Where Was Your Heart
Soft Cell Lyrics


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You're time-wasting again
Biting your nails like you were sixteen
Putting up your little walls
When emotion's around
Leave your little heart
In the lost and found
Your friends would die laughing
If they saw you this way
Even though they cry the same tears every day
Where was your heart
When you needed it most?
Hand in hand with your innocence
Gave up the ghost

But it doesn't do to tell
You're at your best
When you're living hell
Just put on your hard face
You know you do that so well
Thank god you wore
Your waterproof make-up today
And who gives a damn about him anyway?
To him you're a body
And to hell with the mind
But you get the same stick from his type all the time
Just a couple of drinks
And they've got you tonight
And you know the sad thing
Is that they're often right

Where was your heart
When you needed it most?
Hand in hand with your innocence
Gave up the ghost

They take hold of your heart
And they spit it right out
Make a show of their conquest
When their friends are about
Your ego deflated
You gave up the fight
And became the good-time-had-by-all-every-night

And where was your heart
When you needed it most?
Hand in hand with your innocence
Gave up the ghost

No comfort of beds
Or the softness of sheets
Just the back of a car
Sprawled across the back seats
And he'll just not give up
And he's messed up your head
A dish in the disco
But a pig in the bed

So you build up a false love affair anyway
Photocopy soap opera stories all day
Where it all ends up fine
And it all ends in church
And the girl looks like you
And she never really gets hurt

And where was your heart
When you needed it most?




Hand in hand with your innocence
Gave up the ghost

Overall Meaning

"Where Was Your Heart" by Soft Cell is a powerful reflection on the emotional pain and heartbreak of being in a toxic, abusive relationship. The lyrics describe a person who has lost touch with their own feelings and emotions, building up walls and putting on a hard face to protect themselves from the pain of love. The chorus poses the central question of the song: "Where was your heart when you needed it most?" The singer is asking why they allowed themselves to be hurt and abused, and why they didn't remain true to their own emotions and feelings.


The song is filled with vivid imagery and emotional language, painting a picture of the desperation and isolation of the singer's situation. They describe being alone and lost, abandoned by their own heart and left to wander in a world of pain and betrayal. The lyrics are also unflinching in their portrayal of the emotional and physical abuse that the singer has experienced, and the way that this has warped their sense of self and their ability to love and trust others.


Overall, "Where Was Your Heart" is a challenging and provocative song that asks deep questions about the nature of love, betrayal, and self-determination. Soft Cell's powerful lyrics and haunting melody make this song a classic of the synthpop genre, and a deeply affecting commentary on the human condition.


Line by Line Meaning

You're time-wasting again
You're just aimlessly killing time


Biting your nails like you were sixteen
You're anxious and nervous, like a teenager


Putting up your little walls
You're shutting yourself off emotionally


When emotion's around
When feelings are involved


Leave your little heart
You've lost your sense of love and vulnerability


In the lost and found
It's nowhere to be found


Your friends would die laughing
Your friends would find it hilarious


If they saw you this way
If they saw how you're acting


Even though they cry the same tears every day
They're in the same emotional state


Where was your heart
Where were your feelings


When you needed it most?
When you were most vulnerable and needed emotional support?


Hand in hand with your innocence
Your innocence and purity went hand-in-hand with your feelings


Gave up the ghost
It's gone now and can't be found


But it doesn't do to tell
It's not helpful to say anything


You're at your best
You function optimally


When you're living hell
When you're in a bad place


Just put on your hard face
Just pretend to be tough


You know you do that so well
You're really good at hiding your emotions


Thank god you wore
Thankfully, you wore


Your waterproof make-up today
Your makeup won't smudge if you cry


And who gives a damn about him anyway?
Who cares about him at all?


To him you're a body
To him, you're just a physical object


And to hell with the mind
He doesn't care about your thoughts or feelings


But you get the same stick from his type all the time
But men like him treat you the same way


Just a couple of drinks
Just a few drinks


And they've got you tonight
And they'll take advantage of you tonight


And you know the sad thing
And the unfortunate thing is


Is that they're often right
Is that they're often correct in their assumptions


They take hold of your heart
They deceive you emotionally


And they spit it right out
And they discard your emotions without care


Make a show of their conquest
They brag about their sexual conquests


When their friends are about
When they're around their friends


Your ego deflated
Your pride and self-esteem are diminished


You gave up the fight
You stopped resisting their advances


And became the good-time-had-by-all-every-night
You became someone they used for a good time


No comfort of beds
No comfort of a bed


Or the softness of sheets
Or the soft linen of a bed


Just the back of a car
Just the back seat of a car


Sprawled across the back seats
Laying across the back seat


And he'll just not give up
And he will not stop pursuing you


And he's messed up your head
And he's harmed you emotionally


A dish in the disco
A desirable person in a club


But a pig in the bed
But someone who treats you poorly in private


So you build up a false love affair anyway
So you create an imaginary love story


Photocopy soap opera stories all day
You spend all day copying love stories from soap operas


Where it all ends up fine
Where everything works out in the end


And it all ends in church
And their love story ends in a wedding


And the girl looks like you
And the girl in the story resembles you


And she never really gets hurt
And she never experiences emotional pain


Where was your heart
Where were your feelings


When you needed it most?
When you were most vulnerable and needed emotional support?


Hand in hand with your innocence
Your innocence and purity went hand-in-hand with your feelings


Gave up the ghost
It's gone now and can't be found




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: MARC ALMOND, DAVID JAMES BALL

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@keith-leecastle6700

After 37 years, still one of my most played albums. Soft Cell were probably the most important band throughout my teenage years. My love for them burns bright as ever.

@scottfraser7118

That was a Classic 😘

@klingazteka

And where was your heart When you needed it most? Hand in hand with your innocence Gave up the ghost No comfort of beds Or the softness of sheets Just the back of a car Sprawled across the back seats And he'll just not give up And he's messed up your head A dish in the disco But a pig in the bed

@peternicklin2693

lovely piano ending by dave ball

@mannyhughes7997

Amazing stuff

@klingazteka

"Where Was Your Heart (When You Needed It Most)" You're time-wasting again Biting your nails like you were sixteen Putting up your little walls When emotion's around Leave your little heart In the lost and found Your friends would die laughing If they saw you this way Even though they cry the same tears every day Where was your heart When you needed it most? Hand in hand with your innocence Gave up the ghost

@klingazteka

Where was your heart When you needed it most? Hand in hand with your innocence Gave up the ghost They take hold of your heart And they spit it right out Make a show of their conquest When their friends are about Your ego deflated You gave up the fight And became the good-time-had-by-all-every-night

@EvilCat-EnergyCatalyst

2:13 That piano really reminds me of the piano used in the Silent Hill 3 OST, especially the piano at the end of "Innocent Moon (Other Take)".

@klingazteka

But it doesn't do to tell You're at your best When you're living hell Just put on your hard face You know you do that so well Thank god you wore Your waterproof make-up today And who gives a damn about him anyway? To him you're a body And to hell with the mind But you get the same stick from his type all the time Just a couple of drinks And they've got you tonight And you know the sad thing Is that they're often right

@carolinegray5297

I have this cassette

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