turns to inspiration. This is the territory of Sophie B. Hawkins’ remarkable sixth album, which is at once the most directly personal, musically transporting and defiantly raw work yet from the Grammy nominated
singer/songwriter.
Since her instantaneous 1992 breakthrough with the indelible hit single “Damn I Wish I Was Your
Lover” and her acclaimed debut album Tongues and Tails, Hawkins has proved an enduring artist with a fierce commitment to constantly evolving, while remaining steadfastly true to her own authentic history and experience. This comes to the fore as she breaks open her heart without reservation on The Crossing, her longawaited first album of new songs in several years. It is a searing, lush and startlingly naked chronicle of the most intense period of Hawkins’ life, in which she has come to terms with her father’s death, openly surrendered to the haunting specter of her past, discovered the exhilaration of motherhood and arrived at a profound reckoning of acceptance. All of this emerges in songwriting and vocals that mix the brashly playful and the unabashedly poignant in fresh ways for Hawkins.
“I was really reaching for somewhere new as I wrote these songs,” she explains. “It all started with
getting a letter from my sister that my father was dying – and, in a way, that opened up not only struggle and emotion but all these opportunities for healing. I had to acknowledge that I’d never be able to heal the abyss created by my parents’ alcoholism. I had to say this is how it was, this is how it is with me now and surrender to the grace of that. These feelings have always been there in my writing but it’s like I always kind of danced around them in my songs and now I was ready to go head-on into them. The songs began to express a kind of eternal dream I’ve had, that I think we all have, for a moment of peace and clarity, for the ability to get beyond our personal struggles and move out into the larger world -- knowing exactly where you stand in it.”
The eleven songs on her upcoming album, The Crossing spilled out of Sophie B. Hawkins in a way she had never experienced before in a lifetime of diverse and critically admired songwriting – yet were so closely entwined with her very being, she confesses they felt at first like secrets that needed to be kept. “I didn’t play these songs to anybody, not a soul, for a long time,” she acknowledges. “But as I wrote, I developed deeper and deeper roots of strength. I felt it was time to do something that might scare me. And what I love about these songs is that they are very, very emotional but they aren’t filled with baggage. There’s something very unconscious about them, a letting go, and they seem to bring people a lot of joy.”
Hoping to sustain the stripped-bare honesty of how the songs were written, Hawkins created the album
in a sonically hand-made way – recording entirely in her home studio and keeping the sparse, spontaneous immediacy of a demo-like sound. She engineered the album herself. “The album is entirely me with just drums, bass, guitar and flugel. I didn’t hire a band – I just would meet one musician at a time and have them come to the house to record and it was a very spacious and organic process. I became an engineer really by instinct. I kept things very simple and told the musicians to just have fun. It felt like it unfolded all on its own -- I really wanted to retain the feel of these songs that were written completely in the moment and I think we did. I felt lucky just to be there watching this be created.”
The tracks on The Crossing have that rare quality of feeling like an expedition underneath a human
skin, revealing a woman who has dragged wisdom and strength from a lion’s den of complicated relationships and life experiences. The journey ranges from the feisty “Bet Ya Got A Cure” which Hawkins calls “a personal, guttural response to everything I’ve seen and a reminder that we’re all too easily lulled by what’s easy instead of the parts of life that require you to be really brave”; to the powerful testament “Heart and Soul of a Woman,” an ode to feminine strength (in all forms) which Hawkins notes was inspired in part by her experiences working on Hilary Clinton’s historic Presidential campaign; to the fluid, crescendoing “Life Is a River,” which Hawkins says is about the idea “that you don’t really know who you are until you’re challenged.”
