National Holidays
Spymob Lyrics


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Sometimes I want to swing by
To check on her, see how her week is going
But you disapprove
Other times I'll call up
He picks up and makes me feel like I'm intruding

You get to wake her every day
And we divide up National Holidays
This month is highlighted yellow with one box of blue

Last weekend I watched her in
A game I never knew that she played
But she led the team
Afterwards I picked up
A schedule so that I could come the next week secretly

You get to wake her every day
And we divide up National Holidays
This month is highlighted yellow with one box of blue
It didn't help things the last time I complained
Don't want to upset her, I try to explain
But you of all people should walk one year in these shoes

Can we at least be civil to one another?
She only has one father and one mother

Years ago you told me how
You could not imagine life without our little baby




Wouldn't it tear you up too
If you could only see her one day out of thirty?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Spymob's song National Holidays explore the complex relationship between a father and a former lover who shares a child with him. The singer expresses his desire to check on their child and be a part of their life, but the father disapproves and makes him feel like an intruder. The two divide up "National Holidays," which indicates that while the father has custody, the singer gets occasional visits. The highlight of the month shows one box in blue, which might represent a day that the singer can spend with the child.


The singer continues to express his longing to connect with their child by attending their games and shows, but the father's resentment towards him becomes increasingly apparent. The singer implies that the father takes the child for granted as he gets to wake up to them every day while the singer only gets a few visits a month. The song reaches a climax when the singer pleads with the father to be civil and empathize with his situation. He reminds the father that their child only has one father and one mother and that it would tear him up if he could only see his child one day out of thirty.


Overall, National Holidays is a poignant and heartfelt reminder of the complexities of co-parenting and blended families. It touches on themes of love, loss, and the joys and sorrows of parenthood.


Line by Line Meaning

Sometimes I want to swing by
Occasionally, I feel like visiting her


To check on her, see how her week is going
To enquire about how her week has been


But you disapprove
But you do not encourage such visits


Other times I'll call up
At other times, I'll make a phone call


He picks up and makes me feel like I'm intruding
But when he answers the phone, I feel like I am interrupting


You get to wake her every day
You have the privilege of waking her up every day


And we divide up National Holidays
We share the holidays that are celebrated nationally


This month is highlighted yellow with one box of blue
This month is marked with yellow and a blue box in the calendar


Last weekend I watched her in
Recently, I watched her participate in a game


A game I never knew that she played
A game that I had no prior knowledge of her playing


But she led the team
But she was the captain of the team


Afterwards I picked up
Later on, I procured


A schedule so that I could come the next week secretly
The schedule of the next game so that I could attend it clandestinely


It didn't help things the last time I complained
My grievances did not alleviate the situation the last time I expressed them


Don't want to upset her, I try to explain
I attempt to clarify myself without upsetting her


But you of all people should walk one year in these shoes
You especially should consider being in my shoes for a year


Can we at least be civil to one another?
Can't we treat each other politely?


She only has one father and one mother
Remember, she has only one father and one mother


Years ago you told me how
A long time ago, you told me how


You could not imagine life without our little baby
You couldn't envision living without our kid


Wouldn't it tear you up too
Wouldn't it cause you to feel distraught as well


If you could only see her one day out of thirty?
If you could only meet her once in every thirty days




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BRENT PASCHKE, BRIAN ROESSLER, ERIC FAWCETT, JOHN OSTBY

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Comments from YouTube:

Bochanable

This is my favorite song on the album. When I spoke to John Otsby about the song and he told me he didn't have a kid, I was even more impressed because it sounds so authentic. I love the story it is quite enrolling. Great band, great album, great song!

JLT Yes

Woohoo! Child custody and divorce problems!! Yeah!

I listened to this when I was in high school and honestly thought it was a song about an overprotective family restricting the boyfriend from seeing their daughter. Oh boy was I wrong.

mikealan61

I gotta agree with your comments about this being such a catchy song with sad lyrics. The first few times I listened to it I didn't know the lyrics and just loved the groove in it. Then I actually listened to the lyrics and was caught by how such a happy melody could have such sad lyrics. I still love the song, although I have wondered if one of the guys in the band has dealt with the lyric's topics, hence the the song.

Samantha Schechter

This song has such a great melody, but once you listen to the lyrics, it's really sad. ;n;

Kevin McLogan

Saddest upbeat song ever.

Benjamin Felix

Awesome.

memnocksdevil311

cant seem to find a couple of spymobs best songs on youtube :/ .....

Jon Skeens

Hi memnocksdevil311, what are the best spymobs songs you can't find? Are you able to upload them? Thanks.

memnocksdevil311

the full length is ok, songs are good, but they were better when they wernt overproduced

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