Have You Seen Mary
Sponge Lyrics


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If you see Mary please will you help her
She seems to be looking for answers
If you see Mary please will you help her
with questions that go unanswered

Like why does she feel all dead on the inside
But as a child she remembers feeling alive
who was that man that made
my mother cry all night
was that my father who was my father

If you see Mary please will you help her
She seems to be looking for answers
If you see Mary please will you help her
with questions that go unanswered

The men that walked into her life
are no different than all the others
that promise the world and then they leave her
She says I should have known better,
I should have known better

Will she always feel so all alone
Why was there never a man in her home
and will I end up like my mother
by myself with no other
with no other

If you see Mary please will you help her
She seems to be looking for answers




If you see Mary please will you help her
with questions that go unanswered

Overall Meaning

The song "Have You Seen Mary" by Sponge is a poignant and melancholic exploration of a woman named Mary who is seeking answers to various unanswered questions about her life. The lyrics convey her sense of loneliness and despair as she tries to make sense of her past and her present.


One of the main themes of the song is Mary's search for identity and belonging. She is haunted by questions about her father and her family background, and wonders why she feels so disconnected from the world around her. The lyrics suggest that Mary is struggling to reconcile her memories of a happier childhood with the harsh realities of her adult life.


Another important theme in the song is the role that men have played in Mary's life. The lyrics paint a picture of a woman who has been repeatedly let down by the men she has loved and trusted, and who is now skeptical of any promises of love or commitment. The line "The men that walked into her life are no different than all the others that promise the world and then they leave her" captures this sense of disillusionment and heartbreak.


Overall, "Have You Seen Mary" is a moving portrayal of a woman who is searching for answers and struggling to find her place in the world. The lyrics are full of raw emotion and convey a sense of empathy and understanding for Mary's struggles.


Line by Line Meaning

If you see Mary please will you help her
Sponge is requesting for assistance in locating Mary


She seems to be looking for answers
Mary appears to be searching for explanations


with questions that go unanswered
Her queries continue to elude her


Like why does she feel all dead on the inside
Mary is struggling with emotional numbness


But as a child she remembers feeling alive
She recollects being full of vitality in her younger years


who was that man that made
She reflects on the person responsible for causing harm


my mother cry all night
Her mother was deeply upset by someone's actions


was that my father who was my father
Mary expresses uncertainty about her biological parentage


The men that walked into her life
The individuals who entered Mary's life


are no different than all the others
They are not unique compared to people from her past


that promise the world and then they leave her
They make grand pledges but ultimately abandon her


She says I should have known better,
Mary experiences regret and self-blame


Will she always feel so all alone
Mary wonders if she will forever be lonely


Why was there never a man in her home
She reflects on the absence of a male presence in her household


and will I end up like my mother
Mary fears emulating her mother's fate


by myself with no other
She dreads being alone without companionship


with no other
Again, Mary expresses fear of being without anyone else




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Spirit Music Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: JOE MAZZOLA, MARK P DOMBROSKI, TIMOTHY RYGIEL, MICHAEL CROSS

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