Some of the most personally revealing tracks include “Missing,” an impassioned reckoning with the dark
truths of her past that Hawkins says is about that “really simple dream of coming to the purest place of common ground with someone no matter what went on before. It also has this great feeling for me of New York in the springtime.” She makes a bold, no-holds barred declaration of independence in “I Don’t Need You,” then turns reflective in “Red Bird,” which was written after a friend was hit by a car and Hawkins muses “is about those moments when you have to move on, even though you don’t necessarily want to leave where you are, you can’t help but go forward.” Then there is “Dream Street & Chance,” a jazzy, modern torch song about possibility and acceptance. “There’s a lot of personal symbolism in that song,” notes Hawkins. “When I talk about the weatherman’s castle it goes back to me wanting to be a weatherman as a child, which my father used to tease me about. The song goes back to the idea of a sacred childhood, which is a part of being human no matter what your experience with childhood is, and which I think is the source of all creativity.”
Evocative themes weave throughout the album from innocence and the purity of love in “A Child” (which
morphs into Hawkins’ sultry take on “Summertime And The Living Is Easy”) to the human need for the natural world in “The Land, The Sea and The Sky” to the brassy rebelliousness of youth in the sexy, sunny, straightahead pop song “Georgia.” Hawkins also collaborated with Academy Award®-winning actress Mary Steenburgen on the heart-felt, Joplinesque folk ballad “Gone Baby.” “I met Mary at a Clinton rally and in the middle of everything she mentioned that she wrote songs,” Hawkins recalls. “Later, she sang one of her songs to me over the phone and she was like a lone wolf in the desert. I felt that the song was all there, it just needed to be developed. It turned out to be a great partnership and I got so much out of working with her.”
In the end, the album became to Hawkins a kind of line in the sand: “These songs were written right on
that border between transcending the person I used to be and opening up to something new, to realizing I’ve come to a place where I can bring more love, more passion and more energy to my life and creation. It’s an acceptance of where I’ve been and a declaration of where I’m standing I am right now.”
In the middle of writing the songs for her new album, Hawkins received an unusual chance to take an
artistic left turn. Hawkins was asked by her longtime manager and acclaimed filmmaker, Gigi Gaston, to join her in pitching a musical Gigi had been working on with Kristin Chenoweth, the Tony & Emmy award-winning singer and actress (Glee, Pushing Daisies, Wicked), in which Chenoweth would star. The musical had deep roots, having been started by Gaston’s mother, Theodora Lynch, in 1950, and now the three women were inspired to bring an extraordinary story back to life. A fan of Hawkins’ music, Chenoweth asked Sophie to write the new music & lyrics for a book by Gaston and Tony-award winning Broadway legend Thomas Meehan (Annie, The Producers, Hairspray), who joined the project as co-writer soon after.
“When Gigi, my manager first approached me about writing a Broadway musical, I thought ‘there’s no
way,’“ Sophie laughs. “It was completely outside anything I’d ever done, but at the same time, I’ve always loved musicals and some of my favorite songwriters and singers come from the theatre world, which has had a huge influence on me. I started to think that just maybe I had it in me.”
After that fateful first meeting between Gaston, Chenoweth and Hawkins, the journey began.
Tentatively at first, Hawkins began writing with Gaston, then further collaborating with Meehan. It was a fresh and creative adventure that became a perfectly timed yin-yang contrast to Hawkins’ work on the album.
“It has been a grand experiment and a lot of hard work but it was also an amazing opportunity to
explore a completely different creative process,” Hawkins explains. “Here I was writing these intensely
emotional songs for the album, so working on the musical became a welcome release from that. It wasn’t about me, it was about fictional characters and the arc of telling a dramatic story -- and I could immerse myself in that in a whole different way. It’s a more intellectual way of writing, but it also became more unconscious and poetic as it went along. It was also great for me because I have rarely collaborated lyrically with anyone and it was very interesting to work with other people’s ideas and themes. I was moving back and forth between these songs for the album that were so personal on the one hand, and then on the other, working in a very collaborative atmosphere on something structured and theatrical. It was a great contrast that I think allowed me to explore more of the potential of who I am.”
