I Really Don
Solomon Burke Lyrics


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Oh how many arms have held you
And hated to let you go
How many, oh how many, I wonder
But I really don't want, I don't wanna know

Oh how many lips have kissed you
And set, set your soul aglow, yes they did
How many, oh how many, I wonder, yes I do
But I really don't want to know

So always make, make me wonder
And always make, make me guess
And even, you know even if I ask you
Oh darling oh don't you, don't confess

Just let it, let it remain your secret
Oh for darling, darling I love you so




No wonder, yeah no wonder, I wonder
Mmm, 'cause I really don't want, I don't wanna know

Overall Meaning

Solomon Burke's song "I Really Don't Want to Know" is about a person who is aware of their partner's romantic past but prefers to remain ignorant of the details. The opening lines "Oh how many arms have held you, and hated to let you go. How many, oh how many, I wonder. But I really don't want, I don't wanna know" suggest that the person has trouble accepting that their partner has had relationships before their own. They are aware that their partner is desirable and have probably been with many other people before they got together.


Later in the song, Burke talks about how his lover's past lovers made her soul glow with their kisses. He admits that he is curious about how many past lovers she has had but implies that he would not like to know because it would only cause him pain. He prefers to remain in the dark and savour the present moment in their relationship without any baggage or awkwardness.


The chorus of the song is mainly about remaining in the dark and in blissful ignorance. It says, "So always make, make me wonder, and always make, make me guess. And even, you know even if I ask you. Oh darling, oh don't you, don't confess. Just let it, let it remain your secret. Oh for darling, darling I love you so. No wonder, yeah no wonder, I wonder. Mmm, 'cause I really don't want, I don't wanna know."


Overall, the song is about the insecurities and self-doubt that may arise in romantic relationships. It highlights the importance of communication and honesty while also acknowledging that sometimes it may be better to keep some things to oneself.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh how many arms have held you
I wonder how many people have held you tightly in their arms.


And hated to let you go
I wonder if these people were sad to let you go.


How many, oh how many, I wonder
I am curious about the number of people who have held you.


But I really don't want, I don't wanna know
However, I do not actually want to know the answer.


Oh how many lips have kissed you
I wonder how many people have kissed your lips.


And set, set your soul aglow, yes they did
I wonder if these kisses made you happy and excited.


How many, oh how many, I wonder, yes I do
I am curious about the number of people who have kissed you.


But I really don't want to know
However, I do not actually want to know the answer.


So always make, make me wonder
Please always keep me guessing and wondering.


And always make, make me guess
Please keep me guessing and wondering all the time.


And even, you know even if I ask you
Even if I ask you outright, please don't tell me the truth.


Oh darling oh don't you, don't confess
Sweetheart, I beg of you, do not confess anything to me.


Just let it, let it remain your secret
Please keep it a secret between you and whoever kissed or held you.


Oh for darling, darling I love you so
I love you very much, my dearest.


No wonder, yeah no wonder, I wonder
It's no surprise that I'm curious about your past.


Mmm, 'cause I really don't want, I don't wanna know
But I really don't want to know the truth about it.




Lyrics Β© Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DON ROBERTSON, DONALD I. ROBERTSON, HOWARD ELLINGTON RIDDIFORD BARNES

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@normaj.3305

One of the greatest voices ever to sing R /B. thanks so much for posting!

@carlfield276

A beautiful song by a fantastic singer.

@herbertgraham2238

Solomon Burke and Ray Charles took country and western and turn them into soul music 🎢

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I’ve been looking for this song for ages. Thank you.

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very nice song

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love this mans voiceΒ  I have lots of his cdsΒ  love this song...

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