals that the singer is still struggling to come to terms with his ex's new relationship. He can't sleep at night, as he is constantly replaying the moment when she said yes to someone else. He briefly considers that perhaps he could have chosen a better partner for her, but knows that this doesn't really matter now that they've moved on from each other. The final lines of the song suggest that despite his struggle, the singer knows that he is lucky to have experienced such intense love at least once in his life, even if it makes it harder for him to move on now.


Line by Line Meaning

She's got a new boy
His ex-girlfriend has moved on and found someone new.


I guess that's good for her
He's trying to be supportive of her new relationship, even though it hurts him.


I know she'll have more in common with him
He recognizes that his ex-girlfriend and her new partner probably have more shared interests and experiences than he does with her now.


Than with me anymore
He feels like he has grown apart from his ex-girlfriend and no longer has a strong connection with her.


It's just the thought
Thinking about his ex-girlfriend with someone new is causing him distress.


Of another arm around her shoulder
He imagines his ex-girlfriend being comforted by someone else.


Where my arm used to rest
He used to provide comfort and support for his ex-girlfriend, but now someone else has taken his place.


So comfortably
He had a connection with her that made him feel comfortable and secure.


She'll probably never be again
He doubts that his ex-girlfriend will ever be as happy as she was with him.


As happy as I made her then
He believes that he was the source of her happiness in their past relationship.


But then I'll never really know for sure
He acknowledges that he can't be certain about her happiness without him.


Nothing like the first time
The first time falling in love is a unique and powerful experience.


Fall in love so strong
The intensity of falling in love for the first time is unmatched by subsequent relationships.


Please this is the last time
He is asking for closure and resolution in this situation.


I will ever sink so low
He feels like his sadness and longing for his ex-girlfriend is causing him to act in unhealthy ways.


My first time
He is reflecting on how powerful and significant his first love experience was with his ex-girlfriend.


Well I can't sleep tonight
He is filled with anxiety and restlessness about his ex-girlfriend's new relationship.


I'm thinking about when you said yes
He remembers the moment his ex-girlfriend agreed to be in a relationship with him.


That was the last time
This moment was the last time they were truly happy together.


Either of us needed that much
They relied too heavily on each other and were too emotionally invested in their relationship.


Got a new boy
He repeats the idea that his ex-girlfriend is now with someone else.


I could have picked
He wonders if he could have chosen someone better for his ex-girlfriend.


Someone better for you
He acknowledges that his ex-girlfriend deserves someone who is good for her.


Not that it matters much
He recognizes that his opinion about her new relationship doesn't really matter.


But we used to have the same taste
He and his ex-girlfriend used to share similar interests and preferences.


But there's a first time for everything
He repeats the chorus to reflect on the idea that every experience, good or bad, has a first time.


All the fine religion
He is referring to religious beliefs that encourage people to forgive and move on from past relationships.


I guess I'm lucky for that
He acknowledges that he is fortunate to have the support of religious teachings in this situation.


But it just makes things harder for me now
Even with religious guidance, he is still struggling with the pain and sadness of his breakup.




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