The Crossing is in many ways the culmination of Sophie B. Hawkins’ life-long apprenticeship in
creative transcendence. Hawkins grew up in a colorful but troubled New York family and found an outlet for her yearning and imagination in music at 14 years old, Drawn to the intensity and spell of rhythm, she left home then and moved in with her African Drum teacher Godson, and African master drummer Babutune Olatunji, to learn, eat and breathe music. She entered the rarified realm of female percussionists, playing with a number of artists including Bryan Ferry, until she literally found the strength of her own voice. In 1992, she cut her first demo as a singer, and it would go on to become the international hit single, “Damn I Wish I Was Your Lover,” showcasing the tough-yet-tender, movingly transparent vocals that would become her trademark.
Her first album, Tongues and Tails, full of primal, fiery pop, was an immediate success, earning her a
Grammy nomination for “Best New Artist.” Hawkins followed that with Whaler, which featured the smash ballad, “As I Lay Me Down,” which remains the longest-running hit single in the Billboard charts in American history. The album, as equally gutsy as her first yet an atmospheric departure sealed her rising reputation for musical breadth and lyrical depth.
Hawkins’ third album, Timbre, in which she broke out into a more earthy, stripped-back sound that
aimed at the core of her personal expression, was released in 1999. In a move toward artistic independence, Hawkins worked out an arrangement that would allow her to leave her label while retaining the masters to Timbre. She re-released the album on her newly born label Trumpet Swan Productions – then hit the road, on her own this time, just Sophie and her band touring the country in a station wagon.
2004’s Wilderness saw Hawkins diving into a jazzier style for what would become her most musically
layered and emotionally complex album yet, and the first recorded entirely in her Los Angeles home studio. Playfully exploring a collage of musical influences and her own multi-instrumental talents, Hawkins played guitar, cello, keyboard, drums and a variety of exotic percussion on a recording Rolling Stone singled out for its “dreamy charm.”
The roiling energy and close intimacy of Hawkins’ live shows was captured in 2006’s Bad Kitty Board
Mix, a two-disc set recorded in Seattle. Spotlighting her improvisational instincts, Hawkins says she wanted this live album to be something different, “not just the songs you already know, but what they become in front of you, totally raw, exposed and new every night.”
In 2008, Hawkins’ life took one of its most dramatic and enlarging turns yet, as she became the proud
mother of a son, Dashiell, now only 14 months old. “Becoming a mother gave me an amazing new perspective on being an artist,” she muses. “There’s an immense amount of truth and honesty and presence that comes out in our relationship. It’s a constant reminder that the most beautiful thing you can ever do for another person is to fully, passionately and fearlessly express yourself and what you believe in.”
Only Love
Sophie B. Hawkins Lyrics
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Ahaaa
You don't know why I'm crazy
I don't know why your blue
You messed with my head
You messed with the dead
Now I'm gonna mess with you
I'm so in love with you
What's God gonna see
Who's God gonna know
When's God gonna help us through
I can't deny, I can't explain, I can't reply, I can't refrain
I want his hands, I want his chest, I want his feet, I want his sex
I am the child, I am the whore, I am the wild woman at your door
I need to touch, I need to talk, I need to love, I need to give you, you up
What am I fighting for
If I win I lose my life
I need you more and more
To break my will tonight
Only love can set us free
Only love can bear the truth
Only love can bring us peace
Only love can save me and you
Oh Daddy what I've been thinkin'
Only heaven knows
What's Ma gonna see
Who's Ma gonna blame
When's Mama gonna carry you home
I have the urge, I have the mind, I have the touch, I drank the wine
I want the loss, I want the pain, I want to start my life again
I can't define, I can't forget, I can't restrain the feeling of regret
I know the dead, I'm not alone, I made my bed, I want to let you, you go
What am I frightened for
If I speak I lose my mind
You've broken down the door and there is no place to hide
Only love can set us free
Only love can bear the truth
Only love can bring us peace
Only love can save me and you
Only love can purify
Only love can conquer fear
Only love can testify
Only love can make a miracle of life
Only love can set us free
Only love can bear the truth
Only love can bring us peace
Only love can save me and you
Only love can purify
Only love can conquer fear
Only love can testify
Only love can make a miracle of life
The song "Only Love" by Sophie B. Hawkins is an emotional and introspective look into the complexities and struggles of love. The opening lyrics reveal the confusion and tension between two people who can't seem to understand each other. The singer acknowledges her own emotions but is still unable to comprehend the other person's feelings. The lines "You messed with my head, You messed with the dead, Now I'm gonna mess with you" suggest a possible history of hurt between the two individuals.
