This indie pop song speaks about fears in a romantic relationship and reluctance to move on. Sombr says in an interview from Alt Revue: "This is about not wanting to start a new relationship because you are longing for the old one. You want the familiar and not the unknown. I recorded this late at night in my home studio when I had time to reflect and everything was quiet. I normally work on music through the night when I can focus without interruption."
The song became Sombr's breakout hit, alongside his 2024 single "Back to Friends", both of which entered several charts concurrently after going viral on the video-sharing app TikTok.
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Sombr Lyrics
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You were sick of all the holes in your sweater
You looked to me and wondered whether
I was the lamppost to which you were tethered
I'm lookin' at you, and you're lookin' at me
But the glimmer in your eyes is sayin' you wanna leave
You say you don't mean what you're sayin' to meBut the glimmer in your eyes is telling me other things
I don't wanna get undressed
For a new person all over again
I don't wanna kiss someone else's neck
And have to pretend it's yours instead
I took the train to see my mother
I look across the track to see you with another
There's nothin' worse than seein' your lover
Moving on while you still suffer
I'm lookin' at you, and you're lookin' at me
But the glimmer in your eyes is sayin' you wanna leave
You say you don't mean what you're sayin' to me
But the glimmer in your eyes is telling me other things
I don't wanna get undressed
For a new person all over again
I don't wanna kiss someone else's neck
And have to pretend it's yours instead
And I don't wanna learn another scent
I don't want the children of another man
To have the eyes of the girl that I won't forget
I won't forget
I don't wanna get undressed
For a new person all over again
I don't wanna kiss someone else's neck
And have to pretend it's yours instead
I don't wanna get undressed
For a new person all over again
In "Undressed," Sombr explores the intricate emotions that accompany the unraveling of a romantic relationship. The opening lines introduce the theme of aspiration against the backdrop of dissatisfaction. The imagery of "holes in your sweater" symbolizes not only physical wear and tear, but also emotional vulnerability and the desire for something more fulfilling. The metaphor of being a "lamppost" suggests the notion of support and guidance, indicating that the person being addressed sees the singer as a potential source of stability in their life. However, this initial hope is clouded by uncertainty and doubt, as both characters grapple with their feelings towards each other.
As the song progresses, the tension between wanting to stay and the urge to leave becomes palpable. The repeated phrase "I'm looking at you, and you're looking at me" conveys a shared experience that is thick with unspoken words. Yet, the “glimmer in your eyes” serves as a stark contrast to the verbal assertions of wanting to stay. This emotional dissonance highlights a deep misunderstanding inherent in the relationship. It suggests that while one party may want to maintain their connection, the other appears to be preparing for departure. The struggle with these unexpressed emotions sets the stage for the singer's feelings of confusion and heartache.
The chorus brings forth a raw vulnerability, as the singer expresses a profound reluctance to engage in another intimate relationship. The phrase "I don't wanna get undressed for a new person all over again" encapsulates the fear of starting anew, especially when the memories of a significant past love linger heavily. There's an underlying sense of fatigue associated with the idea of trying to love someone else while still harboring feelings for a former partner. The lyrics not only articulate a fear of physical intimacy with someone new but also the emotional labor of pretending that their affections and memories do not belong to someone else, making the act feel deceptive and hollow.
In the further verses, the pain intensifies as the singer reflects on seeing their former lover with someone else, a moment that crystallizes the bereavement of lost love. The mention of the train trip to see a mother vividly conveys themes of longing and separation, emphasizing the duality of being caught between memories and present realities. The thoughts of “the children of another man” and their potentially shared traits with the previous lover compound the sense of loss and serve as a haunting reminder that while life continues, the singer grapples with their inability to move on. The cyclical return to the chorus showcases an emotional stalemate, where the desire to protect oneself from new relational hurt clashes with the inevitability of change and the need for connection. Ultimately, "Undressed" encapsulates the complexities of love, loss, and the innate fear of being vulnerable again.
Line by Line Meaning
You had a dream, you wanted better
You held aspirations for a brighter future, longing for improvement in your life.
