Who Wears the Pants??
Soko Lyrics


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Have you ever thought of being a man?
Do you think it would ease your pain?
Who put this idea in your head
That you're gonna rot in hell?

Now, who wears the pants?
And who is gonna water the plants?
Who is the woman? Who's the man?
Well, you just gotta live to tell

You burned all the bridges in the neon light
Oh you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you won't be able to come back

You think that two boys is a sin
And two girls is somehow sexy
But in the eyes of god, no matter what
It's "a disgrace!"
(That's what they say)

So now, who wears the pants?
And how does it all make sense?
Can it be love and don't you miss another man
Well, you don't even seem to care!

You burned all the bridges in the neon light
Oh you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you won't be able to come back

(Insanity) insanity
(Insanity) insanity
(Insanity) insanity
(Insanity) insanity

Now, who wears the pants?
And who is gonna water the plants?
Who is the woman, who's the man?
Well, you just gotta live to tell

You burned all the bridges in the neon light
Oh you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you won't be able to come back

You burned all the bridges in the neon light
Oh you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you won't be able to come back





Oh you don't even need to come back

Overall Meaning

In "Who Wears The Pants??" SoKo challenges traditional gender roles and societal expectations. The song opens with a provocative question: "Have you ever thought of being a man?," implying that being a man would be an easy way to escape pain. The lyrics suggest that society has created a distorted and narrow view of gender roles, and that individuals feel pressure to conform to these norms or face being ostracized. SoKo asks "Who put this idea in your head that you're gonna rot in hell?" insinuating that this idea is damaging and limiting.


The chorus poses the question "Who wears the pants?" challenging traditional gender roles and asking what it means to be a man or a woman. SoKo also pokes fun at the expectation of gender roles asking "Who's gonna water the plants?", a traditional stereotype of women's housework. She then questions the idea of gender roles altogether, asking "Can it be love and don't you miss another man?" challenging any negative perceptions around LGBTQ relationships.


The bridge of the song repeats the word "insanity" as a commentary on the idea that society's view of gender roles is damaging and oppressive. The song concludes with the repeated phrase "You burned all the bridges in the neon light, and you won't be able to come back" suggesting that breaking free from these societal norms can have consequences but is ultimately liberating.


Line by Line Meaning

Have you ever thought of being a man?
Have you ever thought that being male could relieve your pain?


Do you think it would ease your pain?
Do you believe that being male would be a solution to your struggles?


Who put this idea in your head
Who influenced you to think that being a man could make you happy?


That you're gonna rot in hell?
Who instilled the fear in you that you'll go to hell for your actions?


Now, who wears the pants?
Who has control in this situation?


And who is gonna water the plants?
Who will take care of the responsibilities in this situation?


Who is the woman? Who's the man?
Who has to conform to traditional gender roles in this situation?


Well, you just gotta live to tell
You have to experience it firsthand to understand it


You burned all the bridges in the neon light
You've ended all your relationships in a reckless way


Oh you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You're confused and have lost your sense of direction


You think that two boys is a sin
You believe that same-gender relationships are immoral


And two girls is somehow sexy
You view same-gender relationships between women as erotic


But in the eyes of God, no matter what
Regardless of personal opinions, all love is equal in the eyes of a higher power


It's 'a disgrace!' (That's what they say)
Society views non-traditional relationships as shameful


And how does it all make sense?
How can such strict societal norms be logical or fair?


Can it be love and don't you miss another man
Can you experience love with someone of the same gender without feeling like you are missing out on a relationship with the opposite gender?


Well, you don't even seem to care!
You are apathetic towards societal expectations and are willing to pursue love on your own terms


(Insanity) insanity
The irrationality of societal norms and expectations


You burned all the bridges in the neon light
You destroyed all your connections with others in a flamboyant manner


Oh you don't even need to come back
You've moved on and don't feel the need to return to the past




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Stephanie Sokolinski, Ambroise Willaume, Ross Robinson

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Raslen Sassi

Lyrics:
Have you ever thought of being a man?
Do you think it would ease your pain?
Who could decide yet in your head that you're gonna rot in hell
Now who wears the pants?
And who's gonna wet her plans?
Who's the woman
Who'ss the man
Well you just gotta live to tell

You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you want me to come back

You think that two boys is a sin
And two girls is somehow sexy
But inn the eyes of God
No matter what
It's a disgrace
That's what I say
So now who wears the pants?
And how does it all make sense?
Can it be love until you miss mother land
Well you'll need to see it again

You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you want me to come back

Now who wears the pants?
And who's gonna wet her plans?
Who's the woman
Who's the man
Well you just gotta live to tell
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you want me to come back
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you want me to come back

Oh, you don't need to come back



Allison Rosborough

[Verse 1]
Have you ever thought of being a man?
Do you think it would ease your pain?
Who put this idea in your head
That you're gonna rot in hell?