The second verse delves deeper into the singer's desires and internal conflict. The lyrics reveal a yearning and almost desperate need for physical contact and closeness: "I want his hands, I want his chest, I want his feet, I want his sex". The singer also recognizes her own contradictions and complexities: "I am the child, I am the whore, I am the wild woman at your door". The chorus highlights the power of love to heal and bring peace: "Only love can set us free, Only love can bear the truth, Only love can bring us peace, Only love can save me and you".
In the final verse, the singer reflects on the consequences of her actions and the potential aftermath of the relationship. The lyrics "What's Ma gonna see, Who's Ma gonna blame, When's Mama gonna carry you home" suggest a sense of regret and remorse for hurting the other person. The final repetition of the chorus emphasizes the importance of love and its ability to bring hope and redemption in difficult situations.
Overall, "Only Love" is a powerful and introspective meditation on the complexities and struggles of love, and the potential for its transformative power.
Line by Line Meaning
Sophie, it's time
It's time to listen to what I have to say, Sophie.
You don't know why I'm crazy
You don't understand my behavior, Sophie.
I don't know why your blue
I don't understand why you're sad, Sophie.
You messed with my head
You confused me emotionally, Sophie.
You messed with the dead
You disturbed my sense of the supernatural, Sophie.
Now I'm gonna mess with you
Now I'm going to return the favor, Sophie.
I don't know why your lazy
I don't understand why you're not motivated, Sophie.
I'm so in love with you
I'm deeply in love with you, Sophie.
What's God gonna see
What is God going to witness, Sophie?
Who's God gonna know
Who will God be aware of, Sophie?
When's God gonna help us through
When will God assist us, Sophie?
I can't deny, I can't explain, I can't reply, I can't refrain
I cannot ignore, explain, respond or hold back any longer.
I want his hands, I want his chest, I want his feet, I want his sex
I desire his touch, his embrace, his footing, and his intimacy.
I am the child, I am the whore, I am the wild woman at your door
I embody innocence, promiscuity, and untamed femininity.
I need to touch, I need to talk, I need to love, I need to give you, you up
I have an urge to physically connect, to communicate, to love and to let you go.
What am I fighting for
What am I struggling to achieve?
If I win I lose my life
If I succeed, I risk sacrificing my identity.
I need you more and more
I depend on you increasingly, Sophie.
To break my will tonight
To take control of my intentions tonight.
Only love can set us free
Love is the only force that can liberate us from our emotional struggles.
Only love can bear the truth
Only love can support and convey the honesty of our feelings.
Only love can bring us peace
Only love can grant us tranquility amidst chaos.
Only love can save me and you
Only love can rescue both of us from our emotional turmoil.
Oh Daddy what I've been thinkin'
Father, I need to share what's on my mind.
Only heaven knows
Only God knows the complexity of our situation.
What's Ma gonna see
What will Mom perceive?
Who's Ma gonna blame
Who will Mom hold accountable?
When's Mama gonna carry you home
When will Mom help you return to safety?
I have the urge, I have the mind, I have the touch, I drank the wine
I have a strong desire, i have made my decision, I physically react, and have lost my inhibitions.
I want the loss, I want the pain, I want to start my life again
I welcome the grief, the suffering, the chance to start new.
I can't define, I can't forget, I can't restrain the feeling of regret
I can't explain it, I can't erase it, I can't contain this emotion of remorse.
I know the dead, I'm not alone, I made my bed, I want to let you, you go
I am familiar with loss, I have my own problems, I have chosen my fate, and I want to release you, Sophie.
What am I frightened for
What am I apprehensive about?
If I speak I lose my mind
If I voice my thoughts, I may seem insane.