You were sick of all the holes in your sweater
You grew tired of dealing with the flaws and imperfections in your current situation.
You looked to me and wondered whether
You turned to me, questioning if I could offer the support or stability you sought.
I was the lamppost to which you were tethered
You relied on me as a source of light and guidance in your life, feeling anchored to my presence.
I'm lookin' at you, and you're lookin' at me
We share a moment of mutual awareness, both aware of our connection.
But the glimmer in your eyes is sayin' you wanna leave
Despite our shared gaze, the spark in your eyes reveals a desire to escape or move on.
You say you don't mean what you're sayin' to me
You claim that your words don't reflect your true feelings or intentions towards me.
But the glimmer in your eyes is telling me other things
Your eyes betray you, revealing unspoken thoughts and emotions that contradict your words.
I don't wanna get undressed
I hesitate to become vulnerable and intimate with someone new.
For a new person all over again
I dread the experience of starting over and opening myself up to someone else.
I don't wanna kiss someone else's neck
I am reluctant to engage in physical affection with another, as it feels wrong.
And have to pretend it's yours instead
I don't want to fake an intimacy that I truly associate with you and not someone else.
I took the train to see my mother
I embarked on a journey to visit my family, perhaps reflecting on my past.
I look across the track to see you with another
While traveling, I catch sight of you with someone else, stirring feelings of heartbreak.
There's nothin' worse than seein' your lover
Experiencing the sight of your beloved with someone else brings immense pain.
Moving on while you still suffer
It is deeply distressing to watch you move on while I remain in a state of emotional turmoil.
I'm lookin' at you, and you're lookin' at me
Amidst our shared glance, there is an undeniable tension and connection between us.
But the glimmer in your eyes is sayin' you wanna leave
The spark in your eyes indicates your inner conflict, suggesting a wish to break free.
You say you don't mean what you're sayin' to me
You reassure me that your spoken words shouldn't be taken at face value, yet I sense otherwise.
But the glimmer in your eyes is telling me other things
Your gaze contradicts your reassurances, revealing deeper emotions that connect us.
I don't wanna get undressed
I resist the idea of shedding my barriers to become intimate and open with someone new.
For a new person all over again
The thought of starting from scratch in intimacy is overwhelming and unappealing.
I don't wanna kiss someone else's neck
I wish to avoid experiencing closeness with another, as it feels deeply unnatural.
And have to pretend it's yours instead
The thought of mimicking affection that is truly meant for you feels insincere and hurtful.
And I don't wanna learn another scent
I am unwilling to familiarize myself with another's essence, as it diminishes my connection to you.
I don't want the children of another man
I seek to avoid the reality of forming a family with someone else, a living reminder of my loss.
To have the eyes of the girl that I won't forget
The thought of another's child possessing your features serves as a perpetual reminder of you.
I won't forget
My memories of you and our times together will remain etched in my mind, unresolved and lasting.
I don't wanna get undressed
I remain hesitant to remove my emotional barriers and engage intimately once more.
For a new person all over again
The idea of re-experiencing intimacy feels daunting and unfathomable at this moment.
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Shane Boose
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@thisismeswifting13
“i don’t want the children of another man to have the eyes of the girl i won’t forget.” is insanely good lyricism. sombr is winning a grammy next year!
@krismr6162
I'm looking forward to this as well! He does deserve to be nominated and ''win artist of the year'', cuz this kid came out from nowhwere, all of a sudden, he is so talented!
@kentsitah
Harry Potter
@ShambhaviSharma-k5s
giving snape tbh
@Sharpshooter649
Good lyricism but reeking of mysogeny. Like he owns the woman
@SakshamGurung-p8w
@@Sharpshooter649toxic relationship trope
@bennimoreno5903
'Somebody I used to know', 'pumped up kicks' and Beach Boy vibes. This is going to be an instant classic!
@tonywalker7602
Rip of Goytes classic.
@st.paulchoir6166
Add in a little 1975 too
@CommercialVibes25
It really feels early 2010s, doesn't it?