[Hook 1]
Now, who wears the pants?
And who is gonna water the plants?
Who is the woman? Who's the man?
Well, you just gotta live to tell

Chorus]
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
Oh you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you won't be able to come back

[Verse 2]
You think that two boys is a sin
And two girls is somehow sexy
But in the eyes of god, no matter what
It's "a disgrace!"
(That's what they say...)

[Hook 2]
So now, who wears the pants?
And how does it all make sense?
Can it be love and don't you miss another man
Well, you don't even seem to care!


Chorus]
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
Oh you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you won't be able to come back

[Bridge]
Insanity

[Hook 1]
Now, who wears the pants?
And who is gonna water the plants?
Who is the woman, who's the man?
Well, you just gotta live to tell

[Chorus x2]
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
Oh you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you won't be able to come back

[Outro]
Oh you don't even need to come back



Thanh Tùng

Have you ever thought of being a man?
Do you think it would ease your pain?
Who could decide yet in your head that you're gonna rot in hell
Now who wears the pants?
And who's gonna wet her plans?
Who's the woman
Who's the man
Well you just gotta live to tell
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you want me to come back
You think that two voices see
And two girls is somehow sexy
In the eyes of God
No matter what
It's a disgrace
That's what I say
So now who wears the pants?
And how does it all make sense?
Can it be love until you miss mother land
Well you'll need to see it again
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned…



All comments from YouTube:

F

"You think that two boys is a sin
And two girls is somehow sexy
In the eyes of God, no matter what,
It's "a disgrace!"
( That's what they say ) "

Brilliant!

Avarina

she pronounces it seen” instead of “sin”

Marc Martinez

Stephanie Chesterfield c

nana durand

Après lecture des posts , c'est fou qu'on ait tendance à comparer  tel chanteur à tel chanteur...chanteuse à telle chanteuse...Soko est Soko ! Merci pour ta musique energisante Soko !

Leif

nana durand Hello, tu as tout dit... SOKO... est SOKO...
Good vibration et longue carrière à la Bordelaise !

Raslen Sassi

Lyrics:
Have you ever thought of being a man?
Do you think it would ease your pain?
Who could decide yet in your head that you're gonna rot in hell
Now who wears the pants?
And who's gonna wet her plans?
Who's the woman
Who'ss the man
Well you just gotta live to tell

You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you want me to come back

You think that two boys is a sin
And two girls is somehow sexy
But inn the eyes of God
No matter what
It's a disgrace
That's what I say
So now who wears the pants?
And how does it all make sense?
Can it be love until you miss mother land
Well you'll need to see it again

You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you want me to come back

Now who wears the pants?
And who's gonna wet her plans?
Who's the woman
Who's the man
Well you just gotta live to tell
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you want me to come back
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you want me to come back

Oh, you don't need to come back

jsiwowksj

I mean... some parts are wrong...

Allison Rosborough

[Verse 1]
Have you ever thought of being a man?
Do you think it would ease your pain?
Who put this idea in your head
That you're gonna rot in hell?

[Hook 1]
Now, who wears the pants?
And who is gonna water the plants?
Who is the woman? Who's the man?
Well, you just gotta live to tell

Chorus]
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
Oh you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you won't be able to come back

[Verse 2]
You think that two boys is a sin
And two girls is somehow sexy
But in the eyes of god, no matter what
It's "a disgrace!"
(That's what they say...)

[Hook 2]
So now, who wears the pants?
And how does it all make sense?
Can it be love and don't you miss another man
Well, you don't even seem to care!


Chorus]
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
Oh you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you won't be able to come back

[Bridge]
Insanity

[Hook 1]
Now, who wears the pants?
And who is gonna water the plants?
Who is the woman, who's the man?
Well, you just gotta live to tell

[Chorus x2]
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
Oh you're lost baby, yeah you're lost
You burned all the bridges in the neon light
And you won't be able to come back

[Outro]
Oh you don't even need to come back

Charlotte Guszczak

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