You've broken down the door and there is no place to hide
You have revealed the truth and there is nowhere to conceal it, Sophie.
Only love can purify
Only love can cleanse our souls of negativity.
Only love can conquer fear
Only love can overcome our feelings of terror.
Only love can testify
Our love for each other is the evidence of our connection.
Only love can make a miracle of life
Only love has the capacity to make our existence remarkable and extraordinary.
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: STEVE HOGARTH, MARK KELLY, IAN MOSLEY, STEVE ROTHERY, PETER TREWAVAS
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@tnawcwvictoria
I remember this song very well from my High School Freshman Year
Sophie B. Hawkins is one of the best storytellers in the music industry
Back in the 90's, you had great Female Singers, Songwriters & Musicians
Sophie B. Hawkins, Stevi Nicks, Melissa Etheridge, Joan Osbourne, Jewel, Paula Cole, Natalie Merchant, Patti Rothberg, Imani Coppola, Amanda Marshall, Bonnie Raitt, Sheryl Crow, Alanis Morrissette, Tori Amos, Liz Phair, Sarah McLaughlin, Cyndi Lauper, Celine Dion, Whitney Houston, Mariah Carey, Janet Jackson, Paula Abdul, Gloria Estefan and of course, The Queen of Pop Herself Madonna
This song was Top 20 Adult Radio, Top 40 on the Adult Contemporary Chart and Top 20 on Casey's Top 40 from 1996
God Bless Sophie B. Hawkins for a job well done
and BTW, I use to watch the Music Video on VH1
Plus, this song was out when shows like The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, California Dreams, Ghostwriter on PBS, American Gladiators, Mighty Morphin' Power Rangers, Living Single, The Crew, Friends, ER, Martin, New York Undercover, X-Men, Party of Five, 90210, The Single Guy, Caroline in the City, Step By Step, Boy Meets World, Hangin' with Mr. Cooper, Hang Time, The Nanny, Dave's World, Murphy Brown, Home Improvement, Frasier, Seinfeld, NewsRadio, Sister Sister, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles on CBS, Ellen, The Drew Carey Show, Grace Under Fire, The Naked Truth, Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego, TNT Saturday NITRO, WCW Monday NITRO on TNT and Sisters were still on the air
Plus, Michael Jordan RULED the NBA on NBC, Troy Aikman, Emmitt Smith, Michael Ervin and the Dallas Cowboys once again RULED the NFL, Bret "The Hitman" Hart still RULED the WWF, ECW was the land of EXTREME, Oprah and Ricki Lake were still the QUEENS of Daytime Talk and America's Team known as the Atlanta Braves RULED the MLB back in the 90's
Remember those days?
@jackschleich9475
i love how you sang that perfect rhythm in the middle of the song.drummer perfect.
@sayusayme7729
Revisiting my favourite artist again and again, perfect timing 💙
@joseagraham6671
Only love can bring us peace ☮️ only love ❤️ can set us free .....hail to the 90’s 💃 🙌🏻💞🥰🤗
@Neely26tv
A great message indeed but still a stupid ass song
@andyhowells2657
The album version of this track is my favourite off the Whaler album - an absolute gem of a release and still sounds great all these years later - keep singing Sophie!
@faithfoxx5140
I first heard the song at the end of mrs. Winterbourne I thought it was real good so glad that I found it after all these months of watching mrs. Winterbourne . Thanks.
@kyrafamilyandfriends3920
Fun fact: all the instruments shown in the video? Sophie can play! Growing up in my teenage years I had a crush on her. I remember thinking "she'd probably wreck me" lol. Thank you Sophie B for being yourself! Your caged intensity always frightened me just a little bit.
@johnconway6267
"Whaler" is one of the greatest albums ever recorded . I love Sophie . (This is a different version of "Only Love" to the one that appears on the album) .
@miltonsanchezjr.8538
Beautiful she signs
I Really like her songs
You do excellent recording .
God bless you with all my respects
And prayers to you all.
@iosifmariano2310
so true, I love that album!